Peer pressure help

[Berodas]

I was in a chat with my friends acouple of min ago and they all started to talk about puberty and they all said the masterbate and they asked me if i did and i just logged out. Know i am thinking i should start masterbating. I am 14 btw.:confused::(

[Pioneer92]

hmm, you really remind me of another poster called "dope"

anyway you can masturbate if you want to or dont if you dont want to, its a personal decision.

[Bobby]

Pretty much what he said, it's your choice. It's something many people do, but not everyone.

[Reggy]

Ok, Im probably gonna get alot of shit for this but...

If you don't feel comfortable masturbating yet, or it goes against any moral values of yours just tell them, or just lie about it.

Obviously lying isn't the best policy, but it seems pretty harmless if it gets them off your backs, and there isn't really anyway they could find out that you don't.
Of course you should try and just tell them next time they ask you that you don't, but if you can't because you are embarrassed (even though it's totally normal and fine not to masturbate) or something, I don't see the harm in just saying you do masturbate.

-Will

[Berodas]

i want to thank you all for the help i have alot of stuff but i still have to think plz more post if u have ideas.

[Melchi0r]

Try it if you want to but if you don't feel that it's right, then don't do it. Follow your heart. And don't worry if you start masturbating. Almost every teenage guy does it.

[Gumleaf]

only try to masturbate if you want to do it. its your decision, not anyone elses. never feel preasured into masturbating if you don't want to do it.

[Berodas]

im still not sure i right now going for yes but i am not sure.

[Pioneer92]

either you do it because you want to or you dont do it because you dont want to

its entirely up to you, i dont know why you need us to make the decision for you...

[dope]

it all up to u, but do NOT LIE to them cuse if u do they might want to masturbate with u . any way do what u want. either way your ok. it fine if u dont just say i dont like it or i never heard of it...just a little white li, right?
Dope

[Ethannnnnn]

as everyone else said its your decision if it feels wrong dont do it if it feels right do it

[JoshDude]

If you dont want to masturbate, you shouldnt be pressured into it. Its your body, and you have the mindset to do what you feel is right.

[MoveAlong]

Wait, so you want to know if you should start masturbating or wondering if you should masturbate with your friends?

1) yes
2) no

[Berodas]

na it is the start one

[DestroyTheFuture]

aight look son.


ive been gone for a short break, and so ive come back now...

i like to consider myself a puberty help guru (MoveAlong is also considered one as well) so i can help you a lot

basically, masturbate.

simple.

nothing is wrong with it, and it is better for you to do then to not do.

im going to be honest here because i think that somebody has to say this and unfortunately im always the one who has to

"so tell us your most crazy jacking story"
"uhhh, i dont jack off"
"what? hahaha. hey jerry, get a load of this guy over here sayin he doesnt choke the chicken!"

ofcourse, this depends on your age, and the personality of your friends...JUST AN EXAMPLE.

i have a lot of different friends but most of them interfere with the more popular lifestyle, as i do too...and this is an example of what my friends would say and things like that. im also 15, and that plays a part in it too, because a seemingly exaggerated amount of kids have masturbated by then.

if you are 13 or 14 (pretty old still) then you might get away without as much embarassment. my advice is to lie about it, and read this site to get a lot of information about masturbating so you are somewhat educated.

[MoveAlong]

Hmm...I'd just say start jacking off! :P

[Cap'nCrunch]

I started masturbating much earlier than 14 if I remember correctly.

There's nothing wrong with masturbating (unless you're Christian), but if you don't WANT to masturbate or if you're uncomfortable with it, don't be pressured into doing it.

[Antares]

its your desision
but it prolly wasnt the best desision to just log off
you might get some negative feedback on that

[MRcongeniality]

its your choice if you want to, its just like if people like to do there hair in the morning, not everyone does, well, that was a bad example, but you should catch my drift.

[A.J.]

i want to thank you all for the help i have alot of stuff but i still have to think plz more post if u have ideas.

You do not have have to masturbate if you dont feel comfertable doing it. Its something some people choose to do and if you try it and dont like it, you can just stop. Dont do anything you dont wanna do.:)

[NintendoFanboy]

I started masturbating much earlier than 14 if I remember correctly.

There's nothing wrong with masturbating (unless you're Christian), but if you don't WANT to masturbate or if you're uncomfortable with it, don't be pressured into doing it.

Actually, even if you're Christian, it doesn't matter! The bible says nothing of it! I'm a christian, I masturbate regularly!

[Camazotz]

The decision to masturbate choice is yours. You should try it, and if it doesnt feel right, just don't do it. But it was proven normal and healthy.(Read announcemet) Thanks!

[MoveAlong]

The decision to masturbate choice is yours. You should try it, and if it doesnt feel right, just don't do it. But it was proven normal and healthy.(Read Sticky)

That's right! :D
(by the way, it's not a sticky, it's an announcement)

[lardlad2002]

ive masturbated since i was 11. now i do it twice a day. try it. you'll like it.