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Lost997
April 10th, 2012, 05:56 PM
I had a boyfriend and we recently broke up due to many reasons but one of the things he keeps throwing back in my face is my self harming...whilst I was with him he looked after me a LOT right up towards the end...and I told him everything...I tried commiting suicide once already but he litterally saved me! Now we're over he keeps harrassing me but the one thing he keeps telling me is how I ruined his life and I cant help but think hes right I dragged him into my mess...he now hates me soo much and teases me and taunts me...he made his mistakes aswell but I feel so guilty for what I put him through :L

Gothicdeer
April 10th, 2012, 06:08 PM
Don't feel guilty...no one made him look after you...he Is just an arse hole

Desuetude
April 11th, 2012, 06:42 AM
Please don't feel guilty, you did nothing wrong. You didn't force him to listen and help but he did it anyway and that helped you a lot. You did not put him through anything that he did not agree to, If he was that upset and angry about it he could have said at the time but he didn't. He is just being bitter, it's not right for him to say things like that especially when he knows how much they'll hurt. He's just trying to hit your weak spots and get you down, don't let him get away with it, show him you're stronger than that and you wont let it get to you. You are amazing for still caring about him after all that he is doing to you, he really didn't deserve you.

LucasRobert0897
April 11th, 2012, 03:24 PM
I KNOW he's an idiot. Sometimes people change. He did. Maybe he wasn't like this before, maybe he was deceitful. But the main thing is its not your fault. I learnt that. Its your life.
Go live it
:)

Lost997
April 11th, 2012, 06:46 PM
thankyou :)x