Self concious

[HarryLewis]

This sort of carries on from my "bullies" thread and what I want to say is that after the bullying I seem to have no confidence and I'm self concious about my appearance and how I dress cause I used to get bullied because I apparently dressed gay, but all girls were saying I was fashionable but the boys who bullied me carried on and started to bully me about myself and that they made me feel like I was nothing and now it makes me self concious. :(

[Dimitri]

Please read this (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/blog.php?u=36956)...you will find you are not alone, talk to him, I am sure he will be able to help.

[FullyAlive]

It's hard to build your confidence back up especially after being bullied, however don't think about changing how you dress etc if you change yourself not only do they win and they don't deserve to, but by changing yourself ito something you aren't you won't be happy.

You need to carry on being yourself or else what self confidence you do have will diminish. Surround yourself with friends who appreciate you for you, i'm positive you're a lovely person.

As for the bullying if it gets out of control say something to someone I know it's difficult but if it makes you feel bad about yourself it needs sorting.

[Sonic Boom]

As we said before, they are the ones who are insecure. And again, don't let it get to you or else they win. But now it looks like they're jealous about your style haha! Too bad for them.

[HarryLewis]

Thank you people :') Means a lot

[PerpetualMotionSquad]

I got a kid in my school who wears apparently "gay" stuff. But he don't let it bother him he just takes it in his stride.