gay phase won't go away

[Dustin3]

you know how people talk about how everyone goes through the gay phase right? well mine is really hard to get rid of, like, im stuck on gay porn i guess, and want it completely gone and out of my life. i know what you were saying about how teenagers hormones are raging at this age during puberty, but this, i think is too far. and i dont feel emotionally attacted to the same sex, just sometimes physical. and with girls, its emotionally and physically :) and i want it to be that way and only that way. (STRAIGHT)
Im just really confused and i thought this phase should be over by now :(

[Vian]

Just sometimes? Well then, haven´t you considered that you might actually be gay? :)

[Lego]

Stop with the gay porn now and think of all the hot sex you'll have with your gf or wife one day

[leafgreenangel]

consider the possibility of being gay...or bi.. you don't have to know your sexuality now. sleep on it, really think about it an maybe you'll have an answer, for me i am going through a similar phase. i believe you don't really know what you like until you've tried everything. for example how do you know you like a food until you try it.

[ashdyn]

Stop with the gay porn now and think of all the hot sex you'll have with your gf or wife one day

Kinda hard to do when he's single and watching porn. lol I get it bro, sometimes straight porn is just boring or flat out bad. I still watch it, but I also mix it up with some gay/bi/les porn too. The type of porn you watch doesn't make you gay or straight. Watching any form of porn no matter how old you are would probably give any guy a boner. Watching anything sexual should naturally do so.

To put it plainly. Don't worry about it. watch whatever porn turns you on the most. And when it comes down to finding a girlfriend then you'll know for sure if you're gay or not. There's nothing wrong with being gay or bi you know...just sayin'

[smd11451]

First, your profile says your 14. If you read very many of the posts on here, you'll see many guys your age or older are curious/get aroused by gay porn. Its natural and part of your development to be turned on by bare skin. I don't believe this is any reason to get scared about your sexuality; however, you might honestly question whether you're bi-sexual or just curious. I'm bi (prefer guys) but I couldn't honestly tell you at 16 if I'm gonna end up with a woman or a man as a life partner.

If you are emotionally attracted to women, odds are you're straight. But again, you're young and these are the years (for most guys up to 20-21) to experiment and figure yourself out. Don't rush yourself, just take a deep breath and go with life :)

[PerpetualMotionSquad]

Don't worry bout it it can take years for it to go but if you are straight it will go eventually. But if not then you may just have to accept the fact that you're bi.

[LoginLeo]

you know how people talk about how everyone goes through the gay phase right? well mine is really hard to get rid of, like, im stuck on gay porn i guess, and want it completely gone and out of my life. i know what you were saying about how teenagers hormones are raging at this age during puberty, but this, i think is too far. and i dont feel emotionally attacted to the same sex, just sometimes physical. and with girls, its emotionally and physically :) and i want it to be that way and only that way. (STRAIGHT)
Im just really confused and i thought this phase should be over by now :(

Been there, done that...
Don't worry, it either will pass, or you will become gay.
Now it's up to you - either you begin going out with guys, and try to have sex with a guy and then it may be the first step for your gay life, or you can just ignore it as much time as you can, and after some time (Maybe a lot of time, it's different for each person) it will go away and you will forget about it...
Anywayz, for now I have a girlfriend for over 10 month, we have sex regulary, but that doesn't stop me from watching gay porn from time to time and wishing to have sex with a guy... But, each one with his own "stranges"
Just be sure - it's normal, don't worry too much, just think about what you want for the most and go for it.
Good luck :)

[Hunterrrr]

So much time man! You need to stop worrying because it will get you even more down. If you are 14 you have to think about how much time there is between now and the time you really need to make a decision. It'll all turn out good! :)

[Lifeguard]

well all you have to do is just not watch gay stuff and try to be more intimate with the ladies

[StoppingTime]

First, your profile says your 14. If you read very many of the posts on here, you'll see many guys your age or older are curious/get aroused by gay porn. Its natural and part of your development to be turned on by bare skin. I don't believe this is any reason to get scared about your sexuality; however, you might honestly question whether you're bi-sexual or just curious. I'm bi (prefer guys) but I couldn't honestly tell you at 16 if I'm gonna end up with a woman or a man as a life partner.

If you are emotionally attracted to women, odds are you're straight. But again, you're young and these are the years (for most guys up to 20-21) to experiment and figure yourself out. Don't rush yourself, just take a deep breath and go with life :)

This is a good answer.

You're still young, so you may not completely have figured out your sexuality.
It's normal to be curious though, so don't worry about that.
If you feel that you'd never date/marry a guy, then you're most likely straight.
Just think about that.

[senior.2013]

First, how old are you? Curiosity can range from 13-18, and some go through it faster than others. Its normal to be curious about sexuality in general. Homosexuality and bisexuality mean that you are physically and emotionally attracted to the respected sex. It becomes easier to call your sexuality toward the end of puberty, anywhere from 18-20s. Slow down and go with it, there isnt a problem with being bi or gay, straight is not the only way. As said, call it toward the end of puberty, so go with it for now.

[Diverperry]

dude your 14. don't worry about sexually labeling yourself until the hormones have balanced out. if you really want to quit gay porn, just remove anything relating to it in your life. replace it with more straight porn. do whatever you want

[harrya54]

nevermind, maybe become gay i am. also theres nothing wrong wid a little gay porn here and there http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/images/smilies/smile.gif

[Gabriel321]

Sometimes for a while you just like one type of porn more for a while, it doesn't change who you would be in a relationship with.

[ExhibitG]

please stop worrying. you're 14 and your sexuality isn't something you can control. everybody wants to be straight because that's the easy thing to be, but sometimes people aren't. in your case, i think you're either still in the bicurious phase (you're only 14, you still have plenty time to figure that out) or heading toward bisexuality.

either way, it seems like you think there's something wrong with who you are -- phase or not. just relax. you have time. don't worry about it, and do whatever feels right.

i went through a very similar phase as you and am still going through it, so if at any time you want to talk, feel free to PM me. :)

[Gothicdeer]

Just watch lesbian porn as a sub but yeah like everyone said don't worry