View Full Version : Anyone else Going through a "gay phase"?
Nlcoahran
April 8th, 2012, 02:37 PM
I'm 14 and I've always liked girls until I hit puberty. I still like girls now but I have a sexual attraction to guys now too. Like when I see a penis it turns me on. But also the other day a girl layed her head on my chest and I got a boner. .. I also am only emotionally attracted to girls . I couldn't Imagine having a relationship with a guy, becaus I want to get married and have kids. I enjoy gay porn and also straight porn too. Lots of people think its either hormones or in bicurious. Is anyone else like this??
Gothicdeer
April 8th, 2012, 02:41 PM
I've never been attracted to a guy before but what you're feeling is normal though
kyler
April 8th, 2012, 02:55 PM
The "guy feelings" kinda come and go for me. I always liked girls more but there's always been something there, less now than a cpl years ago tho
swimmerboy95
April 8th, 2012, 03:05 PM
Definitely a normal phase to go through but it could be that you are just curious. Whatever happens though, don't feel weird about it. Its nothing to worry about. But like I said, its very normal.
--Alex
Hunterrrr
April 8th, 2012, 03:42 PM
Definitely normal!
Stryker125
April 8th, 2012, 03:53 PM
I wouldn't call it a gay phase, since you're not really gay, you've just got raging hormones. It's normal though. Happens to everyone, even if they don't like to admit it.
senior.2013
April 8th, 2012, 05:15 PM
I went through one. Its normal to get that during puberty, usually anywhere from 13-17. Its what almost every guy gets, so theres no problem with it. As you said, its the hormones and will most likely go away. And youre also right in saying you are not gay or bi because you feel no emotional attraction to guys. It will most likely fade and you wont notice it anymore.
booboo22
April 8th, 2012, 06:18 PM
I am going through the same thing, and I'm 18. Once you start puberty we are basically "aroused" by anything and everything. It's very normal.
lambo420
April 8th, 2012, 06:55 PM
Sounds like me i actually love gay porn. I feel u man i know exactly how u feel most guys are like this. Emotionally attracted to women yes. Im Sure MANY guys get turned on from penis. its just hormones
OceanBlue
April 9th, 2012, 12:02 AM
Yea what your going through is fine. I was the same way. I liked girls, then I started liking a guy, but now Im back to liking girls. Its normal
Abyssal Echo
April 9th, 2012, 12:17 AM
sounds like to me ur just curious which is totally normal during puberty
JackShephard
April 9th, 2012, 12:27 AM
I know what you mean. Some people grow out of it, some people don't.
Jakobb
April 9th, 2012, 12:34 AM
Its not a gay or bisexual thing at all. You're most likely not even curious. Its normal, no worries.
Evancosta
April 9th, 2012, 12:55 AM
It's called being bi-curious. Your not going to come to terms with your sexuality until your a bit more developed mentally. You just have to go with the flow.
iwannago
April 9th, 2012, 12:57 AM
yea, i totally know how you feel, its juts a thing that some guys go through not just you but alot of other people, including me!
Short Circuit
April 9th, 2012, 01:14 AM
I have not even hit the "curious" stage yet.
wildmanjesse
April 9th, 2012, 01:22 AM
It is normal because I like girls But I find some men attractive like celebs ;)
this_kids_a_DJ
April 9th, 2012, 07:05 AM
Yes, that is very normal. I am hopefully just ending this stage since I prefer girls, but always willing to experiment with guys.
leafgreenangel
April 9th, 2012, 09:34 AM
Its probably your hormones that are making you curious. Everyone goes though something like this. Once you expirament if you do this may go down.
coreyorama
April 9th, 2012, 03:20 PM
kid, your 14, and horny, lets be honest, other hten the 13 year olds, weve all been 14 here... you get really horny, your a litte bromantic at the moment, but trust me, its jsut a phase, not even a gay phase, jsut a little, hormonal phase
LaG SkiLLeD
April 9th, 2012, 04:00 PM
I'm that way too but I think I'm bicurious.
Cicero
April 9th, 2012, 04:12 PM
Most everyone who says they're curious, means what you just said.
smd11451
April 9th, 2012, 04:37 PM
You're just curious man. But even more than curious, you're a horny teenager like the rest of us :P Any bare skin tends to turn us on.
As a side note, just because you're gay doesn't mean you can't have a family (get married, have kids, etc...)
billybigfish
April 9th, 2012, 04:47 PM
yeah me to man, its both horemones and bicuriousnesses, youl ind it gets a lot less stronger the further into puberty! stay (sic) man!!
MUSJUN20
April 9th, 2012, 05:02 PM
Same with me its normal
big-d-munoz
April 9th, 2012, 08:05 PM
im going trought it to bro
Diverperry
April 9th, 2012, 08:16 PM
ya that phase is completely normal. hormones are just increasing your sex drive
VirtualGuy012
April 10th, 2012, 11:15 AM
i think everyone has the kind of phases. It's just the hormones i would say
Hermes
April 10th, 2012, 04:30 PM
Whatever you call it I think this particular sexual orientation is more common than many people think.
I feel similar in that I am in a straight relationship and that is the only kind of relationship I am interested in as that is where my romantic attraction lies. I don't find any romantic attraction to guys. I can't imagine myself in a relationship with a guy, French kissing a guy or even having oral or anal sex with a guy.
On the other hand not so long back a friend suggested we wank each other and I though it would be fun. It got me hard, it was fun and, if I was not in a relationship and the chance came again I would probably do it again. I do find the sight of a big cock erotic and I like seeing cum shots - either my own (live) or someone else's.
Don't worry too much about this. There really isn't that much difference between being 100% straight and slightly curious as neither of these means you are heading for gay lifestyle.
Matt123
April 10th, 2012, 05:00 PM
Its normal, its happening to me too. Some things you describe also happen to me....a lot. its normal
allann
April 10th, 2012, 05:23 PM
I'm kinds the same I'm sexually attracted to guys and girls but only emotionally attracted girls and watch gay lorn so
allann
April 10th, 2012, 05:23 PM
Porn not lorn
andy3310
April 13th, 2012, 01:48 AM
agree^^^ same here
NicholasKnutson
April 15th, 2012, 12:26 AM
I want you to know that you are really not alone. I am going through one myself, I am into women, but suddenly I became intrested in men also. If you ever need to contact me, you can talk on skype. ObsessedwithRussia ;)
Vegito
April 15th, 2012, 03:25 AM
I seem to be going through a gay phase as well. Quite frankly, I believe it to just the the hormones rushing. In my mind, I can see myself being with a woman, not a man. I get turned on by the thought of making love to a woman, and I get nothing from the thought of doing anything to a man. Although, I do seem to be getting turned on when seeing muscles, but when I think it through, it all leads back to that I want the mussels so that I can impress a woman. Really, I think it will be over eventualy.
Rebelion
April 15th, 2012, 08:15 PM
Some wait, it is psycological mostly because you were exposed to homosexuality and for some reason your mind like all of are is jacked up and mental find a srieght porn website jack off to only pussies every day for 2 weeks and you will be as stieght as a line
rockymountainway
April 16th, 2012, 02:53 AM
Sounds pretty normal. I'm 16 and the same thing happens to me. I get turned on my penises, but I wouldn't want to have a serious relationship with a guy.
Panda
April 18th, 2012, 08:19 PM
I am exactly like that. I'm 17 and a late bloomer. I guess seeing other guys develop after than me made me curious but I'm catching up now. I even watch gay porn too because I'm curious about the penises.
fookyfook
April 19th, 2012, 01:13 AM
Yeah same here my friends and i often jack off together or each other so i've seen their dicks loads of times and sometimes get turned on.
timeline
April 19th, 2012, 06:17 AM
Its definitely normal. I'm going through that same phase. I like girls but guys just mostly turn me on. It started when I was 14 as well. Don't worry. Your fine
dgski
May 21st, 2012, 08:41 PM
Yea, im 15 and i feel the same way. Like a pic of a penis would turn me on, but so would a vagina. And im going out with a girl currently, and i love her, and i honestly can't even imagine going out with a guy or marrying one, because i too want to have a family and stuff.
Levicorpyutani
April 17th, 2014, 04:47 PM
Almost all of my life I was attracted to boys now for some odd reason I feel attracted to both not sure why. Still like boys but I like girls too. Considering I was exclusively attracted to men until recently I think this a phase but I can't be sure. I can't call my self les cause I still like boys but I don't know why I like girls now too is possible to go temporarily bi? I though you were born one way or the other and even into my teen years I liked only the opposite what gives will this go away or will it stay for the rest if my life.
jpcastillo
April 17th, 2014, 05:09 PM
Happens to everyone don't worry
Typhlosion
April 17th, 2014, 05:12 PM
Been there, seen that, I don't want to think about it again.
The hormones dude, they act and you think it's normal dude!
Have fun with what you're feeling, most importantly! :D
Elysium
April 17th, 2014, 05:12 PM
Almost all of my life I was attracted to boys now for some odd reason I feel attracted to both not sure why. Still like boys but I like girls too. Considering I was exclusively attracted to men until recently I think this a phase but I can't be sure. I can't call my self les cause I still like boys but I don't know why I like girls now too is possible to go temporarily bi? I though you were born one way or the other and even into my teen years I liked only the opposite what gives will this go away or will it stay for the rest if my life.
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