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xDILLIGAFx
April 5th, 2012, 06:06 PM
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abc8375
April 5th, 2012, 06:15 PM
Just keep joking and laugh things off!

xDILLIGAFx
April 5th, 2012, 06:41 PM
Just keep joking and laugh things off!

Exactly what I've been doing, but what I'm trying to get across is that if she does tell me she likes me, I don't know how to deal with it

FullyAlive
April 5th, 2012, 06:57 PM
General rule to go by, if a girl knows she's going to get rejected she won't tell you.
Now you've got to be careful how you do it so as not to hurt her feelings, but you can't really afford for subtlety if you don't want this situation to arise. You need to make sure she knows the feelings aren't returned, if you must you could start talking to her about a different girl, or reinforce how much of a good friend she is. Ask if there's any of your other friends she likes and hint that you'll set them up. Once she gets the picture that you don't like her in that way I'd say it was unlikely that she'd confess all because no girl really wants to hear the rejection speech.

RCT109
April 7th, 2012, 05:50 PM
So I have a friend that I think 'Likes Me', like she's always acting kinda flirty and making jokes that would hint that she likes me, in more than a friendly way, but the thing is there's a guy I like(I'm bi if you hadn't guessed by now :P) who just happens to my best mate, but I've talked about that before, so the thing is I don't see her in that way, so if she does and lets say she told me she did, that makes for a really awkward situation then because, because the guy I like is her friend also and she doesn't know that both of us are bisexual, so I don't feel like I'd be able to tell her I'm Bi, or that I like someone else because if she asked who, which she probably would, I couldn't tell her it was him, because a - it would out him to her, which he wouldn't want and b - it would just generally make things awkward altogether, I just feel like I have no options to deal with this situation, just been so confused lately because I'm still deciding whether or not to tell him how i feel and also this :s


Im going to make it short and simple

Talk with him and tell him. If he's your best mate then he should under sand.

On the issue of you telling her well I would also say talk to your mate before talking to her so he knows whats going on and maybe all 3 of you could talk to one an other in one place

iallen
April 26th, 2012, 12:15 AM
try to find out ask around or something maybe ask your friend out