For Gays or Lesbians

[jamesscott]

Has any of u ever dated the same sex that was bi and they left u for the oppisite sex? My ex bf left me for a girl and it hurt me badly:( if this hapened to u would u ever date someone whos BI again?

[swimmerboy95]

Aww! Thats terrible! Honestly I don't know what I would do. I would probably try one or two more times but I probably wouldn't trust them as much. Just go with what you feel is right. If they really love you, they should stay with YOU no matter what but i don't know. Hope this helps in some way and good luck. The fact that you've even had a relationship makes you further along than me. If you ever need to talk message me! Im always up to talk.
--Alex

[KillerKing]

Hey!! We're not all bad! It's all about the individuals! You can't say 'Oh, I went out with a bi and he left me for a girl so I'm never gunna go out with one again!' Maybe that guy was just a prik and he would of left you for someone else regardless of their sex. You seem to forget that in striaght couples, people still leave the other even though they're opposite sex, its just who they are.

Sorry to hear that he was so cruel as to just leave you. But, Don't let one bad experience put you off someone who could be absoultely amazing to you.

[Abyssal Echo]

Has any of u ever dated the same sex that was bi and they left u for the oppisite sex? My ex bf left me for a girl and it hurt me badly:( if this hapened to u would u ever date someone whos BI again?

happened 2 me once never again. like I said in my blog if you're not gay ur not dating material.

[kenoloor]

An attitude like "a bisexual cheated on me so I'll never date a bisexual ever again" is nigh identical to an attitude like "a black person cheated on me so I'll never date a black person ever again."
Don't be stupid.

[prob1996]

This has happened to me. My ex bf was bi and did leave me for a girl. It devastated me but I survived. You date the person not their identity. My current bf is also bi. I admit it is still a fear of mine b/c of what happened before. My bf knows my concerns and helps me work through it.

[boosterboy1]

Im bi and I've left people for the opposite sex before. I explained myself to them after we broke up and luckily they all took it well.

[Smeagol]

Honestly, for me, that would still be like if a lesbian left me for another lesbian. To me, people are people, I can't care about the labels (well, they sure are a help in determining who one can and cannot date...) I'm sorry to hear what happened to you but don't diss bi people for it. It's just the particular guy.

[jamesscott]

thanks for the advice everyone