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HarryLewis
April 9th, 2012, 10:25 AM
Hey. I'm curious but at school I'm seen as gay and I get quite a lot of people asking if im gay or some bully me about it during class and it gets really embarrassing cause the bully always does it when the class is quiet! I don't know what to do now :/

StoppingTime
April 9th, 2012, 10:36 AM
They are insecure about something, so to make themselves feel better, they pick on you for no reason.

They are really, in a sense, are being just as bad as someone who is racist, anti-Semitic, etc..

Just remember, you didn't choose to be the way you are, you're just you. (if that makes any sense).

Just try to remember that there is no sense behind what they are saying, and that you aren't doing anything wrong. Don't let it bring you down.

Sonic Boom
April 9th, 2012, 10:41 AM
Ignore that shit. Don't let them get to you, just casually brush it off. (If I were in that situation I would have said "Guys, I know you're interested and you think I'm hot and everything, but you gotto use better pick-up lines than those!" But I'm not well in the head:D so maybe not)

Those bullies are probably insecure about their own orientation, and so they take it out on others. Quite pathetic don't you think?!

DarkHorses
April 9th, 2012, 11:01 AM
I never really understood why people bully one another. People say it's because the bully is insecure, but I am probably the most insecure person you'll ever meet and I don't bully other people. So honestly, I think it's a combination of things that makes people bully each other. A lot of it is ignorance. They don't understand why you aren't straight or why you might act or dress a certain way. Since they don't understand, they feel like they have the right to torment you. It's not fair to you, but at the same time you have to feel kind of sorry for them. They are either so insecure that they have to hurt other people to feel better about themselves, or they are so ignorant that, Heaven forbid they found out they were gay, they wouldn't know what to do with themselves. It always pays to be an understanding person, because you never know what you will deal with in life. Next time someone makes a rude comment to you, roll your eyes and ignore them. Don't let what they say bother you. Because in the end, their insults say more about them than they do about you.

HarryLewis
April 9th, 2012, 11:01 AM
Thank you guys :D that's helped quite a lot :')

Short Circuit
April 9th, 2012, 12:45 PM
Harry, the more they see it upsets you, the more they will do it. Just ignore them, and they will stop.

Hunterrrr
April 9th, 2012, 06:04 PM
Nah, there all assholes! You're probably an awesome guy ;)

Abyssal Echo
April 9th, 2012, 09:04 PM
They are insecure about something, so to make themselves feel better, they pick on you for no reason.

They are really, in a sense, are being just as bad as someone who is racist, anti-Semitic, etc..

Just remember, you didn't choose to be the way you are, you're just you. (if that makes any sense).

Just try to remember that there is no sense behind what they are saying, and that you aren't doing anything wrong. Don't let it bring you down.

I totally agee with StoppingTime :D