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ItsJustJack
April 10th, 2012, 06:08 AM
i regularly have sexual dreams about my best friend and also about women. i have previously experimented with boys and enjoyed it very much however the concept of being gay and bi doesnt really apeal to me. i really want to go all the way with a girl but because all i've ever done with a girl is snog that seems like along way off. however, dong it with boy seems like it could just happen in the near future and also i quite like the idea of trying it. is it that i am straight and curious because i just dont get many girls and when i do they are shy and dont want to do anything more than kiss or am i gay/bi because i have basicaly sucked my best friends dick and vise versa and also have snoged a boy.
NOTE I DONT REALLY FEEL CONFORTABLE WITH BEING GAY

Mortal Coil
April 10th, 2012, 06:11 AM
NOTE I DONT REALLY FEEL CONFORTABLE WITH BEING GAY

If you don't mind, why aren't you comfortable? I'm not saying you are, in fact I reckon you're more like 70% straight and 30% bi or somewhere in the gray areas of the spectrum.
Remember, it doesn't matter what you are. :D

Smeagol
April 10th, 2012, 06:17 AM
I agree with Alex. You're quite curious, and maybe bi. It sounds corny, but do what feels right.

StoppingTime
April 10th, 2012, 06:43 AM
What you have described in the past does not mean that you are necessarily gay.
What most likely happened was your puberty hormones were "going crazy", and you had an urge to try that. There isn't anything wrong with what you did, and it doesn't determine anything, yet.

The only person who can tell you what orientation you are is you. Don't take it lightly. Just think if you feel that you could spend the rest of your life with a guy, and see what you think.

Personally, I think you are most likely straight, but that's for you to decide.

Stronger
April 10th, 2012, 05:10 PM
If you don't mind, why aren't you comfortable? I'm not saying you are, in fact I reckon you're more like 70% straight and 30% bi or somewhere in the gray areas of the spectrum.
Remember, it doesn't matter what you are. :D

I agree with this, but in my opinion, I think you are straight, not gay, but maybe bi, but like the others said, only you can figure out what you are, and you still have a long time to fin out who you truely are, just enjoy yourself and life. :)

Lifeguard
April 11th, 2012, 03:22 PM
Do what you want and be the choices you want to be

PerpetualMotionSquad
April 15th, 2012, 12:48 PM
I think you are either bicurious or bisexual. More likely to be bicurious because you haven't stated whether you would get into a relationship or not. If you do then I would say you're bisexual but until then. I reckon bicurious. Hope I helped :)

ExhibitG
April 15th, 2012, 01:23 PM
I think you are either bicurious or bisexual. More likely to be bicurious because you haven't stated whether you would get into a relationship or not. If you do then I would say you're bisexual but until then. I reckon bicurious. Hope I helped :)

i concur.