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UnknownBoi98
April 11th, 2012, 10:03 PM
So I'm Gonna Make This Short & Sweet ; During My Six Grade Years I Had So Many Guy Friends . . Like A Lot. During My 7th & 8th Grade Years (I'm In 8th Right Now) I Have Lost About 95% Of Them. Now Most Of My Friends Are Girls,Which Honestly I Don't Mind At All But Over The Years My "Style" Has Changed I Like To Wear Skinny Jeans & Colorful Shirts And Stuff Like That. Now I Am Bi But Not Out Of The Closet Yet But I Don't Want Anyone Too Even Have Clue About My Sexuality. I Just Don't Want My High School Years To Be Hell JUST Because Of My Sexuality. I Already Get Called A Fag & Gay & Stuff Now But I Just Let Them Say What They Want. . What My Real Question Is "If You Think I Changed My Style I Would Get Called Out Less & Get Called Gay? Btw ; When I Meet New People I Don't Where Skinny Jeans Or Anything Like That. . Do You Think I Should Just Be Myself ? Well Help Me Out People . . . . Thanks :D
Gothicdeer
April 11th, 2012, 10:05 PM
You should be proud and just laugh till the name callers get discouraged
Noxail
April 11th, 2012, 10:20 PM
I laugh in the face of stereotypes. HAHA. Just be yourself. No one should ever ask for anything more. You can wear whatever you want to, it doesn't change who you are inside at all. And the people who call you names already? Haters gonna hate. They just don't have the mental maturity to understand differentiality. :)
Destructive Impulse
April 11th, 2012, 10:37 PM
Be yourself but try your best to blend in and stay in the background. Being unknown is alot better than being a target.
leafgreenangel
April 12th, 2012, 12:33 AM
most of my friends are girls and in middle school they used to call me gay and etc, but it didn't phase me. once i hit high school people seemed more excepting and also high school is way bigger so don't worry. just be your self and enjoy high school
HarryLewis
April 12th, 2012, 10:05 AM
What's happend to you is exactly what's happening to me at the moment :(
PerpetualMotionSquad
April 12th, 2012, 12:08 PM
Don't worry about it there is a kid in my year and he is definitely gay but is either not out yet or hasn't realised it. A lot of kids in my school have realised this and bully him for it. He don't let it bother him he just makes friends who are girls and they are his safe zone so to speak. There are some people like me out there who have nothing against gay people. :)
UnknownBoi98
April 12th, 2012, 02:13 PM
Thanks You Guys ; You Guys Have Given Me Great Advice (:
I Think I Have Realized What To Do. . Just Be Myself & Let The Haters Hate ; Imma Be Myself. . (:
Destructive Impulse
April 12th, 2012, 02:32 PM
Good luck bud
zach17020
April 12th, 2012, 06:21 PM
be yourself
Noxail
April 12th, 2012, 11:20 PM
Thanks You Guys ; You Guys Have Given Me Great Advice (:
I Think I Have Realized What To Do. . Just Be Myself & Let The Haters Hate ; Imma Be Myself. . (:
:yeah: :yes: :D :lol: That's awsome. Never be afraid to show who you are. :yes: Stay amazing ~Holli
Noah5
April 13th, 2012, 04:46 PM
I kinda felt the same recently and tbh, people may say "be yourself" but obviously nobody is born goth or "popular" or whatever so if you do change yourself a little, it might help your confidence and increase your happiness overall (:
FojeJC
April 13th, 2012, 05:07 PM
I agree with all the above statements and only have one thing to say.
Please stop using caps on every single word...
It actually gave me a headache.
Sebastian Michaelis
April 15th, 2012, 01:37 PM
What bullies say, says more about them then it ever would anyone else. Don't let an asshole and a few rude comments stop your happiness, be who you are and do what makes you happy.
pmm98
April 15th, 2012, 02:07 PM
I feel ya! I'm straight and I used to wear skinny jeans in 6th grade (In 8th now) and everyone thought I was gay/called me gay. Now some people that dont like me still call me gay just because Im not very aggressive or good at sports. It sucks and is VERY dumb but there is nothing tht anyone can do to change it. SO my advice, if you dont want to be targeted in high school, dont wear skinny jeans. People WILL call you gay, because it is a stereotype. Some peolpe I think think tht im gay because I have long hair, not like a girls hair but like justin beibers but longer and thicker. Like I said tho, im actually straight :o The thing I nromally experience is tht people origninally thnk im gay and than when they get to know me they realize im not. 90% of people tho say tht they thought i was because of how i used to dress and stuff. and try to connect with some guys because people will say tht u might be gay if u hang out with all girls! trust me i have more girl friends than guy friends to but that is because like i said im not aggressive and the people in my school at least everything is competition and sports and shit and i just dont connect wit tht. not my vibe. most importantly tho is to remember that it doesnt matter wht ppl are saying because it most likyl isnt true and it will be irrelevant to ur life after those 4 years of high school because everyone is different in college
ZzKingz
April 15th, 2012, 09:42 PM
Wait until high school. Seriously, don't do that to yourself. Middle schoolers are obnoxious douchebags. Even I was a bit of a homophobe back then. I honestly think people will be more accepting in high school.
Smeagol
April 16th, 2012, 07:25 AM
Just be yourself. People are always gonna hate on people who are different but honestly it's not worth listening to haters.
Thylacine
April 17th, 2012, 09:22 PM
Since when was wearing skinny jeans gayish... they are the shit here.
UnknownBoi98
April 18th, 2012, 03:58 PM
Since when was wearing skinny jeans gayish... they are the shit here.
Well Here They Are Considered Gay. . And It Sucks. . .
Skyhawk
April 18th, 2012, 04:31 PM
Everyone's a douchebag in middle school/jr high. Be yourself.
Eric57
April 19th, 2012, 01:35 AM
Honestly, Middle School sucks. In my experience, you will have much more luck in high school. I'm gay and all during Middle School I would get comments about it, people would call me a fag, and all kinds of stuff. Once I hit High School, things changed. Everybody as a whole seemed for accepting. Of course there was still those few people that still did it, but it changed drastically. A lot of people try to make it seem like High School is the worst, but if you ask me, it was much better than Middle School. But hey, that was just me and what I went through.
If you want my opinion, just be yourself and let the haters hate. People are always going to hate you and say crap about you. No need to let it get you down and there is definitely no need to try to change yourself and the clothes you were. If you like to wear skinny jeans, then wear them. Skinny jeans seem to be "in" right now anyways. So I wouldn't worry too much about it. Just be yourself and if someone wants to hate, let them. :)
toobigforlife
August 10th, 2012, 02:21 PM
It will be fine in high school and There is this guy at my school that is gay and someone called him the F word and he kicked that boys A$$ hahah so no he is respected lol but dont go beating up people but except who you are and if you dont respect yourself how will others respect you.
habbohop
August 10th, 2012, 07:24 PM
Do what you like, If you have the body for it go ahead!
I used to get taken the piss out of for the same thing.. and now every guy has a pair in his closet. -.-
and skinny jeans? #caliswag.
xXCrazyBoyXx
August 10th, 2012, 07:43 PM
Be yourself as long as your happy thats all that matter i get called fag too but not often but girls think im hot so.....
~Do what makes you happy :D
If you wanna talk pm me~
swaggerman84
February 27th, 2013, 07:20 PM
Skinny jeans are colorful shirts aren't gay mean you got taste and swag bro btw in my school skinny jeans is the norm so you kinda fitting in
justin 13
February 28th, 2013, 02:10 PM
Be yourself dude.
xmojox
February 28th, 2013, 02:35 PM
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xXl0sth0peXx
February 28th, 2013, 04:13 PM
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