Should i do it?

[JakeRS]

Greetings everyone,been a long time since i visited the forum :),sorry if i forgot some English :D,anyway i wanted to ask a question,here is the story,i kind of need a relationship advice,the text is kinda long,sorry for that :D.
I am from Serbia (i am telling this because i don't know the system in usa or uk) and here we have elementary schools and middle schools basically connected,we have around 20-30 student groups and they are called classes or something like that (dunno how to translate it) so for instance i was first in 1d,then 2d,3d,4d,...8d and all with the same 24 friends,so i have fallen in love with a girl from my ,,class,, and that actually happened about a year ago,maybe 2 years ago and i never really talked to her before that,so basically i have been with her in the same class for 7 years and rarely talked to her,then i started talking to her online,but again rarely in person and she didn't like me,plus i was kind of ,,pushy,, on the net so again she didn't like me,about a year passed and step by step we talked more and more and she began to like me as a friend,then in the past summer i felt that i should tell her that i like her,but we talked one night online and she said that she got in a relation with some ass**ole that had 30 girls per week and i was feeling awful,then i said that i liked her and she said that she was sorry,that happened on the end of the 8.th grade or end of middle school,now a year latter we are all going in different high schools and we rarely see each other,for instance last time i saw 2 of my best friends from middle school was in December,but ok i have seen them today and yesterday,so all in all for some reason i fell in love with her again and we started talking online again and i think that she likes me now a million times more than a year ago,like a friend,we also see each other 2 or 3 times a month when we go to or from school and she smiles when she sees me and we talk for a few moments before we continue to where we are going,a year ago that would never happen,she would either ignore me or say hi,but just be neutral so to say,2 months ago i asked her whether she has a boyfriend and she said that she doesn't,so i was thinking that maybe i should try to get in a relation with her,i think that maybe i could have had a relation with her if i had more balls in middle school and just said it,instead of waiting for that as..ole to do it,so i am still not sure whether i should do this,because on one way my dream may come true,but on the other by doing so i can ruin the entire friend relation that i have with her now,i personally think that i should do it,but i want to see what others say.
some additional stuff,in my new school there are pretty much no beautiful girls,the ones that are are already in a relationship or are just hoes,so she is pretty much the only girl that i know that ,,i am in her league,, and that is beautiful,another thing,i can't invite her on a date,because we don't have dates in this part of europe,if you go with her somewhere its assumed that you are already in a relation,unlike in usa where a date is like a test ride :D in my view that is,here she would never accept to go on a date.
I also have a plan on how to get alone with her if i decide to do it,i call it operation decisive answer :D,
first i try to talk to her online and say that we should meet near her house because i want to tell her something or ask her something,still haven't got over what exactly i should say,then we agree on a time of the meeting if everything goes by the plan
step 2,we live in the suburbs,so its just residential homes and there is like an alley near hear home,its actually just a place between 2 houses that people made a path between and now everyone can use it to skip going all around,so i was thinking that when we meet on the agreed date/time we should go there,because its secluded,my excuse will be that i don't want her parents to listen to us or other people to do that :D,if she asks me what i wanted to say to her i will say that i forgot and that i will probably remember when we reach the alley :D ,when we do reach it i will tell her ,,i like you,, and then we will see what happens.

[JakeRS]

C'mon people,30 views and no answers? I really need an advice i have never been in a relationship,so is it really that hard to give me an advice or something?

[Mirage]

Your "operation decisive answer" could actually work. It actually sounds really good. Also, good job with the English! Yes, they are indeed called classes. You seem very smart, imho. But yeah, continue with your operation and it should work out. This may sound stupid but rehearse what your'e going to say in the mirror so you don't mess up when it matters most.

Good luck!

EDIT: LOL, I clicked on the video and it says "As Seen On: Virtual Teen Forums"

[JakeRS]

s*it,i had that happen before when i put a video of some ugly singer :D,i am going to delete the link,to see whether will it delete the as seen on thing,thanks for the reply :).

[JakeRS]

Tomorrow or in Tuesday or Wednesday is the D-day,today is orthodox Easter,so i will do nothing today,tomorrow is the last day of the 10 day spring break,so i will either do it then because i have the whole day except the evening because of something or during some school day,earlier her school went into the morning shift and mine went on evening shift,so i could rarely see her,now her changed into the evening shift and my doesn't change until the end of the year,so i just got every day until some 12.00h to do it,but i will try to do it as fast as i can,wish me luck guys :).

[JakeRS]

A really,really awful thing happened yesterday,i was talking with her online (i still didn't tell her that i like her) and she tells me that there is a guy that she likes,who isn't me,so i was so mad that i couldn't sleep until 3.30 am,because this is the second time the same situation happens,the first was in the last summer,but ok,she isn't in a relationship yet,last time she was,today i talked with our shared female friend and she said that i should still try,regardless of that as.hole,so i will try to meet with her in Wednesday and see who will she choose,i think that i will loose,because she likes the other guy and doesn't even know that i like her,but i don't care,maybe she changes her mind,my friend also told me that i should tell her that i like her via internet,but i think that that is a really bad idea,because i have a feeling that she will think that i don't have the courage to talk with her in person and also it would be a lot easier for her to say no to me,if i meet with her there will be no ,,place to run,,,so to say,any advice before my kamikaze move? :D

[RCT109]

here is my advice tell her ASAP because if she likes someone else than you have to move fast if you want her to know

[JakeRS]

Thanks :),unfortunately i can't ask her today because i am going to school a lot earlier and i don't really have time today,so i hope that i will tomorrow.

[JakeRS]

I have another bad news,its not awful,but it isn't any good either,she doesn't want to meet,i told her that i like someone and that i need a help with that someone,but that i can't tell her online because i think that she will tell someone (she and her 2 best friends share everything),perhaps i should have used a different story,because i had only one shot at that,if i tell her something different that includes her and me meeting she will see that i want only to meet with her,so there is only one way left,to tell her online,i already said why that is a bad idea (because she will think that i have ,,lady balls,, (quotation from south park) :D ,that i am afraid to tell her in person,etc. and she will have a lot easier time telling me no online,than in person),but still our shared friend still tells me to do that,actually she told me to tell it online and not in person from the start,she (the friend) told me that she (the girl) will get me serious regardless of the way i tell her,so tonight i will think of a way to tell her and tomorrow i will ,,execute the plan,, ,i could have said it today,after the first plan failed,but i don't want to tell something wrong i want it to be perfect,also i have 9 more posts until i get the 250+ rank. :D

[RCT109]

I have another bad news,its not awful,but it isn't any good either,she doesn't want to meet,i told her that i like someone and that i need a help with that someone,but that i can't tell her online because i think that she will tell someone (she and her 2 best friends share everything),perhaps i should have used a different story,because i had only one shot at that,if i tell her something different that includes her and me meeting she will see that i want only to meet with her,so there is only one way left,to tell her online,i already said why that is a bad idea (because she will think that i have ,,lady balls,, (quotation from south park) :D ,that i am afraid to tell her in person,etc. and she will have a lot easier time telling me no online,than in person),but still our shared friend still tells me to do that,actually she told me to tell it online and not in person from the start,she (the friend) told me that she (the girl) will get me serious regardless of the way i tell her,so tonight i will think of a way to tell her and tomorrow i will ,,execute the plan,, ,i could have said it today,after the first plan failed,but i don't want to tell something wrong i want it to be perfect,also i have 9 more posts until i get the 250+ rank. :D

I guess when all else fails tell her online and congrats with the 250+
Also, if its the last option, online, I do not think of you having "lady balls"

Shawn

[JakeRS]

I guess when all else fails tell her online and congrats with the 250+
Also, if its the last option, online, I do not think of you having "lady balls"

Shawn

thanks :D

[RCT109]

thanks :D

you're welcome

[JakeRS]

FINALLY,i told her,online,she was mostly neutral about it,i asked her what does she think about it and she said ,,ok,, ,but she added some ,,happy smileys,, :D ,so i count it as happier neutral,i mean her reaction was a million times better than the one i expected,having in mind that she would say get lost,i don't care or something if i asked her a year ago and that she still probably likes that s.it stain (sorry for my kind words for him :D),so i told her that i will ask her tomorrow the same question (what does she think about it),she said that she will say ,,ok,, again,but i doubt it,because few hours ago she didn't even know that i like her and now she does,so she can think about it,so all in all tomorrow i will also ask her whether she wants to be together,i am a lot less optimistic about that question,but if i told her this i can tell her anything.

[RCT109]

FINALLY,i told her,online,she was mostly neutral about it,i asked her what does she think about it and she said ,,ok,, ,but she added some ,,happy smileys,, :D ,so i count it as happier neutral,i mean her reaction was a million times better than the one i expected,having in mind that she would say get lost,i don't care or something if i asked her a year ago and that she still probably likes that s.it stain (sorry for my kind words for him :D),so i told her that i will ask her tomorrow the same question (what does she think about it),she said that she will say ,,ok,, again,but i doubt it,because few hours ago she didn't even know that i like her and now she does,so she can think about it,so all in all tomorrow i will also ask her whether she wants to be together,i am a lot less optimistic about that question,but if i told her this i can tell her anything.

I wish I had your optamism right about now

Im stuck in a predicament right now just as you

[Drew5]

Unstick and take chance

[JakeRS]

What should i do now?
I am in a really awkward position now,i haven't said anything to her since the last post (when i said i like her) other than some stuff that isn't connected to our relation,so today after we went home from school i saw her in the bus and we went home together for some 3,4 minutes,we were alone and we talked about some stuff that again isn't related to the relation thing,she didn't mention it,so i didn't want to either and then i went to my home and she to hers,i actually have a new plan,i wanted to go home today with her,but she wasn't online today morning,so i couldn't ask her whether she would like to go home with me,but its better that i didn't ask her,because today was raining and we went with the bus as i said,so i will try to ask her whether she wants to go home tomorrow with me,hopefully the weather will not be bad so that we don't have to take the bus and there is a street that we go through that has that lonely feeling,like there is no one to see what you are doing,there's not that much people,so i think that i could talk to her about our relationship when we get there,the only problem could be some of our or her friends that may come along with us,one of our friends that will probably come along stops going with us before the ,,lonely street,, so i suppose that there should be no problems about that,so that is my little plan,but be free to give me another one or at least some advice if you want to.

edit:forgot to mention,when we were going home today,after we got of the bus,she was smiling all the way,she wasn't negative or ignoring me,so i thought that i should say this,its not that important,but still...

[RCT109]

What should i do now?
I am in a really awkward position now,i haven't said anything to her since the last post (when i said i like her) other than some stuff that isn't connected to our relation,so today after we went home from school i saw her in the bus and we went home together for some 3,4 minutes,we were alone and we talked about some stuff that again isn't related to the relation thing,she didn't mention it,so i didn't want to either and then i went to my home and she to hers,i actually have a new plan,i wanted to go home today with her,but she wasn't online today morning,so i couldn't ask her whether she would like to go home with me,but its better that i didn't ask her,because today was raining and we went with the bus as i said,so i will try to ask her whether she wants to go home tomorrow with me,hopefully the weather will not be bad so that we don't have to take the bus and there is a street that we go through that has that lonely feeling,like there is no one to see what you are doing,there's not that much people,so i think that i could talk to her about our relationship when we get there,the only problem could be some of our or her friends that may come along with us,one of our friends that will probably come along stops going with us before the ,,lonely street,, so i suppose that there should be no problems about that,so that is my little plan,but be free to give me another one or at least some advice if you want to.

edit:forgot to mention,when we were going home today,after we got of the bus,she was smiling all the way,she wasn't negative or ignoring me,so i thought that i should say this,its not that important,but still...

OK so the walking home is an awesome Idea. The only problem with it is the "lonely street" as you called it. It may seem strange and make her feel uncomfortable. Also, is the "lonely street" on the way or are you making a detour?

Here is my Advice: Try to ask After your friend leaves. If the lonely street is not a detour then ask her there but if it is then just ask after your friend being gone for a few minutes

good luck and let us know
shawn

[scott757]

Yup if it's on the way just go for it. If you have seen that she has been happier since you told her then yeah, I say you have a good chance :D

Im stuck in a predicament right now just as you

Join the club :yawn:

[JakeRS]

@roby it both is and isn't,in serbia you have 2 schools before the high school,1-4 grades are elementary and 5-8 are middle school,but we call it all elementary,the 5-8 grade school was in the same direction from our part of the city as our current high schools are,so we went through the lonely street a lot,actually its 2 streets,not just one,but there is one bigger that i am referring to,there is also a route that has less turning,but is longer a bit,here is a map that i drew,it isn't precise and detailed but it shows all you need to know,i marked the lonely street(s) with orange,the less used route with dark red and the path that we took in 5-8 school with yellow-gray-cream,what ever that is,also the path from our part of the city to the schools is a lot longer,but i didn't draw it because its not that important.

http://img204.imageshack.us/img204/4029/map12345.png

[RCT109]

@roby it both is and isn't,in serbia you have 2 schools before the high school,1-4 grades are elementary and 5-8 are middle school,but we call it all elementary,the 5-8 grade school was in the same direction from our part of the city as our current high schools are,so we went through the lonely street a lot,actually its 2 streets,not just one,but there is one bigger that i am referring to,there is also a route that has less turning,but is longer a bit,here is a map that i drew,it isn't precise and detailed but it shows all you need to know,i marked the lonely street(s) with orange,the less used route with dark red and the path that we took in 5-8 school with yellow-gray-cream,what ever that is,also the path from our part of the city to the schools is a lot longer,but i didn't draw it because its not that important.

image (http://img204.imageshack.us/img204/4029/map12345.png)

OK I say go for it at the "lonely street" and see what happenes
best of luck

[JakeRS]

thanks,unfortunately she told me that today she is going to home one class earlier than me,which means about 45 minutes earlier,so i can't do it today,tomorrow we (my school) are going on a whole day field trip to Belgrade,in Thursday we have the day of our school or something,then we will have only 3 short classes and some manifestation that is obligatory to attend,so who knows when will we exit,so all in all i don't think that i will get a chance to do it before Friday.

[RCT109]

well look at it this way
it gives you time to think about what to say

[JakeRS]

I have 2 good news,first i found out that in Friday she is going to exit her school at around 18.05 and i will exit my school about 17.50,so we will be able to meet,the other thing is that her friend (my also,but not the ,,shared,, one that i spoke in my first few posts),also the friend that i told that could be the problem said that she will go somewhere in the city on her dance practices or something,so it seems that i will be alone with her (girl i like) all the way from the city to our homes,can't wait :D.

[RCT109]

good luck and wow thats late to get out of school
here in USA i get out at 16.05

[JakeRS]

Well we have 2 shifts here,the morning and the afternoon one,the first goes from 7.30 to 13.30 and the second from 13.30 to 19.25,so you can say that we are getting out earlier than usual,classes here are 45 minutes,i think that they are about an hour and a half in usa,right?

[RCT109]

Well we have 2 shifts here,the morning and the afternoon one,the first goes from 7.30 to 13.30 and the second from 13.30 to 19.25,so you can say that we are getting out earlier than usual,classes here are 45 minutes,i think that they are about an hour and a half in usa,right?

It depends on the school
My freshman year we had an A-B day where we had hour and a half classes , 4 per day.
now we have 8 and they are 50 minutes and the classes are everyday so no more a-b

[JakeRS]

Damn,i have talked with the girl i like for 3 hours,but she doesn't want to go home,she will go with her friend on her dance practices,she said that she would go home with me if there wasn't this practice thing today,but...Another problem is that tomorrow is the last school day before the short school break that will last until Thursday next week,but i just can't wait that long,i will talk to her tomorrow,she went to sleep now so i can't talk to her anymore today...So i am screwed,even when the break goes away i still have the chance to go with her home only on Fridays and perhaps Wednesdays and she has those f.cking practices on both days,so i will have to try to convince her not to go to them at least one time...

[RCT109]

wow that sucks well you better ask her tomorrow then dude

[JakeRS]

i can only talk to her after the school when she gets online,because i don't have her phone number,i didn't need it since i could talk to her via internet and she also never comes before school online,so i guess that i will try to convince her to meet with me in saturday,i hope that she will say yes,too bad that this great chance was wasted...

[RCT109]

IK im planning on asking the girl i like out at a movie
that is if she says yes to go to the movies

[JakeRS]

I know that it is offtopic,but how is it going? Are you friends and stuff,etc...?

[RCT109]

yeah she and I are friends
Ive been trying to hang out with her these past few weeks but with our lives being so hectick, we never get the time to. Also, I asked her if she wanted to go see the Titanic and she was up for it but she was bussy and then the next weekend I ran out of money. All on all we are friends. I just asked her to go see The Raven this weekend and I hope she says yes so I can ask her to be my girlfriend there.

Here is the link to the Trailer of the Rave // it is a scary movie based On the works Of Edger Allen Poe


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-PGDV1SWRkQ

I really hope she says yes to going
I also offered to pay for it so I really hope she says she wants to go

[JakeRS]

Wait,you asked her and you are waiting for her reply,or...?
Also,you should try to make a back up plan (that's what i am doing for the last 2 weeks :D) ,if she says no to movies,maybe try to go with her to a zoo,a shopping mall or something or just try to tell her that you want to talk with her about something,but that it is a surprise so you have to meet somewhere or something like that,she will have to say yes to at least one of those things,anyway good luck. :)

[Smeagol]

Good luck telling her!

[RCT109]

Thanks but I will plan on the zoo if she says no to the movies
but im hoping she says yes to the movies
and the Raven is said to be scary or thats what I get from the preview so I hope it works out that she says yes and It will all work out

But again thanks yall and good luck to you too

[scott757]

Good luck to the both of you! Im sure it will all go well, the fact their wanting to be with you is always a good sign :P

Im at the opposite end of the relationship cycle right now, mine seems to be dwindling to nothing now, not sure how mine will work out... atleast you guys have a shot :)

[RCT109]

hey good luck scott and thanks

[JakeRS]

Fu.k,i talked to her online and she told me that she doesn't know why i want to meet with her and she told me that she doesn't like me in ,,that,, way and that she never will,so we had a long discussion and she told me that she is in a relationship with some piece of a s.it and she told me that even if she wasn't she still wouldn't give me a chance,because she 1.put me in the friendzone and 2.thinks that i am a shy geek that i was a year and a half ago,so then i told her that i tried to prove it to her that i am not,but she didn't care,so i did what everyone in that situation should,i told her that she thinks too much about how she is better than anyone else,how she is a ,,princes,, and stuff like that,i hope that i dropped her at least a little,i am just sad that i will never return the year and a half that i wasted on her...

edit:well some time passed since we talked and we are still talking,but about other stuff and she seems to not be mad at me,she put some smiley faces and stuff in the stuff we are talking about now,i know that it sounds crazy now,but i still like her and i will try to give this thing one last try,tomorrow,now i am tired...

[RCT109]

Fu.k,i talked to her online and she told me that she doesn't know why i want to meet with her and she told me that she doesn't like me in ,,that,, way and that she never will,so we had a long discussion and she told me that she is in a relationship with some piece of a s.it and she told me that even if she wasn't she still wouldn't give me a chance,because she 1.put me in the friendzone and 2.thinks that i am a shy geek that i was a year and a half ago,so then i told her that i tried to prove it to her that i am not,but she didn't care,so i did what everyone in that situation should,i told her that she thinks too much about how she is better than anyone else,how she is a ,,princes,, and stuff like that,i hope that i dropped her at least a little,i am just sad that i will never return the year and a half that i wasted on her...

edit:well some time passed since we talked and we are still talking,but about other stuff and she seems to not be mad at me,she put some smiley faces and stuff in the stuff we are talking about now,i know that it sounds crazy now,but i still like her and i will try to give this thing one last try,tomorrow,now i am tired...

well you know what you told her and thats the best thing
I still havent told the girl i like yet that i like her
so i give you props

[JakeRS]

Then hurry up,she told me that she is with that asshole for less than a week now,which means that i f.cked up because i was too slow,so you should try to tell your crush as fast as you can,so when did you plan to tell her?

[RCT109]

Then hurry up,she told me that she is with that asshole for less than a week now,which means that i f.cked up because i was too slow,so you should try to tell your crush as fast as you can,so when did you plan to tell her?

i planned on telling her when we went to the movies but she never got back to me on that so I'm planning on telling her this week at school.

I'm also going to ask her out to

[JakeRS]

Hey guys,i am still going to try to get this relation working,but i need help,so the situation is as i said that she has a boyfriend and that she friendzoned me,i know that she said that i don't have a chance with her,but i think that she said it only because she was mad at me,because i was pushy again and that she is already in a relationship,currently we are talking normally,like friends,there isn't any awkward feeling,i still haven't seen her in person,so i don't know,i was thinking to try to get her to meet with me,before she didn't want to,but i have a feeling that she won't have any problem with it now that she told me that she is in a relationship,so anyway i don't know what to talk to her about when i do meet her i only figured out that i can say some stuff like i like you more than that other guy,i have been thinking only about you for the last 2 weeks and similar stuff,but i will tell her that in 5,6 seconds,what next? I am even thinking of surprise kissing her,because then she would definitely stop looking me as just a friend and then she maybe even start liking me a bit and stop looking at me as a shy geek,although that is very risky because she can also say that she doesn't want to see or talk to me again and stuff like that,so what should i do? I tried to stop liking her and to try and find another girl,but i can't ,,unlike her,, and also there just isn't any other girl that is perfect to me,others are either too out of my league,sluts or just aren't pretty enough.

[RCT109]

Hey guys,i am still going to try to get this relation working,but i need help,so the situation is as i said that she has a boyfriend and that she friendzoned me,i know that she said that i don't have a chance with her,but i think that she said it only because she was mad at me,because i was pushy again and that she is already in a relationship,currently we are talking normally,like friends,there isn't any awkward feeling,i still haven't seen her in person,so i don't know,i was thinking to try to get her to meet with me,before she didn't want to,but i have a feeling that she won't have any problem with it now that she told me that she is in a relationship,so anyway i don't know what to talk to her about when i do meet her i only figured out that i can say some stuff like i like you more than that other guy,i have been thinking only about you for the last 2 weeks and similar stuff,but i will tell her that in 5,6 seconds,what next? I am even thinking of surprise kissing her,because then she would definitely stop looking me as just a friend and then she maybe even start liking me a bit and stop looking at me as a shy geek,although that is very risky because she can also say that she doesn't want to see or talk to me again and stuff like that,so what should i do? I tried to stop liking her and to try and find another girl,but i can't ,,unlike her,, and also there just isn't any other girl that is perfect to me,others are either too out of my league,sluts or just aren't pretty enough.

Well don't tell her whats were going to
just talk about sports or something
and DON"T kiss her

[RCT109]

And An Update on me

Hannah couldnt come to the movies so I was disappointed

[scott757]

And an update from me - join the unlucky club - im considering ending it -_- we have some amazing love life, don't we? :P

[RCT109]

And an update from me - join the unlucky club - im considering ending it -_- we have some amazing love life, don't we? :P

We do they are so amazing

[JakeRS]

Roby,have you tried with the plan b (the zoo and stuff) ?

[RCT109]

Roby,have you tried with the plan b (the zoo and stuff) ?

Well Not yet because she is usually busy on the weekends. But I will ask her if she wants to go

and this is all dependent on if i have the money

[JakeRS]

Hey guys,i have good news and a bad one related to it,so the girl i like said that she has nothing against me going with her home from school tomorrow,which is great,another good thing is that her female friend will go to her dance practice thing again,however,she said that a guy,from her school will also go with us home,i have no idea who he is,she just said that he lives near the home of another of our friend,who happens to live in the ,,lonely street,, ,so if this guy lives in the same street my plans are screwed,because once you get out of that street it is just some 5,6 houses till my house,so we will have only a minute of ,,alone time,, ,so i hope that he either doesn't come with us or just that he lives somewhere where he can leave us so that we have some time alone,we will go to school in saturday also,because we were on the 1.may day vacation thing,so we have to work it out (no logic there,but...) so i may go with her home then again,so i hope that at least then that guy will not go with us,anyway i hope that this works out and that i come here tomorrow with some good news :).

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Srecno :)

[cra1g]

Good luck man hope it works out

[JakeRS]

hvala (thanks) :D

prince,check your pm :).

[RCT109]

Hey guys,i have good news and a bad one related to it,so the girl i like said that she has nothing against me going with her home from school tomorrow,which is great,another good thing is that her female friend will go to her dance practice thing again,however,she said that a guy,from her school will also go with us home,i have no idea who he is,she just said that he lives near the home of another of our friend,who happens to live in the ,,lonely street,, ,so if this guy lives in the same street my plans are screwed,because once you get out of that street it is just some 5,6 houses till my house,so we will have only a minute of ,,alone time,, ,so i hope that he either doesn't come with us or just that he lives somewhere where he can leave us so that we have some time alone,we will go to school in saturday also,because we were on the 1.may day vacation thing,so we have to work it out (no logic there,but...) so i may go with her home then again,so i hope that at least then that guy will not go with us,anyway i hope that this works out and that i come here tomorrow with some good news :).

Good luck
Im thinking of telling the girl i like this friday[tomorrow]

[JakeRS]

Then good luck to you too :).

[RCT109]

Then good luck to you too :).

thanks

[JakeRS]

I will have to go with her tomorrow,today i waited her for like an half hour,she probably had one more class (usually they don't have that last class i forgot why,so the school allows them to go home,but they apparently had it today) and also my friend from the old school came by and we went home together,because i was too bored to wait her,tomorrow is Saturday,but a working day so i will have to ask her when do they go home tomorrow.

edit:i was right,they stayed on that last class,so its better that i left earlier.

[RCT109]

I will have to go with her tomorrow,today i waited her for like an half hour,she probably had one more class (usually they don't have that last class i forgot why,so the school allows them to go home,but they apparently had it today) and also my friend from the old school came by and we went home together,because i was too bored to wait her,tomorrow is Saturday,but a working day so i will have to ask her when do they go home tomorrow.

edit:i was right,they stayed on that last class,so its better that i left earlier.

ah ok so whats the plan now

[JakeRS]

I will try to go with her home,to get alone with her and then just talk about our relation,i am still thinking of what exactly to say,but i already know some stuff that i am going to say i won't think out the whole conversation,because i don't know what her reaction will be,so i will just have to see it,anyway how are doing on your plan? I will call her when i get out of the school to see when they are leaving the school,because i go out 2,3 classes before the last class,but i don't know when do they go,i asked her but she doesn't know,because she always asks her friend,but she (her female friend) won't be in school tomorrow,so she also didn't pay attention to the time,so who knows,maybe i will have to wait a few more days (i hope not).

forgot to ask,roby,did you tell her that you like her?

[JakeRS]

I asked another girl from her class that i know when do they exit,but she also didn't know,she said probably around 3pm,which is not good,since i am exiting around 4pm,so it looks like we will have to wait a few more days.

[RCT109]

JakeRs, no I didnt I had a few personal things to take care of and that got in the way
with the personal things being on my mind in class I was not in the best frame of mind
I plan on doing it this up coming week

[JakeRS]

I haven't seen her today,i was thinking of whether to call her on her cell phone,but didn't because i didn't want her to get in detention or something if she was still in class,so i waited there for some 15 minutes and then went home with the bus,when i arrived i saw that her friend that i mentioned today was online on facebook,but i didn't ask her when did they left,because i don't even know her friend that much,so now i will wait for the girl i like to come online to see when did they finish the school,also i have another plan that could help me a bit,i think that i should talk with our shared friend that goes with her in class to see if she will give me their weekly schedule,because that would be awesome,i already know that she goes home alone on mondays,thursdays and fridays (fridays only sometimes,because she goes to the dance practices sometimes),so all i need now is to know when do they get out on which days.Tomorrow is Sunday,so i won't be doing anything.

[RCT109]

well good luck man

[JakeRS]

Thanks for the third or fourth time :D,anyway the friend that goes with her still didn't come online,so it seems that i will have to wait for tomorrow to talk to her,the girl i like came about an hour ago,but she wasn't really in a mood to talk for some reason,so i didn't want to ask her when did they leave...

[RCT109]

Thanks for the third or fourth time :D,anyway the friend that goes with her still didn't come online,so it seems that i will have to wait for tomorrow to talk to her,the girl i like came about an hour ago,but she wasn't really in a mood to talk for some reason,so i didn't want to ask her when did they leave...

NP
and yeah dont ask near the other friend

[RCT109]

Well Here is an Update on me

I had an awesome week and I got a job and its my parents 16th Anniversary
so this week is full of good omens
Im gunna ask Hannah out on Monday

[JakeRS]

Congrats on the job :) and good luck with the girl,regarding me,i have really,really bad grades and if i don't fix them until the middle of June i might fail the grade,so i have been occupied with learning the last week and girls were the last thing on my mind,also today i was thinking that i should ask the (female) friend of the girl i like,when do they get out of the school on which days in the week (i already know that they get out approximately at the same time that i do in Thursdays),i still think that i have a chance,but a very low chance because i am both ,,friendzoned,, and she is in a relationship already,but we will see what happens :).

[RCT109]

God luck on the grades

i have had trouble with my grades too but i've been helping her with hers so it works

[JakeRS]

Nothing new,i was still learning and fixing my grades,i still have some work to do,but at least now i will not fail the grade,i may still go to summer school (maybe i even don't,i still have time to fix everything),but who cares,its better to lose one summer,than to lose a whole year,anyway,it seems that my plan to go home with her by walking won't work,so i decided that i will try to talk to her about our relation when we get of the bus (we leave school and go with the same bus home on Thursdays),i will have just about 3 tiny minutes,but it seems like it is the only way...

[RCT109]

Nothing new,i was still learning and fixing my grades,i still have some work to do,but at least now i will not fail the grade,i may still go to summer school (maybe i even don't,i still have time to fix everything),but who cares,its better to lose one summer,than to lose a whole year,anyway,it seems that my plan to go home with her by walking won't work,so i decided that i will try to talk to her about our relation when we get of the bus (we leave school and go with the same bus home on Thursdays),i will have just about 3 tiny minutes,but it seems like it is the only way...

I feel you. I mean my plan didnt work either
I mean Im still gunna try

and I got a JOB and started today so Now I have some money coming in and I can ask her out YAY :D

[RCT109]

Just an update
I asked her over facebook and Im awaiting a response so wish me luck

[JakeRS]

Any response yet?
Regarding me,i planed to go with her in Thursday with a bus,but she didn't go with the bus,so i couldn't,anyway for some reason i have a feeling that she is not in a relationship anymore,so i will try to ask her to go on a date with me when i get a chance to be alone with her (i know i said that dates are not a usual thing here,but i heard some of my friends from grade trying to set up some couple and they said that they should go on a date or something,so perhaps it can work out for my case also),before that i will ask her whether she is still in a relationship,now she is not online,she will probably be tomorrow,so we will see...

[RCT109]

No response yet, but I think she is waiting until Tuesday because we have the same class for 90 minutes and I think that she will give me her answer then.

Good luck wtih asking her

[JakeRS]

Absolutely great news,she is no longer in a relationship with that guy,which means that she doesn't like anyone currently (he dumped her,not vice versa) so that means that i finally have a chance.Currently the weather is really bad here and it may stay for a few days like that,which means that she will go with a bus home in Thursday,so i will finally get a chance to be alone with her,i am still thinking what to tell her,but i think that i will call her on a date.

[RCT109]

Nice and Im worried about my thing right now

I mean its been two days

[Error 404]

Yeah, just ask her out, and good luck :)

[RCT109]

Well bad news
The girl I like said No
but its ok

[JakeRS]

Too bad,did she at least say why?

[RCT109]

yeah she did

"Okay, I am really touched that you think so highly of me and I think the same of you. You are an amazing persaon and friend and I know I can always go to you if I need help with ANYTHING!! You are a great person and do not take this the wrong way but I am not ready to date. I just dont want the responisblility and I want to make sure that I am out of school before I deal with dating anyone." this is what she said

[RCT109]

Im thinking about asking her to try it for the summer

[JakeRS]

Good luck,i planed to go with the girl i like with a bus yesterday,but its the end of the school for the older classes,so they went out to celebrate and stuff and we had to change the schedule,so instead of having art (where the teacher always allows us to go home one class earlier) we had geometry,where we had to stay both classes,so i missed the bus,actually maybe she went on foot,who knows,so now i have to wait for another thursday or to come up with something different.

[RCT109]

well try to get it next time

[RCT109]

any thing yet?

[JakeRS]

Not much,because we have only this week and the one after this in school and its summer break from then and i still have 2 f's,yesterday i cleared one f from chemistry (i had 3 f's),so now even if i fail to ,,repair,, the remaining two f's i don't fail,but i go to summer school instead,so i have been occupied by that,but i still have some time for the relationship thing,yesterday i went home with her on bus,but another friend went with us,all the way to my home,so i couldn't do anything,but i talked to her online yesterday and i will maybe go home with her in thursday,if the school schedule or something doesn't change of couse,so i am planning to ask her either to be my gf or to go on a date with me when we get alone.

[RCT109]

Not much,because we have only this week and the one after this in school and its summer break from then and i still have 2 f's,yesterday i cleared one f from chemistry (i had 3 f's),so now even if i fail to ,,repair,, the remaining two f's i don't fail,but i go to summer school instead,so i have been occupied by that,but i still have some time for the relationship thing,yesterday i went home with her on bus,but another friend went with us,all the way to my home,so i couldn't do anything,but i talked to her online yesterday and i will maybe go home with her in thursday,if the school schedule or something doesn't change of couse,so i am planning to ask her either to be my gf or to go on a date with me when we get alone.

glad to hear not about the f's though

[JakeRS]

Hey guys,i am back,i fixed all the f's (http://cdn.memegenerator.net/instances/250x250/21638136.jpg) actually it was 2.5 weeks,unlike the picture says :D ,so i am not going to summer school and i am not failing,regarding the relationship,nothing new,she still doesn't have a boyfriend,however today she by mistake copied a street number to my skype and i questioned her about it and she told me that it is the address of some guy she hopes to be her future boyfriend,i didn't ask her who he is or anything,but for now i think that he barely knows she exists,so i am not giving up,i am going to ask her some stuff about him tomorrow,i just know that he doesn't have a facebook profile,actually he deactivated it,so yeah...i am going to tell you more tomorrow or later.

[RCT109]

well my advice now is not to ask her about him let her offer more info first

[JakeRS]

hey guys,nothing new,she isn't in a relationship with that guy i was telling about few posts ago,so i was planning to ask her online to ,,hook up,, (i don't know a different word) these days,but i always either chickened out or couldn't do it because i or she wasn't on the net,so i could have done it yesterday,but chose not too,cause today was sunday and both me and she were not home,so i chose to ask her today,and....well,tomorrow she goes to the sea,so she won't be here for 2 or 3 whole weeks,so i feel like s*it now (she won't even be on the internet),she said that she will go to the sea in wednesday,so i thought that i still have a day or two,but...When she comes i will ask her to hook up,but i just wanted to tell you the current state.

[JakeRS]

hey,i am still alive :D,so this is the current situation,i still like her and she doesn't currently have a boyfriend,nor can she be with the guy she likes,because he is too ,,big a trophy,, for her,she told me that,,so..,but i finally found a substitute which i may meet when school starts in september,so i decided to give it a few more tries with the current crush,she returned from the vacation a week ago and today i had a bet with her that if i guess who she likes i get to kiss her in the cheek and if i loose she decides what my punishment is,unfortunately i lost (or at least that is what she says) and my punishment is that i can't ask her anymore whether she will be online tomorrow :D,so yeah,that was a huge chance and i blew it,so now i planed another thing for tomorrow,since most of our friends are on their vacations i will tell her that i am bored and stuff and that i want to go for a walk or to drive a bicycle with her (we do this with other friends,but never when there is just 2 of us) other than that i really have no idea what else i could try,i mean i can ask her to go on a date,but that will fail since she likes another guy,so i don't know,wish me luck guys.

[JakeRS]

I am still alive in case someone remembers this thread :D ,so i finally managed to get time alone with my crush (2,3 minutes walking off the bus,very little time,but..) and i told her that i like her,i wanted to tell her that she is pretty and a few other stuff,but i ,,froze,, ,she unfortunately told me that she has a bf,so i stopped talking to her (since my house was just a few meters away)),so now i don't know what to do,should i force my self to move on (which i can't because she is absolutely perfect in every possible way) or should i wait for that a..hole to leave her and try again?