View Full Version : Not sure what's happening...
ArseNIC
April 8th, 2012, 03:43 PM
So there's this girl that I have been flirting with and things went pretty well. We got together a few nights ago and got into kissing, then french kissing and then I touched her boobs. This was the first time I have actually kissed a girl but I didn't enjoy any of it at all, none of the kissing or the touching... What's wrong with me? Everyone always goes on about how fun kissing is and how good it feels but I hated every moment of it
swimmerboy95
April 8th, 2012, 06:27 PM
It might just not be your thing man. It isn't for everyone. I mean if you're at all curious that could explain it but from the way its worded it seems like you aren't gay or bi.
Short Circuit
April 9th, 2012, 01:21 AM
It was your first time, so don't read anything into it. Once you have done it a few more times, you will get to enjoy it
FullyAlive
April 9th, 2012, 10:42 AM
There isn't anything wrong with you. Personally I'm not a physical person I don't like being touched and I've never been a fan of kissing in general. What I am a fan of is kissing someone I like. But there isn't anything wrong with you if you don't enjoy it, you don't need to do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. If you want to stop you can. However as was suggested you might want to wait until after a few more times, you might find once you get past the initial newness and nerves you do actually like it.
But either way it's okay if you do hate kissing you can find other ways of being close to girls.
Desuetude
April 9th, 2012, 04:04 PM
If it's your first time it wont always go perfectly, I wouldn't judge everything on that one moment with that one girl. Hopefully things will clear up for you when you've had a little more experience. Like Louise said though, you can be close to girls in ways other than kissing and touching. The emotional connection you feel is a lot more important.
KillerKing
April 9th, 2012, 07:33 PM
Maybe you don't care much for physical attraction. For example, you wouldn't enjoy having sex with some hot stranger as much as you would someone who you love with all your heart and really feel for. Or maybe you just don't really feel ready for all of it?
ArseNIC
April 10th, 2012, 03:14 PM
Not gay or bi, a bit curious though but can't see myself with another guy
I always thought it would be something I would like to do straight off the bat but that doesn't seem to be the case. I don't think I like the whole touchy feely thing as when I touched her, she was too warm for my liking and that put me off as well.
ashdyn
April 10th, 2012, 07:37 PM
You could have just been really really nervous. Don't worry about it bro.
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