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CryingEye666
June 27th, 2007, 01:04 AM
is this natural/unhealthy?

i feel if i call this girl up and ask her to hang out, i might get head. i dont know i just know this girl, and she might be the type of girl that would experiment with things like that.

i posted something before saying i know im not afraid to call this girl up that i havent talk to or seen for a long time, and should i?

so i was gona, but then i mentioned i had weird sex fantasies about her. and i still do. its kinda annoying and i feel if i call her up she might give me head.

not that thats a bad things, its just i never done it before, and i wouldnt be expecting it.

is this right or wrong? or healthy or unhealthy?

ya'll can post, but ill read everything tomorrow, cause im gona turn in. goodnite
Pioneer92
June 27th, 2007, 01:16 AM
i personally think its wrong to hang out with a girl and stuff just so you can get off unless its mutual and both people know about it. lots of people do it anyway though even if the other person doesnt know it but i dont think that makes it right. i dont know the whole story so i cant really comment on that but from your post thats what ive gathered...

if both of you just wanna get each other off for now then thats alright and its healthy
CryingEye666
June 27th, 2007, 08:20 AM
no no no, i said if i ask to hang out and she suddenly wants to experiment or something. and then it just , happens
Sapphire
June 27th, 2007, 08:59 AM
no no no, i said if i ask to hang out and she suddenly wants to experiment or something. and then it just , happens

In the instance that you both want it (ie. it just happens) then it's fine and, as long as you're is protected when you need to be, healthy too.
Pioneer92
June 27th, 2007, 09:05 PM
In the instance that you both want it (ie. it just happens) then it's fine and, as long as you're is protected when you need to be, healthy too.

yep there you go :D as long as its all in good fun and both people know!
Gumleaf
June 28th, 2007, 08:19 AM
if you find yourself in a position where you both want it, then go ahead and do these things. but if either of you even have a hint of not wanting to do these then don't do it, because it may effect your relationship later on.
JoshDude
June 29th, 2007, 09:53 AM
If you both start falling into doing these things, and you both seem to like it, why not go ahead?