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JGJ60
April 9th, 2012, 03:28 PM
Me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 2 weeks and we haven't kissed yet,
The thing is I'm not really sure how to create the right situation to kiss her!
I don't really just wan to kiss her randomly :whoops:
Would really appreciate some advice or opinions?
FullyAlive
April 9th, 2012, 06:47 PM
Puberty 101 :arrow2: Relationships & Dating
I'm kind of traditionalish so if you wanted to plan it I'd tell you to take her on a romantic date, then walk her home and kiss her on the door step.
But just do what comes naturally, when you're together you'll come to a natural point to kiss and you'll both know it and go for it then.
Try not to worry too much, it'll happen when it happens.
shannondouvier
April 10th, 2012, 02:15 AM
Try not to worry too much
ashdyn
April 11th, 2012, 01:26 AM
I'm with FullyAlive...a traditionalist.
I feel like romance is gone in today's society. It might sound corny and might feel corny and awkward but really go the extra mile in making her feel special. If you're not already, be more openly affectionate (hold hands, hug, look at her and smile). 2 weeks isn't as long as it feels. And if you're in it for an actual relationship then don't feel the need to rush things. I have a feeling she's probably going to wait for you to make the first move. Go on a date, do something fun and/or romantic. Girls love picnics...they know you had to put effort into planning and appreciate that plus it's easy on the wallet (for you lol). Go to a movie and get ice cream afterwards. Every romantic kiss I've ever had, however, has never been planned. You can't say this is the night lol you can set the mood, put the odds in your favor but you can't make the situation appear out of thin air. You'll know when the right time is though, you'll feel it in every part of you...it's literally like the stars in the universe line up for that moment. My heart was beating so hard I thought it was going to jump out of my body lol Good luck!
JGJ60
April 15th, 2012, 02:37 PM
I'm with FullyAlive...a traditionalist.
I feel like romance is gone in today's society. It might sound corny and might feel corny and awkward but really go the extra mile in making her feel special. If you're not already, be more openly affectionate (hold hands, hug, look at her and smile). 2 weeks isn't as long as it feels. And if you're in it for an actual relationship then don't feel the need to rush things. I have a feeling she's probably going to wait for you to make the first move. Go on a date, do something fun and/or romantic. Girls love picnics...they know you had to put effort into planning and appreciate that plus it's easy on the wallet (for you lol). Go to a movie and get ice cream afterwards. Every romantic kiss I've ever had, however, has never been planned. You can't say this is the night lol you can set the mood, put the odds in your favor but you can't make the situation appear out of thin air. You'll know when the right time is though, you'll feel it in every part of you...it's literally like the stars in the universe line up for that moment. My heart was beating so hard I thought it was going to jump out of my body lol Good luck!
Thanks! This was really helpful :D
McMantis
April 15th, 2012, 03:15 PM
just when it feels right
Cognizant
April 15th, 2012, 03:40 PM
During an intimate moment; when you are alone together. Don't rush into the kiss, start off with some flirting. Get gradually closer than kiss her gently on the lips.
I am no means an expert, because I have never kissed anyone, let alone have a girlfriend...
Robrobbie
April 16th, 2012, 12:54 PM
take her to see a movie.
Put your arm around her and get close.
Next look into her eyes and she will turn to look at you.
Then lean in and she should too, and kiss her! It should feel natural...hope it helps!
Smeagol
April 16th, 2012, 02:55 PM
Take her out on a date and see what happens. Chances are you'll find a romantic moment.
Cognizant
April 17th, 2012, 01:28 AM
take her to see a movie.
Put your arm around her and get close.
Next look into her eyes and she will turn to look at you.
Then lean in and she should too, and kiss her! It should feel natural...hope it helps!
I wouldn't recommend a movie for a first kiss, because it's easy to get distracted by the movie, and it may make the other patrons feel awkward and uncomfortable.
Someplace with a more alone and intimate space would be best, even alone on your back porch works! :P
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