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Dimitri
April 7th, 2012, 04:21 PM
Most teenagers don't plan to get pregnant, but many do. Teen pregnancies carry extra health risks to the mother and the baby. Often, teenagers don't receive timely prenatal care, and they have a higher risk for pregnancy-related high blood pressure and its complications. Risks for the baby include premature birth and a low birth weight.

What is a Pregnancy Test?

How do pregnancy tests work?

All pregnancy tests work by detecting a certain hormone in the urine or blood that is only there when a woman is pregnant. This hormone is called human chorionic gonadotropin (kohr-ee-ON-ihk goh-NAD-uh-TROH-puhn), or hCG. It is also called the pregnancy hormone.

hCG is made when a fertilized egg implants in the uterus. This usually happens about six days after the egg and sperm merge. But studies show that in up to 10 percent of women, implantation does not occur until much later, after the first day of the missed period. The amount of hCG rapidly builds up in your body with each passing day you are pregnant.

Are there different types of pregnancy tests?

Yes. There are two types of pregnancy tests. One tests the blood for the pregnancy hormone, hCG. You need to see a doctor to have a blood test. The other checks the urine for the hCG hormone. You can do a urine test at a doctor’s office or at home with a home pregnancy test (HPT).

These days, many women first use an HPT to find out if they are pregnant. HPTs are inexpensive, private, and easy to use. HPTs also are highly accurate if used correctly and at the right time. HPTs will be able to tell if you're pregnant about one week after a missed period.

Doctors use two types of blood tests to check for pregnancy. Blood tests can pick up hCG earlier in a pregnancy than urine tests can. Blood tests can tell if you are pregnant about six to eight days after you ovulate (or release an egg from an ovary). A quantitative blood test (or the beta hCG test) measures the exact amount of hCG in your blood. So it can find even tiny amounts of hCG. This makes it very accurate. A qualitative hCG blood test just checks to see if the pregnancy hormone is present or not. So this test gives a yes or no answer. The qualitative hCG blood test is about as accurate as a urine test.

How do you do a home pregnancy test?

There are many different types of home pregnancy tests (HPTs). Most drugstores sell HPTs over the counter. They are inexpensive. But the cost depends on the brand and how many tests come in the box.

Most HPTs work in a similar way. Many instruct the user to hold a stick in the urine stream. Others involve collecting urine in a cup and then dipping the stick into it. At least one brand tells the woman to collect urine in a cup and then use a dropper to put a few drops of the urine into a special container. Then the woman needs to wait a few minutes. Different brands instruct the woman to wait different amounts of time. Once the time has passed, the user should inspect the "result window." If a line or plus symbol appears, you are pregnant. It does not matter how faint the line is. A line, whether bold or faint, means the result is positive. New digital tests show the words “pregnant” or “not pregnant.”

Most tests also have a "control indicator" in the result window. This line or symbol shows whether the test is working properly. If the control indicator does not appear, the test is not working properly. You should not rely on any results from a HPT that may be faulty.

Most brands tell users to repeat the test in a few days, no matter what the results. One negative result (especially soon after a missed period) does not always mean you're not pregnant. All HPTs come with written instructions. Most tests also have toll-free phone numbers to call in case of questions about use or results.

How accurate are home pregnancy tests?

Home pregnancy tests (HPTs) can be quite accurate. But the accuracy depends on:

How you use them — Be sure to check the expiration date and follow the instructions. Wait ten minutes after taking the test to check the results window. Research suggests that waiting 10 minutes will give the most accurate result.

When you use them — The amount of hCG or pregnancy hormone in your urine increases with time. So, the earlier after a missed period you take the test, the harder it is to spot the hCG. Many HPTs claim to be 99 percent accurate on the first day of your missed period. But research suggests that most HPTs do not always detect the low levels of hCG usually present this early in pregnancy. And when they do, the results are often very faint. Most HPTs can accurately detect pregnancy one week after a missed period. Also, testing your urine first thing in the morning may boost the accuracy.

Who uses them — Each woman ovulates at a different time in her menstrual cycle. Plus, the fertilized egg can implant in a woman’s uterus at different times. hCG only is produced once implantation occurs. In up to 10 percent of women, implantation does not occur until after the first day of a missed period. So, HPTs will be accurate as soon as one day after a missed period for some women but not for others.
The brand of test — Some HPTs are more sensitive than others. So, some tests are better than others at spotting hCG early on.

How soon after a missed period can I take a home pregnancy test and get an accurate result?

Many home pregnancy tests (HPTs) claim to be 99 percent accurate on the first day of your missed period. But research suggests that most HPTs do not always spot pregnancy that early. And when they do, the results are often so faint they are misunderstood. If you can wait one week after your missed period, most HPTs will give you an accurate answer. Ask your doctor for a more sensitive test if you need to know earlier.

My home pregnancy test says I am pregnant. What should I do next?

If a home pregnancy test is positive and shows that you are pregnant, you should call your doctor right away. Your doctor can use a more sensitive test along with a pelvic exam to tell for sure if you're pregnant. Seeing your doctor early on in your pregnancy will help you and your baby stay healthy.

My home pregnancy test says that I am not pregnant. Might I still be pregnant?

Yes. So, most home pregnancy tests (HPTs) suggest women take the test again in a few days or a week if the result is negative.

Each woman ovulates at a different time in her menstrual cycle. Plus, the fertilized egg can implant in a woman’s uterus at different times. So, the accuracy of HPT results varies from woman to woman. Other things can also affect the accuracy. Sometimes women get false negative results when they test too early in the pregnancy. This means that the test says you are not pregnant when you are. Other times, problems with the pregnancy can affect the amount of hCG in the urine.

If your HPT is negative, test yourself again in a few days or one week. If you keep getting a negative result but think you are pregnant, talk with your doctor right away.

Can anything affect home pregnancy test results?

Most medicines should not affect the results of a home pregnancy test (HPT). This includes over-the-counter and prescription medicines, including birth control pills and antibiotics. Only medicines that have the pregnancy hormone hCG in them can give a false positive test result. A false positive is when a test says you are pregnant when you're not. Sometimes medicines containing hCG are used to treat infertility (not being able to get pregnant).

Alcohol and illegal drugs do not affect HPT results. But do not use these substances if you are trying to become pregnant or are sexually active and could become pregnant.

Source: Dept. of Health and Human Services, Office on Women’s Health (http://womenshealth.gov/publications/our-publications/fact-sheet/pregnancy-tests.cfm)

Classic symptoms of pregnancy

In addition to a missed period, the earliest symptoms of pregnancy might include:

Nausea with or without vomiting. Morning sickness, which can strike at any time of the day or night, sometimes begins as early as three weeks after conception. Nausea seems to stem at least in part from rapidly rising levels of estrogen and progesterone, which cause the stomach to empty more slowly. Pregnant women also have a heightened sense of smell, so various odors — such as foods cooking, perfume or cigarette smoke — might cause waves of nausea in early pregnancy.
Tender, swollen breasts. Your breasts might provide one of the first symptoms of pregnancy. As early as two to three weeks after conception, hormonal changes might make your breasts tender, tingly or sore. Or your breasts might feel fuller and heavier.
Increased urination. You might find yourself urinating more often than usual, especially at night.
Fatigue. Fatigue also ranks high among early symptoms of pregnancy. During early pregnancy, levels of the hormone progesterone soar — which can put you to sleep. At the same time, lower blood sugar levels, lower blood pressure and increased blood production might team up to sap your energy.
Food aversions or cravings. When you're pregnant, you might find yourself turning up your nose at certain foods, such as coffee or fried foods. Food cravings are common, too. Like most other symptoms of pregnancy, these food preferences can be chalked up to hormonal changes — especially in the first trimester, when hormonal changes are the most dramatic.


Sometimes symptoms of pregnancy are less familiar or obvious. If you're pregnant, you might experience:



Slight bleeding or cramping. Sometimes a small amount of spotting or vaginal bleeding is one of the first symptoms of pregnancy. Known as implantation bleeding, it happens when the fertilized egg attaches to the lining of the uterus — about 10 to 14 days after fertilization. This type of bleeding is usually a bit earlier, spottier and lighter in color than a normal period and doesn't last as long. Some women also experience abdominal cramping — similar to menstrual cramping — early in pregnancy.
Mood swings. The flood of hormones in your body in early pregnancy can make you unusually emotional and weepy. Mood swings also are common, especially in the first trimester.
Dizziness. As your blood vessels dilate and your blood pressure drops, you might feel lightheaded or dizzy. Early in pregnancy, faintness also can be triggered by low blood sugar.
Constipation. An increase in progesterone causes food to pass more slowly through the intestines, which can lead to constipation early in pregnancy. Constipation can be aggravated by prenatal vitamins containing iron.


Source: Symptoms of Pregnancy: What Happens Right Away (http://www.mayoclinic.com/print/symptoms-of-pregnancy/PR00102/METHOD=print) (Mayo Foundation for Medical Education and Research)

So, you are pregnant, now what?

If you're a pregnant teenager, you can help yourself and your baby by


Taking your prenatal vitamins for your health and to prevent some birth defects
Avoiding smoking, alcohol and drugs
Using a condom, if you are still having sex, to prevent sexually transmitted diseases that could hurt your baby

Provide support

Teenage pregnancy is often a crisis for a young girl and her family, as well as the baby's father and his family. Common reactions include anger, guilt and denial. Teens might also experience anxiety, fear, shock and depression.

Discuss the options

A pregnant teen — along with her parents, the father of the baby and his parents — has a variety of options to consider:

Keep the baby. Many pregnant teens keep their babies. Some marry the baby's father and raise the baby together. Others rely on family support to raise the baby. Finishing school and getting a good job can be difficult for a teen parent, however. If you are thinking about keeping the baby, make sure you understand the challenges and responsibilities involved.

Give the baby up for adoption. Some pregnant teens choose to give their babies up for adoption. If you are considering adoption, explore the different types of adoption available. Also discuss the emotional impact of giving a baby up for adoption.

End the pregnancy. Some pregnant teens choose to end their pregnancies. If you are considering abortion, discuss the risks and the emotional consequences. Keep in mind that some states require parental notification for a legal abortion. Talk to your health care provider or a specialist in pregnancy counseling.

Understand the health risks

Pregnant teens and their babies are at higher risk of health problems than are pregnant women who are older. The most common complications for pregnant teens — especially those younger than age 15 and those who don't receive prenatal care — include a low level of iron in the blood (anemia) and preterm labor. Some research suggests that pregnant teens might be more likely to develop high blood pressure as well.

Babies born to teen mothers are more likely to be born prematurely and have a low birth weight.

Seek proper prenatal care

You can improve your chances of having a healthy baby by taking good care of yourself. If you decide to continue the pregnancy, make sure to:

Seek prenatal care. During pregnancy, regular prenatal visits can help your health care provider monitor your health and the baby's health.

Get tested for sexually transmitted infections. Sexually transmitted infections — including gonorrhea, chlamydia and syphilis — can increase the risk of miscarriage, premature birth, low birth weight, birth defects and other pregnancy complications.

If you have a sexually transmitted infection, treatment is essential.

Eat a healthy diet. During pregnancy, you will need more folic acid, calcium, iron, protein and other essential nutrients. A daily prenatal vitamin can help fill any gaps. In addition, you might need extra calcium and phosphorus because your own bones are still growing.

Stay physically active. Regular physical activity can help ease or even prevent discomfort, boost your energy level and improve your overall health. It also can help you prepare for labor and childbirth by increasing your stamina and muscle strength. Make sure to get your health care provider's OK before starting or continuing an exercise program, especially if you have an underlying medical condition.

Gain weight wisely. Gaining the right amount of weight can support the baby's health — and make it easier for you to lose the extra pounds after delivery. A weight gain of 25 to 35 pounds (about 11 to 16 kilograms) is often recommended for women who have a healthy weight before pregnancy. Pregnant teens may need to gain more weight. Work with your health care provider to determine what's right.

Avoid risky substances. Alcohol, tobacco, marijuana and other illicit drugs are off-limits during pregnancy. Even moderate alcohol use during pregnancy can harm a developing baby. Smoking increases the risk of premature birth, problems with the placenta and low birth weight — and drugs you take can pass from yourself to your baby, sometimes with devastating effects. Even prescription and over-the-counter medications deserve caution. Remember to clear any medications or supplements with your health care provider ahead of time.

Take childbirth classes. These classes can help prepare you for pregnancy, childbirth, breast-feeding and being a parent.

If you lack the finances or transportation needed to obtain prenatal care — or needs help continuing your education — a counselor or social worker might be able to help.

Prepare for the future

Teenage pregnancies often have a negative impact on your future. Teen mothers are less likely to graduate from high school and to attend college, are more likely to live in poverty and are at risk of domestic violence. Teen fathers tend to finish fewer years of school than do older fathers. They're also less likely to earn a livable wage and hold a steady job. In addition, children of teen parents are more likely to have health and cognitive conditions and are more likely to be neglected or abused. Girls born to teen parents are more likely to experience teenage pregnancy themselves.

If you decide to continue the pregnancy, address these challenges head-on. Discuss your goals for the future and how you might go about achieving them as a parent. Look for special programs available to help pregnant teens remain in school or complete course work from home. Take parenting classes to help prepare yourself to financially support and raise a child.

Source: Help Your Teen Handel Pregnancy (http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/teen-pregnancy/MY00820/METHOD=print) (Mayo Foundation for Medical education and Research)


Other Resources:

American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists - PDF

Can a Girl Get Pregnant If She Has Sex during Her Period? (http://kidshealth.org/teen/expert/sex_health/sex_during_period.html) (Nemours Foundations)

Stay Informed: Teen Pregnancy (http://www.stayteen.org/teen-pregnancy) (National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy)

Teenage Pregnancy (American Academy of Pediatrics)

Telling Parents You're Pregnant (Nemours Foundation)

U.S. Teenage Pregnancies, Births and Abortions: National and State Trends and Trends by Race and Ethnicity

When Children Have Children (American Academy of Children and Adolescent Psychiatry)


ALL ADVICE IS PROVIDED AS-IS, AND IS NOT A REASONABLE SUBSTITUTE FOR VISITING A MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL. NOR I OR VIRTUALTEEN.ORG ARE TO BE HELD RESPONSIBLE FOR ANY MEDICAL-RELATED ISSUES; IF YOU HAVE A PROBLEM IT IS ALWAYS BEST TO SEE YOUR DOCTOR.

Please let me know if you have any other questions that you would like answered...

Donkey
April 7th, 2012, 04:22 PM
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Dimitri
April 7th, 2012, 04:24 PM
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Yeahh boy!!!!

ImCoolBeans
April 7th, 2012, 04:40 PM
Great thread with great information. Well done, Robert

Dimitri
April 7th, 2012, 04:46 PM
Great thread with great information. Well done, Robert

Thanks Mike, it means a lot to hear this from you guys.

Jupiter
April 7th, 2012, 05:11 PM
fantastic information, robert!

DerBear
April 7th, 2012, 05:15 PM
This is really great. It's very informative. Good job Robert

Smeagol
April 8th, 2012, 06:28 AM
This is really useful to know... I, for one, think that this ought to be stickied.

Donkey
April 8th, 2012, 08:16 AM
This is really useful to know... I, for one, think that this ought to be stickied.
It was stickied one minute after it was posted

Princess Ariel
April 8th, 2012, 08:24 AM
Wow, just....wow! You did amazingly :)

Smeagol
April 8th, 2012, 08:32 AM
It was stickied one minute after it was posted

Oops sorry :P

Jess
April 8th, 2012, 09:24 AM
really good thread. I hope I never need it, I would freak out if I had something growing inside me

Breakeven
April 8th, 2012, 09:30 AM
can i just say THIS IS AMAZING!!!!! ^_^

Dimitri
April 8th, 2012, 02:19 PM
This is really great. It's very informative. Good job Robert

This is really useful to know... I, for one, think that this ought to be stickied.

Wow, just....wow! You did amazingly :)

really good thread. I hope I never need it, I would freak out if I had something growing inside me

can i just say THIS IS AMAZING!!!!! ^_^

Thanks guys!!!! I am going to start working on one for teen parenting...

Solvez18
April 17th, 2012, 07:01 AM
Wow, no matter what you have to say Dimitri. it always gets me thinking. Heck, im nearly 14 and you're already helping myself understand life and it's courses!

Dimitri
April 17th, 2012, 09:12 AM
Wow, no matter what you have to say Dimitri. it always gets me thinking. Heck, im nearly 14 and you're already helping myself understand life and it's courses!

Glad I could be of service...

Love.Hate
April 17th, 2012, 12:38 PM
This is really good and really useful Robert, good work! :)

Rage of the Menace
April 20th, 2012, 12:01 AM
Very useful, i think i might need it soon.

double r
April 20th, 2012, 12:05 AM
Good info, might save some ones future on this site.

Mirage
April 20th, 2012, 12:43 AM
Great info Robert. This will be helpful to some of our...less responsible comrades.

Over all great job!

Hatsune Miku
June 2nd, 2012, 02:37 AM
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This will save your life.

Narnia
June 7th, 2012, 04:16 PM
Just amazing! :D

BaronessJamison
June 16th, 2012, 04:16 AM
Robert you need to come speak to some girls at my school lol

Dimitri
June 16th, 2012, 11:43 PM
Robert you need to come speak to some girls at my school lol

Hahahaha, I have done speaking engagements at the local middle schools as preventative measures but I have also spoken to a few of the area high schools as well...

momo....
July 18th, 2012, 09:21 PM
tnks

GoldenSnitch
December 2nd, 2012, 11:47 PM
Thank you for helping me be.more wary

Maria72k
August 3rd, 2013, 08:47 PM
good info

HerSecretsAreExposed
August 12th, 2013, 07:39 PM
This was great, but how would I tell my parents?

othees
November 17th, 2013, 03:29 PM
That's pretty good.

Body odah Man
December 14th, 2013, 07:26 AM
A useful guide for all those teenage girls that accidentally get pregnant. Brilliant :)

Myxox
December 25th, 2013, 09:12 PM
This is really good information. Thanks!

EmmaJane
January 4th, 2014, 07:25 PM
Really useful information! Great Job! :D

billys-big-gun
February 4th, 2014, 11:41 AM
Well said

Dwemer
February 18th, 2014, 10:43 AM
nice to know

xban
February 23rd, 2014, 01:31 PM
Useful informations, thanks

laurakitty
April 19th, 2014, 01:49 PM
So people actually try for babies on perpurse when they're Teeeeens

Karkat
April 19th, 2014, 05:22 PM
So people actually try for babies on perpurse when they're Teeeeens

Not really, most are accidental.

bob97
May 19th, 2014, 02:05 PM
Not really, most are accidental.

One girl in my school that I was really food friends with made it her goal to get pregnant. She tried for a year and had three miscarriages. Some people are just stupid

Karkat
May 23rd, 2014, 06:50 PM
One girl in my school that I was really food friends with made it her goal to get pregnant. She tried for a year and had three miscarriages. Some people are just stupid

I've had baby fever before. But then again it was in the context of a stable, loving relationship with the guy I plan to marry, and we never actually 'tried', because having had miscarried before, and not actually being all that prepared for a kid, we knew the fuck better. :P We did fantasize about it a lot though.

I mean, sure, it's very stupid to try and have a baby when you have no...Way to have a baby. Teenage females typically are not prepared for childbirth. I have a few friends who have had, or are having babies in their teens, but it's definitely not the way to go if you can help it. So yeah, it's pretty stupid to TRY and have a kid in your teens, but not to want one, or to accidentally get pregnant. I mean, if you're going to be irresponsible enough to try and take on parenthood because of a whim, yeah, that's stupid, but I think people put way too much shame on teenage pregnancies. You don't always know the circumstances, and even then, the fact that you are shaming kids for having sex- and not educating them on how to do it properly is most likely the reason the pregnancy came about in the first place. Not directly because of you, no, but definitely because of that attitude.

Sure, some kids will just be stupid, but does that mean you shame the ones who aren't?

bob97
May 23rd, 2014, 06:55 PM
I've had baby fever before. But then again it was in the context of a stable, loving relationship with the guy I plan to marry, and we never actually 'tried', because having had miscarried before, and not actually being all that prepared for a kid, we knew the fuck better. :P We did fantasize about it a lot though.

I mean, sure, it's very stupid to try and have a baby when you have no...Way to have a baby. Teenage females typically are not prepared for childbirth. I have a few friends who have had, or are having babies in their teens, but it's definitely not the way to go if you can help it. So yeah, it's pretty stupid to TRY and have a kid in your teens, but not to want one, or to accidentally get pregnant. I mean, if you're going to be irresponsible enough to try and take on parenthood because of a whim, yeah, that's stupid, but I think people put way too much shame on teenage pregnancies. You don't always know the circumstances, and even then, the fact that you are shaming kids for having sex- and not educating them on how to do it properly is most likely the reason the pregnancy came about in the first place. Not directly because of you, no, but definitely because of that attitude.

Sure, some kids will just be stupid, but does that mean you shame the ones who aren't?

What's the baby fever like? And I agree how people crap on teen pregnancy too much. Its usually not there fault and they already have a tough time of it. And just wondering did it work out with that guy?

Karkat
May 23rd, 2014, 07:02 PM
What's the baby fever like? And I agree how people crap on teen pregnancy too much. Its usually not there fault and they already have a tough time of it. And just wondering did it work out with that guy?

Irritating XD You just really want to have your own little child to snuggle and care for, and you know it's just not gonna happen. You get depressed watching movies about babies, you get super clingy if anyone asks you to watch their kids :whoops:

I'm still with him :) We're sort of kind of engaged. It's complicated. We're planning on making it public/official next year.

cunny7
May 26th, 2014, 03:11 PM
Its up to both people to use protection if there underage and are going to have sex anyway. The boy should use a condom and the girl should be on the pill. Or better still don't have sex unless you are in a relationship and are not having underage sex.

chess123
August 11th, 2014, 10:33 PM
The only question I have for this topics what happened to abstinence till marriage

mitchgreen26
September 4th, 2014, 02:27 AM
Very useful infos! )

allisonmyers
September 12th, 2014, 08:47 PM
its crazy ive gone on web sites to look at clothes and crap thank god my sister got preg its helped cool it off

Elysium
September 12th, 2014, 10:50 PM
The only question I have for this topics what happened to abstinence till marriage
Super late :P But this thread doesn't deal with pregnancy prevention, just what happens once the deed's done, so to speak.

cheskamint13
November 13th, 2014, 02:48 AM
Thanks for sharing that great informative post! ;)

twirlgurl
December 29th, 2014, 12:29 AM
I have a saying!!!! (one of many).

- A good friend will go to the drug store and buy her friend a pregancy test.
- A GREAT friend will stand outside the bathroom door while shes taking it yelling "Name it after me!!!!"

:D

DeadPoteto
January 3rd, 2015, 07:35 AM
Good job! :)

cobas1
May 9th, 2015, 12:56 PM
Im 18 and i really want kids but my girlf friend is not for it. Atleast not yet she wants to wait awhile but it really does suck. My girlfriend is a bit younger than me so i tottaly undstand. Why do i want kids so young.

lisa S
May 27th, 2015, 09:38 PM
One of my friends from camp....a girl at her school got pregnant last year I think it was and she had to get an abortion. It cost like $5000 and insurance didn't pay. Also, the guy's family was poor so they couldn't pay any part of it either. So ya, you just have to be really careful or like, there goes your college Spring Break money.

Dyri_14
June 3rd, 2015, 04:22 AM
good information! thanks

Airrd
June 3rd, 2015, 06:45 AM
Some people from my high school were having kids pretty soon after they graduated and there was even a girl who we believe was pregnant in high school and that's fine if that's what she wants. I think shows like 16 and pregnant aren't helping society just making people think its cool and that they could be on TV.

Uniquemind
June 10th, 2015, 04:58 PM
Actually data suggests abortions and teen pregnancy has gone down when you look at data decade by decade.

Daily
June 19th, 2015, 04:41 PM
I don't think they should get any sort external support if they get pregnant. Its their fault if they got in this sh*t.

Babs
July 2nd, 2015, 11:18 PM
Mod note: please do not post the same content in multiple threads, as this is considered spam. Posts have been deleted. If you have something to say, only post it once.

ryanjones
September 12th, 2015, 05:13 AM
Great Post!!!

TheDoctor24
December 8th, 2015, 08:28 PM
Its up to both people to use protection if there underage and are going to have sex anyway. The boy should use a condom and the girl should be on the pill. Or better still don't have sex unless you are in a relationship and are not having underage sex.

At least SOME people have common sense! If you prevent it, you don't have to deal with it. Otherwise, take responsibility for your actions! Raise the child right! :metal:

Jelita
June 14th, 2016, 06:31 AM
Very relevant information.

katherine stpierre
August 25th, 2016, 07:46 AM
It is really informative. It would definitely help people here and to those who are in this situation.

ThomasD
September 10th, 2016, 01:22 PM
Lots of usefull info,thanks

ana bela riguesrod
September 29th, 2016, 12:43 AM
wow its really good. Very informative and useful.
Great post.

Bluegrass
September 27th, 2017, 06:15 AM
I recently heard a study shows teaching people abstinence and to only have sex after marriage does not work.Teaching about condoms and birth control are the best ways to stop pregnancy and S.T.D's.If you get pregnant and are unprepared it could mean a world of trouble.

hayley2003
November 10th, 2017, 06:39 PM
at my school, in the 6th grade they teach the really basic stuff like how a people start to develop and stuff about abuse from people that can't control themselves. they hardly talk about sex at all.

in the 7th grade that teach more about sex and how it works, like how a girl get pregnant.

this year they're going to teach more about using protection. i have not taken that class yet, so i have only heard about it.

anybody can go to the nurses office and get a condom thing. i don't know girl that has, but a couple of show off boys have gotten them and then show it to other people. i don't think they were having sex, they just did it to make people think they were...lol. but i really don't know for sure. :)

ashleigh7
May 13th, 2018, 08:49 AM
I think you can get comdoms now on amazon. (I love amazon) not necessarily for that reason, but you can get anything there! But protection is a 100% must! Its embarrassing at times....for like 5 minutes...a child is for ever. Of course i know easer said than dun. But still.

Lucy G
June 13th, 2018, 08:33 AM
at my school, in the 6th grade they teach the really basic stuff like how a people start to develop and stuff about abuse from people that can't control themselves. they hardly talk about sex at all.

in the 7th grade that teach more about sex and how it works, like how a girl get pregnant.

this year they're going to teach more about using protection. i have not taken that class yet, so i have only heard about it.

anybody can go to the nurses office and get a condom thing. i don't know girl that has, but a couple of show off boys have gotten them and then show it to other people. i don't think they were having sex, they just did it to make people think they were...lol. but i really don't know for sure. :)

This ^^
I'm prob ahead of you as far as teaching this stuff goes, but in our junior school they kinda touched on the subject of sex (sex ed they call it) but it's more the mechanics behind it rather than any kind of relationship and companionship stuff.

Most you younger children prob thing they know loads more than they actually do (to show off to friends etc etc) but in fact learning that sex without precaution (either way) can lead to a child is kinda scary. I'd hate to be in that position personally

vandilization
January 4th, 2019, 09:06 PM
We learned the basic stuff in 5th grade and then 7th was the more in depth stuff.

Sheaman17
March 17th, 2019, 09:27 AM
Really try to wait for marriage and also avoid abortion at all costs

AustinAw3some
March 3rd, 2020, 07:17 PM
I really hope that I never accidentally get a girl pregnant and have to come back to this.

camilaP
February 6th, 2021, 02:26 PM
A friend of mine had an abortion last year. Hope I never find myself in the same situation. If I got pregnant right now I would definitely get an abortion too.

Anna Kadlecova
May 24th, 2021, 05:46 AM
A friend of mine had an abortion last year. Hope I never find myself in the same situation. If I got pregnant right now I would definitely get an abortion too.

Mee too.

camilaP
May 28th, 2021, 12:53 PM
Mee too.
I know. I had many pregnancy scares already.

goodboy12ka5
June 1st, 2021, 11:36 AM
good posting