Help?

[Reggy]

Ok, so I'm new here, meaning this is my first post. I wanted to talk to people who won't wind up knowing or telling the people in my life and I figured this might be the place to do it.

I'm not sure whether this goes in relationships or grief depresion etc, so sticky it if it's in the wrong place.

Anyway, i just broke up with my girlfriend, or rather I was dumped. We had been going out for about 6 and a half months. All of a sudden today she told me she needed to talk to me, and basically said that she wanted to take a break, and i shouldn't try and contact her for 2 weeks. So basically we started talking and would up saying we should just end it now. Her reason for the break thing was that she had to figure out what she was doing for school next year and couldnt be in a commitment. After talking to her I realized that she had pretty much fallen out of love with me and had just not let it on until now.

I was in love with her, and she was with me until the past few weeks. Anyway I was considering suicide and i figured this might be the place to talk about it.
It's not that my life is horrible or anything without her, it's just that I was so incredibly happy with her, it doesn't really seem worth it after losing that happiness. Basically I'm saying whats the point of riding the wave down after being at the peak.

[Maverick]

First off welcome to VT! I think your post is fine here. You posted it in the right spot.

Ugh I'm sure you feel like crap and that's expected after getting broken up with. But you have to realize that in time, you'll be able to heal and you'll be able to move on. It doesn't seem like that now but trust me, you'll be able to get out of your suicidal thoughts and depression. Life has it's ups and downs and you gotta deal with them and not just give up and kill yourself.

Hardships make us who we are today and make us stronger. You're only 15 and have a whole life ahead. Don't put it to waste. Trust me that it will get better. You just have to give time a chance. You have nothing to lose sticking it out. You'll be fine. I know you will be. We've all been there.

[Bobby]

Don't commit suicide. That isn't going to solve anything.

Other people will come along, don't get so upset over something like this. I'm sure life will bring many opportunities for happiness, your only 15. Break through it, and you'll become a stronger person.

[Φρανκομβριτ]

Welcome to VT. This site is a secure place you can come and not be judged.
At the end of relationships; especially those which are long, it's hard.
that doesn't mean you should kill yourself.
I know it seams like it's never going to get better, but take it day by day.
there are plenty more fish in the sea mate.
let it out. cry, punch your pillow, turn on the world,
but just remember, relationships come and go,
friends are forever. maybe you should talk to them?

[Reggy]

Thanks for the responses.

I realize that it's just the initial shock and depression of the end of a relationship, but who's to say that I'll ever be that happy again, and if not, what's the point?

Meh I doubt I will do it. More just the feeling and the thoughts that I'd like to deal with.

[Maverick]

That's thing with life you never know. There's more to life then relationships. There is a lot of point. Your life doesn't become meaningless from one break up.

[Reggy]

thanks....really.