Help! Best Friend Sex Me Don't Want He Do

[dope]

See below for easier to read version ~ rok.my.sox


i tel my best friend every thing, and i told him i did. but he said that i didn't tell him about my "sex life". i said thats well he hasn't either.so we wrote a question list 4 me and i did so 4 him.he asked...

will u suck my cock?
will u sleep with me?
will u make love love with me?
do u [email protected] porn?....ect.

i asked him...

do u masturbate?
have u had sex?
do u look @ porn... ect.

i told him i will tell him the truth and i did. after i [email protected] what he wrote and he looked over what i wote i told him if he want we can...

masturbate together
look @ porn together

thats all i said we could do...but he went a little more...he pined me down and did ****inappropriate thing TO ME***** i dont know what do do tell me mom( she will get mad @ me) tell to poice, tel him to stop( i have),tell his mom. i dont know help me please this isent some spam i really need help


I tell my best friend everything, and I told him I did. But he said that I didn't tell him about my sex life. I said thats because he hasn't either. So he wrote a question list for me and I did so for him. He asked:

-Will you suck my cock?
-Will you sleep with me?
-Will you make love love with me?
-Do you look at porn?
-....ect.

I asked him:

-Do you masturbate?
-Have you had sex?
-Do you look at porn
-....ect.

I told him I will tell him the truth and I did. Afterwards I looked at what he wrote and he looked over what I wrote and I told him if he wants we can:

-Masturbate together
-Look at porn together

Thats all I said we could do, but he went a little more, he pinned me down and forced me to have sex [NOTE: A GUESS NOT A FACT!] I dont know what do, should I tell my mum (she will get mad at me), tell the police, tell him to stop (I have) or tell his mum. I don't know help me please this isn't some spam I really need Help

[Pioneer92]

im sorry i know my english isnt perfect either but i had a really hard time reading this

i think you said he raped you? if thats true then id tell an adult that you know you can trust as soon as humanly possible and go from there

ive never dealt with anything like this before but i hope what i suggested is the right thing to do

[dope]

i juss u could say raped....

[Sapphire]

Do you feel it needs reporting?
You could just take this as a learning experience - don't masturbate with a friend who wants to sleep with you sort of thing. Or you could tell an adult and see where things go from there.
But it depends entirely on what you want to do and where you want to go from here. Also on how comfortable you are with being around him now and how comfortable you would be with any consequences of getting other people involved.

[Rawrbaby]

r u saying he raped u or is he doing something else, if he is raping u tell him to stop and stay away from him he could do it again and no one likes to be raped report him immediately if u dont he could think that he could do it again and again or take a step further, tell the police tell someone no one deserves to be raped i hope it all works out hope this helps

[Trebor]

Do you feel it needs reporting?
You could just take this as a learning experience - don't masturbate with a friend who wants to sleep with you sort of thing.

That's like saying if you get raped it's your fualt. Wait, that IS what you said.

But I'd suggest go straight to your parents.

[Maverick]

That's like saying if you get raped it's your fualt. Wait, that IS what you said.
She never said it was his fault. Just saying not to put himself in that kind of position in the future so it won't happen again. She gave good advice.

[MoveAlong]

umm :confused:
if he raped you, tell the police or your parents

And don't star out cuss words on this site because it's hard to tell what you even said there...all I saw was "he did things to me that were innappropriate" :| that's not very clear

[baseballpro4life77]

dude well i think if u dont want to do anything on those ?s he asked u then u may wont to avoid him a little bit and if he does it again then tell an adult also his he ur bf no offense

[Aηdy]

I have made it a bit easier to understand.

[xTheLordsServantx]

well if you really have been raped, then I would surely go straight to the police, even if your mom might get mad at you -- you're the victim here!

[Bobby]

Yeah. Go to the police, tell your parents. This friend obviously isn't a good one if he is going to force you to have sex.

[dope]

kk, but hes my best friend

[Pioneer92]

hes not much of a friend if he makes you do that

[MoveAlong]

hes not much of a friend if he makes you do that

quoted for truth

[Sapphire]

Just to point out that the police can't actually do anything now (unless you haven't showered) as it will be your word against his. Without evidence nothing can be done by the police.

[kungfu77]

Did he rape you or not? If he did just stay away from him!!

[ThatCanadianGuy]

He FUCKING RAPED YOU!!! He's NOT your FRIEND!!! Are you kidding me! If you won't go to the cops or even your parents, at LEAST try to NEVER see him again. Seriously! Is this that hard of a decision! :mad:

[Antares]

wtf
this isnt myspace
this is not a place for those stupid bullitens message thingys
if this isnt spam im sorry
but i think it is
REQUEST LOCK
:spam:

[0=]

How is this spam? His friend raped him.

[Maverick]

wtf
this isnt myspace
this is not a place for those stupid bullitens message thingys
if this isnt spam im sorry
but i think it is
REQUEST LOCK
:spam:
Request denied. No further discussion about why it should be locked.

[MoveAlong]

You should also PM a moderator if you want a topic to be locked rather than posting in the thread - it goes straight to the mod in case he/she doesn't see that thread

so back on this topic then :P

[Antares]

fine then dont lock it
and i have always done it like this and yeah...never been a problem its always been seen when i do request locks...sooo...

tell your mom

[Maverick]

If anyone else wants to debate on why it should be locked, you'll also receive an infraction. PM me if you're concerned about this thread.

[Camazotz]

I think you should tell your parents, at least. Just stay away from him. He raped you, and you should not be his friend. Would a true friend make you do something you didnt? NO. Avoid him and just tell a resposible adult.

[SpawN]

yah i agree with rok.my.sox i couldent understand but if PM and post it easier i will help u out

[heartagram72]

well if he like played with u....(not anal or oral) u its up to u...i dont think thats really bad.
but oral or anal should be notified to ur DAD not mom...unless dont have a dad (a mom would be uncomfortable for me) and the police. nobody will be mad at you.

[Sunrider]

You SHOULD tell someone your parents might be a good place to start off and then you could go to police if you wanted.

As for you with your friend, Pioneer summed up the friendship aspect well,hes not much of a friend if he makes you do that
but if you'd like to remain friends try to hang out in public and really avoid any possibility of him doing that again.

[jakejohn]

if you felt that you were abused, then i strongly advise you to go talk to a trusted adult as soon as possible.

[Glasgow]

I knew people were going to have trouble understanding this from reading the title :P

If he raped you, but you arent that affected by it really. Then just avoid him or tell him to stop, but if you are affected by it tell your mom.

[Antares]

hey wtf happened to my post was it deleted?

[Sapphire]

No one seems to actually have read or paid attention to this:
Just to point out that the police can't actually do anything now (unless you haven't showered) as it will be your word against his. Without evidence nothing can be done by the police.

There is no point in telling him to go to the police. It is too late for that now. They need evidence to be able to do anything.

If it is really bothering you then tell a responsible adult.
You should also take care not to allow yourself to enter situations like this in the future.

[kungfu77]

Well dope hasn’t said if he raped him or not so we are just guessing. I want to know I he raped him or just played with him if he played with him then he doesn’t need to go to the cops but if he did then he still doesn’t need to but he needs to tell his mom and dad and or just stay away from him.

[RJEXPRESS]

can i ask what he did to you??

[Greyson]

can i ask what he did to you??

Well if you haven't seen it enough around this topic. He was raped.

[Aηdy]

hey wtf happened to my post was it deleted?
Because you constantly spam, all those posts were completely unrelated to the topic and you are very close to getting an infraction for talkin off-topic constanly, just drop it.

[Maverick]

hey wtf happened to my post was it deleted?
Also, be rest assured that if something is deleted, it was for a good reason. Mods have a job to keep the forum running smoothly. If you want to know why a moderator has done something, asking publicly is not the way to handle it. PM a moderator if you want to know why something is locked, deleted, or edited, and if we feel it necessary for you to know, we'll provide you with a reason.

* Do not reply to Andy or mine's posts. Carry it on by PM if you want to discuss it further. Any other unnecessary posts will be discarded.