More problems with BF

[milkymouse]

When we are alone my BF always takes out his... thing and makes me touch it. He also touches me over the clothes but I don't let him see underneath.

I went to see him yesterday and his friend was there and he stayed even after I arrived. After a while they both took their "things" out and made me touch them, then they took my clothes off and touched...between my legs.

It was very scary. I want to get rid of my BF but I don't know what to do?

[Desuetude]

Hey, this isn't right what he's doing to you. If you're not comfortable and he is forcing you to do things then it's sexual abuse. If things have been progressing then you don't know how much further he might go.
Tell someone you trust about him and don't go out and see him by yourself, take someone with you. Getting his friend involved shows what he thinks about you, you deserve respect and you're not going to find it staying with him.
If you want to break up with him do it in a public place with lots of people around where he can't make a scene.

[Shortie]

You poor thing, you gotta get out of this relationship as the others have said. Sounds to me like he definiately doesn't respect you and he is using you!!

[Kacey]

This happened to me with my first bf.....all he wanted from me was sex pleasure :,(, u better try to see if u can break up with maybe with ur friends around...otherwise he ll eventually just get "bored" with u, and break up himself,,,,my ex did it around my birthday and our anniversary don't let this happen to u....when u guys do break up he ll try to contact you again make sure u never reply or tell a friend to tell ur bf to f*** off
hope this helps :)

[Danni's dreams]

Get outta there hun ! You dont need these perverts

[kelly820]

That sounds like sexual harassment, you should tell someone because that's so wrong making you do those things against your will like that

[kentucky girl]

get rid of him quick

[cheergurl]

tell an adult, now. dont feel embarrassed or ashamed, you didn't to anything wrong. you need help makin sure he stays away from you, so tell someone. They won't look down on you, there are a lot of creeps out there, so just about any adult will understand how to deal with it. He's not your bf, he's just using you. someone that cares about you would never want you to do anything you don't want to do.

[FullyAlive]

This is abuse, you need to try and tell someone, your mother? A teacher at school? Whoever you can and feel most comfortable with. Get an adult involved and end the relationship. It is never okay for him to make you do something you don't want to do. Don't agree to see him in private again, don't give him any opportunity to do that again. Tell someone, let them help you.
:hug:

[Breakeven]

Hey, this isn't right what he's doing to you. If you're not comfortable and he is forcing you to do things then it's sexual abuse. If things have been progressing then you don't know how much further he might go.
Tell someone you trust about him and don't go out and see him by yourself, take someone with you. Getting his friend involved shows what he thinks about you, you deserve respect and you're not going to find it staying with him.
If you want to break up with him do it in a public place with lots of people around where he can't make a scene.
^^ agreed

[ImCoolBeans]

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[botwa]

this is awful.
why do you tolerate this behavior?
just leave him and all the memories related to him behind.

[DarkHorses]

You need to break up with him. You deserve much better than the way he is treating you. It's not fair that you should have to go through that, and I'm sorry that this happened. But fortunately there is a way out of it, and you don't have to live with someone you're unhappy with.

If you're going to break up with him, I suggest doing so in a public place so that nothing happens. You don't want him to hurt you or abuse you in any way, so it's probably best not to break up with him when no one else is around.

I know it's a scary thing to have to do, but you owe it to yourself. Like I said, you deserve much better.

[madea rocks]

Anyone who does that to a woman is a dirtbag get help from an adult like your father .....or even better his father or mother... just get out of that relationship whatever you do

[ashdyn]

As a guy, it's funny to just whip it out sometimes lol but if he's forcing you like really forcing you then you have to do something about it.

First of all you need to make sure that you tell him you don't like it and it makes you uncomfortable and you want him to stop.
If he doesn't then dump his ass. You don't sound very attached to him so it can't be that hard. Just lay it out in plain english...we're breaking up. You can tell him why (I would) but you don't even need to explain yourself. If he doesn't leave you alone after that then tell someone. You might not have any proof but at least it's on the radar. Good luck!

[Jake Chaplin]

Ok, listen to me, Boys should NOT be allowed to do that no matter what they feel, unless you give them permission. I'm a boy myself but that is just wrong! If your going to get rid of him just dump him full, then he can't keep doing that stuff, honestly that's bad, and i feel for you :(

[Mirage]

It is NOT okay for him to be doing this to you.

You need to get help, he is not allowed to be doing those things without your permission. You should also speak up to him and his friend, let him know how you feel. Tell him you don't want him to touch you and you will do something about it if it continues.

Good luck, and I hope things get better for you!

[PinkFloyd]

Okay, that's just fucking scary. You need to leave this guy. It's bad enough to do that in the first place; but with his friend too? my god... leave the guy. get help from an athourity figure.

best wishes - Rob

[anyone50]

Lot of good advise here. First off he's not your bf if that's how he treats you. you need to stop hanging around him or any of his friends and if he tries anything after you have said no then thats sexual assualt and have him and his friends arrested if they are involved. It sounds like you are having trouble saying no to him and thats why it's all the more important to just refuse to see him if he calls you just tell him you no longer interested in what he's offering