My boyfriend and his past partners

[VerizoniPhone]

Hey guys,

so like, my boyfriend has been with a lot of guys just for sex in the past and he brings them up sometimes. like he would say i remember the time with [blah blah] we did this [blah blah blah] in bed and [blah blah blah blah].

Is it worth it to stay with him? :confused:

[Saxophone 44]

I say yeah... Top those other dudes (no pun intended)!

[Giles]

If you loved him then it wouldn't matter what he says in that sense - both me and my boyfriend talk about our past relationships because they can be interesting sources of conversation, if you don't see it like that then you need to talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel when he talks about his past relationships.

[Joe96]

Just tell him that you don't really like him talking about his past relationships.
If you both love eachother, you should stay together.. But if he's with you for the sex, decide if you want to stay with him or not.

[Abyssal Echo]

Just tell him that you don't really like him talking about his past relationships.
If you both love eachother, you should stay together.. But if he's with you for the sex, decide if you want to stay with him or not.

I agree with Joe96 but you need to find out what hes looking for just sex or an actual realationship. if your looking for a relationship and hes only looking for sex you are setting yourself up for heartbreak and disappointment. but the decision is really up to you.

[swimmerboy95]

If you love him then definitely

[Donkey]

If you loved him then it wouldn't matter what he says in that sense - both me and my boyfriend talk about our past relationships because they can be interesting sources of conversation, if you don't see it like that then you need to talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel when he talks about his past relationships.

Just tell him that you don't really like him talking about his past relationships.
If you both love eachother, you should stay together.. But if he's with you for the sex, decide if you want to stay with him or not.Perfect responses.


It's understandable that it makes you feel uncomfortable but you need to talk to him about it, I don't think finishing it is the answer.


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[UTurn]

Just stay with him. Unless he gives you a reason like hanging out with his exs

[ashdyn]

Don't break up with someone just over that...after all he is dating you lol
Just tell him you don't really want to hear about him being with other guys and that if he enjoyed it so much then maybe he should go back and be with [blah blah] And like what was said up there ^ make him forget about those other guys ;)

[bbadmarc]

"All guys are whores" and sooo.. if thats true, then I'm a girl and I want you! :)

Joking aside, you can't risk getting an STD or something even worse.. time to move on.. you deserve better!!

marc

[DarkHorse4eva]

it doesnt matter who he has been with as long as u love him

[RCT109]

Tell him your concerns and try to prove to him that you are a better perosn than the othere guys
stick it out and see where it leads

[jnhbgvbhgv21]

If you love him, don't pay any attention to what has happened in the past. Just focus on today and the love you share together.

[Ricardo]

If you love him yes stay with him.If you dont like talking about his past sex life tell him or start talking about yours and see how he feels.I actually dont know why he brings that up to you to tell you the truth.