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TaylrJ
April 8th, 2012, 09:01 PM
I am 14, and I like this guy who is 13. I have liked him for four months now. I don't think I am gay, just bicurious. Most likely bisexual. I think he is gay though. Just not far enough into puberty to realize it. Anyway, I like him A LOT. I constantly think of him. He is moving schools soon so I try to be with him at all times. I really want him to like me back but I don't think he does. I want to believe he does but subconsciously, I know he doesn't. It is really hard to deal with this. Being away from him, it just gives me so much depression and anxiety. How I deal with it is imagine him liking me. I act like he is with me, literally at all times, and act like he likes me back. Because what else can I do? I might as well pretend we are together and are happy. But I hate it. I hate crying over him and I hate trying to find ways of him liking me back, knowing he has probably zero interest in me. I feel like I have a problem, or an obsession.. I want it to stop and at the same time I want to be with him. It is just so hard and I need to find ways to deal with it.. What are some? How can I deal with so much depression? It isn't like I can tell him, he is too young and immature to take it seriously... What are some ways to make hints of liking him? Because I surprisingly still have hope of him noticing and liking me back. Could you please help? Thanks...

Skyotic
April 9th, 2012, 03:00 PM
well if hes moving, Why not tell him how you feel? I mean, If he's leaving, Why not?

StoppingTime
April 9th, 2012, 03:03 PM
Well, if you truly think he's too young and immature to handle a relationship, I would try not to be bothered by it.
Otherwise, just go talk to him.

Kotaro
April 9th, 2012, 08:18 PM
Remember he is just one year younger then you :) just try and talk to him.

ashdyn
April 11th, 2012, 01:40 AM
If he's moving then you don't want to have any regrets or leave anything unsaid. If he likes you back then enjoy what time you have left together and end on good terms...who knows you may cross paths in the future. If he doesn't then at least you know he really wasn't the one for you no matter how badly you wanted him to be. There's plenty of other people you'll meet that you can fall in love with. So just talk to him...just so you'll know.