Just wondering...

[Polo2847]

Ok, so first I'm not asking for any tips or anything on how to do this. I was in the shower one day, taking my time and deeply thinking and reflecting about the world and I came to this question: Would foreplay defeat the use of condoms to protect against STD's? During foreplay, there's many things that are unprotected. For example, giving a BJ to start with...you would already make body fluid contact with one another. If you finger your partner, you could possibly lick it without thinking, or when it's time to put on a condom, wouldn't you have to take your finger that you fingered with, to roll down the condom? You just trapped their anal/vaginal fluid inside your condom. If you kiss, you would've obviously gotten STD's. I know the first step is to get tested, but what if it was like..you guys just didn't test for some reason. What are your opinions on this?

[Hunterrrr]

It depends how people are, some get carried away, and forgot it. And some are determined that they will use protection. It varies and I guess it's normal.

[ImCoolBeans]

Thats why it's suggested that you use a condom when preforming oral sex. A lot of the suggested ways to go about it are usually tossed out the window.

[nick2014]

Thats why u do it with the one ulove :D

[senior.2013]

As said, there are many precautions put in place, but many are forgotten in the excitement. People should just be careful and pay attention to what theyre doing. And as Nick said, you should be doing everything with the person you fall in love with.

[leafgreenangel]

i guess there is no way to protect yourself if your not tested... so just do it with a person you trust and make sure they have been tested