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sammyb88
April 10th, 2012, 09:18 AM
when i wank as soon as i cum, i feel really dirty and disgusted with myself. the thing i was masturbating to whether it be a though, vid or pic etc. no longer interests me any more. does this happen to anyone else, and does anyone knoe why this happens?

mammolito96
April 10th, 2012, 09:26 AM
i dont feel disgusted and dirty but i have to say my stimulus doesnt interest me either

KillerKing
April 10th, 2012, 09:54 AM
I'm 17 now, and now when I finish, I just think 'Oh great now I gotta clean this damn mess up'. But when I started I too felt a bit disgusted and completely turned off after I finished. It's completely natural and you shouldn't worry. You may find you grow out of it.

dkp123
April 10th, 2012, 10:45 AM
i feel like this after i watch certain porn..

VirtualGuy012
April 10th, 2012, 10:55 AM
i feel like this a lot actually. I know exactly how you feel.

neo33
April 10th, 2012, 01:44 PM
WOW i thought I was the only one. Not even joking. When ever i'm done I just feel totally un-turned on and just weird.

Lifeguard
April 10th, 2012, 02:10 PM
I know exactly what your talking about I'm sure why that happens either but its very annoying!!

senior.2013
April 10th, 2012, 02:34 PM
It happened to me when I started masturbating. It doesnt happen too much anymore because I know its natural and that almost 95% (if not at least that) do it.

Hermes
April 10th, 2012, 03:34 PM
It is perfectly normal not to be horny any more just after you have cum and not to find any interest in something you previously found sexy.

It is also quite normal to feel relaxed and sleepy afterwards and perhaps not feel like doing anything. Some people seem to get disturbed by this feeling but it is quite normal and only lasts a few minutes.

Feeling disgusted or dirty is not uncommon especially with someone who has not been masturbating long. What happens here is that when we are children adults spend so much time hiding anything to do with sex as if it were a guilty secret that some of that rubs off on us. When we are horny the horniness takes priority and we masturbate anyway but once that horniness has gone the guilt we have learned is exposed. As you get used to masturbation (and eventually other forms of sexual expression) you tend to lose that guilt so after cumming you just feel relaxed.

Diverperry
April 11th, 2012, 05:06 PM
ya it's normal especially if you've been raised in very conservative christian homes where jacking off is a sin or something to be ashamed of

Coolboi
April 11th, 2012, 05:54 PM
maybe you should stop doing it an see how long you can hold out then it might make you happy to do it again and enjoy it . it worked for me !

Gothicdeer
April 11th, 2012, 06:14 PM
I feel bad if I wanked with a really really sweet/innocent girl in mind