talking about sex

[green]

should me and my girlfriend be comfortable talking about sex and masturbation that sort of thing? i find that we find it awkward to talk about it

[Short Circuit]

I am never comfortable talking about sex and wanking to girls. Don't know why, it just seems weird talking to them about it

[FullyAlive]

If you're in a relationship with someone you should be able to talk about sex with them, yes it might be awkward to start with but it's something you need to get past. How old are you may I ask?

[Gothicdeer]

I never felt awkward talking about sexuality

[KillerKing]

Well it depends. If you have never done anything sexual then yes, it will be a bit awkward because if neither of you have I done you'll both have different ideas and points of view on the matter at hand. I found that in my relationship, we didn't really talk about it and it just happened and even after that it felt a bit awkward but the more we did it and got comfortable with each other the easier it was to talk about it :)

[green]

im 15 and shes 14. its not just talking about us having sex but like talking about past experiences and if we masturbate that sort of thing

[shannondouvier]

Well it depends.

[obsessivedisorder]

Well, I mean, personally, I think it is too early to even have sex, but it's not up to me. And really, there is no right or wrong age to start having sex, as long as you know the consequences and you are mature and ready enough to do so. So if you are thinking about engaging in sexual activities, I think you two should be able to talk about it first or else you are not mature enough to progress sexually in your relationship. Relationships are all about communication, and if a relationship lacks it, then there is no way it will survive.

Oh god, that is really off topic by the end... oh well! I hope this helped in anyway even if it didn't in your situation. :)

[Mortal Coil]

Maybe it would be less awkward if you had proper grammar...

I think it varies between couples. If you want to have sex with her, the it really shouldn't be that awkward. Just my opinion though.

[KillerKing]

Maybe it would be less awkward if you had proper grammar...

I think it varies between couples. If you want to have sex with her, the it really shouldn't be that awkward. Just my opinion though.

LOL! Says the one with the username 'evil.angel' XD

im 15 and shes 14. its not just talking about us having sex but like talking about past experiences and if we masturbate that sort of thing

And as for this, i think talking about mastubating will definately come with time after getting to know one another sexually. I personally would find it quite weird talking about that because it's like, my individual thing and it's specifically about me where as sex it's about two. But as a previous poster 'obsessivedisorder' said, be sure are both ready for it. At least be able to talk about sex first and the rest will come later :)

[kenoloor]

If you're uncomfortable communicating with your partner, you have a problem. If talking about sex makes your uncomfortable, you may want to reconsider your relationship and what you're focusing on within it.

Good rule of thumb: if you can't talk about it, you probably shouldn't do it.
Another good rule of thumb: if you're not communicating capably and comfortably within a relationship, that probably needs to change. Communication is key.

[ashdyn]

It really depends on how long you've been dating and your level of trust. It might be awkward at first but that passes quickly lol A girlfriend of mine once broke the sexual ice by asking who I've been with and what I did with them...awkward lol