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Jhcx
April 10th, 2012, 11:26 AM
Im 19, Ive been in 3 previous relationships. Two of which i never looked for but took the opportunity to have a Girlfriend. My 3rd Gf i planned on but screwed it up.

I've always been shy when it comes to making out(shifting/kissing) The one time only that i finally got the courage to go ahead was at my graduation afters to which i had a few drinks to let go. that was my 3rd relationship which lasted 3weeks:( . Its now 10months later and im still a single pringle.
Im not the lad who goes to the nightclub and picks up any girl. i would prefer to know the person before getting that close. But even in college im finding that impossible. nearly all the girls i have come across have Bf's.

Or the girls in social clubs are bit too up tight for me. Honestly i feel like surrendering. Anyone else in the same boat?

Skeptical Bear
April 10th, 2012, 11:42 AM
It's hard out there for most of us but you have to keep looking. I haven't had a girlfriend. Ever. It feels like we're not "special" but I know for sure there will be a good handful of people in life that we'll have that special bond with and it won't be the average 2 week relationship. Just keep looking. Don't give up.