girldfriend help?

[Sebiie]

right so me and my this girl im insanly inlove with have been going out for 3 months becuz she lives in another town we cannaot see each toher but she is mving down to myy city at the end of the year... but now i get this feeling thats shes just wanting to chat to me a t certain times so that i can make her happy in the sex sense via the phone... durign the day if i send her a message she wont asnwer me and when i finally do get her to anser its like yea.. nothing... coz?? and it onhestly breaks me... and the thing is she realli is on mi mind all the time im considering making a routine of sleeping studying and such for the year toi end faster... but yea and i aslo no that there alot of stressful drama at her end with her friends and family.... i just neeed advice and i just tell my self im overthinking it but sigh i dont know i really need help with this cauyse onhestly when i hear her voice that feeling of sadness in my tummy gos away lol soooo pllzzzzz advice

[Donkey]

Puberty For Girls -> Relationships & Dating

[Sonic Boom]

Well she's probably busy dealing with problems at home like you said.

Aside from that, you got to be more cheeky in your messages. Don't be so lovey-dovey and don't be so predictable all the time:mad:. Tease her!

Next time (when she won't answer you) say something like "you know, i'm not just your personal sex toy that you can use and abuse like Vernon Koekemoer. Say something to impress me this time."

[DerBear]

Well she's probably busy dealing with problems at home like you said.

Aside from that, you got to be more cheeky in your messages. Don't be so lovey-dovey and don't be so predictable all the time:mad:. Tease her!

Next time (when she won't answer you) say something like "you know, i'm not just your personal sex toy that you can use and abuse like Vernon Koekemoer. Say something to impress me this time."

Well depending on what the girl is like that could be one tactic.

OP
Like you said she has friend or family issues. Possible studying or school work. Y'know there are loads of times I get texts but I cannot reply to them. At the end of the day I cannot always get back to people until its late. Sure sometimes I ignore people if I am busy. But some things do have to come first.

The problem with long distance relationships is this! paranoia in a sense. You are unsure why she does not text you back until later that day and when she does say something it's so little. Sure as hell it is rather uneasy but to be honest it can get to a point where you have talked yourselves to death and there is nothing left to talk about.

Also, if you just text her with a common line like "Hi, how are you" It can sometimes lead to such a little reply.