Ugh.

[Can'tHelpIt]

I usually don't post asking things anymore but I'm really stumped here. So there's this bisexual guy and we're friends and I told him I'm gay and stuff. So he tells his friend to tell me he likes me. And for those of who who don't really know I really like this guy. Like alot also since like January. And I'm also not out so it would be risky to date the other guy. I really need help and please no "Follow your heart" There will be a poll

[Stryker125]

Go for it man. Do what makes you happy.

[Kotaro]

Go for it man. Follow your heart

fix'd for yeah :3
On topic I say date him just date by going to his house and the movies where it's hard for people to tell what your doing.

[Can'tHelpIt]

fix'd for yeah :3
On topic I say date him just date by going to his house and the movies where it's hard for people to tell what your doing.

Idk I kinda like the guy but I REALLY like the other one

Go for it man. Do what makes you happy.

Please don't do that :/

[FojeJC]

Shit, this is the first time I ever took more than 10 seconds to make a decision, I must of gotten more mature...
Back to topic, I think you should date him, and if other people find out your gay, fuck what they think of you.
Also, technically your getting closer to him by dating his friends. If you really want the guy then just ask him out for dinner or whatever.

[CrossingtheCourtyard]

You have an opportunity here, love, few people get such a chance and I say jump for it. You can still date him and remain closeted it you want, so you don't need to worry too much about that--keep in mind that you could be outed more easily, prepare for the scenario.

Hell, no risk no reward right?

[MaximumR]

If I got the chance to date someone who also liked guys and I liked him, I'd go for it

[Can'tHelpIt]

Shit, this is the first time I ever took more than 10 seconds to make a decision, I must of gotten more mature...
Back to topic, I think you should date him, and if other people find out your gay, fuck what they think of you.
Also, technically your getting closer to him by dating his friends. If you really want the guy then just ask him out for dinner or whatever.

The two guys aren't friends FYI

[OregonStateDude]

Now I'm confused. Did you want to date the bisexual guy or the 2nd guy?

But it's pretty easy to pull this off, just pretend to be good friends. And don't hold his hand in public!

[colz]

If you really like him then go out with him!! And (now this is just me speaking) if you do it would be best to 'come out' I mean you will be talked about behind your back and what not but you will have your friend (future bf?) and hopefully most, if not all of your current friends to support you.

[Can'tHelpIt]

though all of you have voted yes im saying no I like the other guy way to much plus im not ready to come out so no

[leafgreenangel]

if you like the other guy and date another one then you'll just be messing with guy 2's feelings which is not cool. i voted no

[Can'tHelpIt]

if you like the other guy and date another one then you'll just be messing with guy 2's feelings which is not cool. i voted no

and im doing no

[FullyAlive]

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