Caught dad's porn.

[Jmihas]

Hello...

I was on my dad's phone happily and I was looking at the history.. he have been watched porn while his married and being a father.. I am so sad.. I will never forgive him for that.. anyone of you guys been seen your family members and what did you do?

Thanks..

[smd11451]

My dad looks at porn. I don't find it a big deal. My parents have been separated for almost 10 years now, so I'm sure he needs relief. However, even if dad had a wife, I'd still figure he'd look at porn for the same reason I look at porn: you don't always have a willing partner when you're horny.

[StoppingTime]

To say it bluntly, what you did was wrong. You really have no business going through his private things, and I certainly don't think you'd want him to do the same thing to you.

It's not your business, and unless you want to cause more trouble than necessary, I'd just drop and and never speak about it.

[senior.2013]

As StoppingTime said, you shouldnt be going through personal things. Also, dont bring it up, it will just be awkward. Pretty much every man watches porn, to relieve himself. Are you going to give up porn when you get married, or will you expect your wife to put out every night or 3 times a week?

[ImCoolBeans]

So what? I've been in relationships in the past and that didn't stop me :P People have needs, man.

[Cicero]

You shouldn't be mad at all. He should be mad at you for not respecting his privacy. It sounds pretty stupid that you say "I'll never forgive him for that" saying that makes you sound like your very immature. My dad probably has about 50-75 different playboy magazines, and who knows your mom might allow him to look at porn. My step mom allows him to look at porn, she understands.

In fact, in Italy, some women allow their husbands to cheat. Though they don't like saying it, they don't always mind. All they would say are "Hey, Italian men like to love" (true story actually, dads business partner bought $9,000 piece of jewelry and my dad said it might not be for his wife, so his wife came to visit and I wasn't allowed to say anything :eek: haha)

[swimmerboy95]

My dad looks at porn. I don't find it a big deal. My parents have been separated for almost 10 years now, so I'm sure he needs relief. However, even if dad had a wife, I'd still figure he'd look at porn for the same reason I look at porn: you don't always have a willing partner when you're horny.

Exactly. Porn does not by any means mean that the relationship is flawed. Most people I know who are in relationships watch porn regularly. Its not a big deal man

[Thomas01]

I know my brother does. It's not wrong, almost everyone does. it's just kinda weird knowing

[VirtualGuy012]

i don't think it would be a big deal... A little weird... But still.

[Ben_E]

Every guy looks at porn, even if they have a GF or wife.

[Soccer4life99]

well if i was married and had kids i wouldnt look at porn because i would have a wife maybe ur dad looks at porn because ur mum doesnt make him happy (with sex) i havent seen my dads porn and i dont know if he even watches it

[KillerKing]

I think everything that needed to be said about this has been said.

It was wrong to look through personal history

Every guy does it, regardless of their relationship

Your mom might even know about it and allow it

You just need to relax. For starters its none of your buisness and would you even talk to him about it? Or would you just hold a silent grudge against him and never tell him what you saw or why your upset with him?

Chill!

[sammyb88]

even though they are married, and are meant to be having sex with our mums as a release, they are still men, and have their needs to watch porn and wank every know... i know my dad does it (i was also looking at his history). i have told him that i watch porn, and he was fine with it! he just laughed and called me the PORNO KING! haha he's a good man my dad

[mammolito96]

yeah i totally agree :) yet i never wanna imagine my dad masturbating lol

[Soccer4life99]

it is normal for adult men even if they are married 2 masterbate. i hav had a conversation like this with my friend from school and he said he knows his mum and dad dont have sex anymore and his dad uses porn and masterbates 2 make up for the lack of sex. Jmihas if ur dad is masterbating for the same reason my friends dad does it then why be angry and say u cant forgive him? atleast he isnt cheating on ur mum with another lady. and u went through his private things so u should say sorry 2 him

[Skyotic]

im engaged and look at porn still.

[Diverperry]

why are you going through your dad's history on his phone? and how can you even have a credited opinion when you aren't married and might not know the whole situation. think before you judge

[AHSboy]

Umm... It's not a big deal. He's a man, you're a man, it's common nature. I'm pretty sure your mom might be thinking naughty things when looking at extremely attractive guys. It's nothing to get worked up about. And you shouldn't invade his privacy. How would you feel if the shoe was on the other foot?

[yourmom32]

My parents have a safe in there room full of porn! I don't mind they don't know that I know about it though!

[qmann8]

its not a big deal, dont be mad at him for being horny and jacking off

[leafgreenangel]

i wouldn't be mad at my dad if he watched porn. It's natural. Just because your married doesn't mean you can't enjoy yourself

[Jmihas]

He gave it to me, it's mine iTouch, gah I need to explain more but nvm.

[cpr97]

Hello...

I was on my dad's phone happily and I was looking at the history.. he have been watched porn while his married and being a father.. I am so sad.. I will never forgive him for that.. anyone of you guys been seen your family members and what did you do?

Thanks..

so you are saying if/when you ever get a girlfriend you will just stop looking at porn all together? be realistic if your never gonna forgive your dad over looking at porn you got a lot of growing up to do be happy you have a dad you can say hi to and hug and talk to some people dont have that oppurtunity to do that everyday hes looking at porn its not like hes going out having sex with other people and cheating on his wife, get a grip dude

[ian1996]

You def should not have been going through your dad's history. I'm sure if you had come into him looking through yours you would not have real happy. I'd forget what I saw, and in the future have some respect for peoples privacy

[Rayquaza]

You shouldn't have gone through his private history, and it was wrong to be snooping. You have to forget about it and pretend that it never happened. The fact you didn't know he watched porn all this time shows he isn't a bad father, and that it must have been his personal phone that you shouldn't have been touching, otherwise he probably would have cleared the history. Also, how can you say you will "never forgive him"- as if you've never watched pornography before.

[Laquifa]

My dad looks at porn. I don't find it a big deal. My parents have been separated for almost 10 years now, so I'm sure he needs relief. However, even if dad had a wife, I'd still figure he'd look at porn for the same reason I look at porn: you don't always have a willing partner when you're horny.

This is right .

To say it bluntly, what you did was wrong. You really have no business going through his private things, and I certainly don't think you'd want him to do the same thing to you.

It's not your business, and unless you want to cause more trouble than necessary, I'd just drop and and never speak about it.

And so is this . Your father is an ADULT !! He can do that legally and it's ALRIGHT !! Stop making a mountain out of a molehill because by being an angry little brat you're just going to get yourself in trouble . That's all I have to say .

[George_Minafer]

Just because you are married doesn't mean you can't look at porn. I mean, even if you're married and have sex often... sex is different than porn. Porn is... glorified sex, sex to a degree that you rarely ever get to in normal sex life, and I know I'll still look at porn even when I have a girlfriend/wife.

Stop sneaking into your dad's stuff also. That's just rude.

[coreyorama]

your a crazy here mac... hes allowd to watch prn as a father and marrid person... heres another thing... hes allowd to have sex... AND PROBOBLY DOES... OH GOD EEGATS...

[RayRay]

I dont think its a big deal

[kitz]

I haven't caught :)

[BaNd]

well in my opinion you need to not judge your father so harshly because you havent gone through life and most of the time when ppl get married eventually they have sex less and even though they are older they still get horny and need a way to release that.

[chasebrigham]

it's totally normal and you're lucky you didn't find anything worse. I accidentally found my dads sex video with my mom on our external disc

[anton.b1]

yeh same sorta thing happened to me, i just let it go

[Green Arrow]

To be honest why wouldn't he be allowed to watch porn? What you did was wrong looking through his internet history, what else were you expecting to find? The meaning of life? If I found out that my dad looks at porn then I wouldn't care, whatever he does in his own private time is his own buisness and none of mine to be honest. :P

[FullyAlive]

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