Can I trust Him?

[ScarredForLife]

Ive recently started going out with this guy and he's so sweet and adorable. He's insanely hot too. The only problem is I'm not the only one who knows this. He's a bit of a player and I see a bunch of girls talking to him and flirting with him and I want to trust him. But I just can't shake the feeling that he's going to do something with one of them. It's making me sick because I'm so paranoid. I just don't know what to do...

[RCT109]

Ok so here is what you should do. You should talk to him, dont just go up and demand that he stops talking to other girls, talk to him about it peacefully. Like over dinner or something.

Try not to worry

btw how long have you known him

[ScarredForLife]

I have talked to him and he told me it's nothing I should worry about and I want to believe him but I feel like something's gonna happen. and I've known him for about 5 months.

[RCT109]

well all I can say is this
keep an eye on the girls that flirt with him and if your feeling starts to get strong then confront him again and give him an ultimatum

[FullyAlive]

You can't stop your boyfriend from talking to other girls that's ridiculous. But you can set boundaries, have a conversation where you are both being honest and see what he classifies as cheating, then tell him what you're uncomfortable with and come to a compromise that you can both stick to. Just don't go around demanding he stop talking to other girls that's far too over the top. You need to do it subtly and maturely.