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xxJBTD
April 5th, 2012, 05:45 PM
First, sorry for my bad english (English is not my native language)

I'm 15, bi (80% gay lol)

So few days ago in school I was talking with my friend (female) about gays. She said that she doesn't like gay people. She don't hate them, she just don't like them. I don't care about that.

Few days after that I was talking with my best friend (female) and she said that gay people are tottaly cool and she would like to have gay friend. So my question is should I tell her that I'm bi. I don't know how to say that. I really trust her. She is 16.

(I didn't tell my parents that I'm bi because my dad hate gay and idk for my mom. And yeah, my bro don't like gay people too. :S )

PLS help!
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Thanks ( :

brokenskyline
April 5th, 2012, 06:34 PM
If you trust her then i'd say go for it. Just be somewhat careful as that could be a sensitive subject. As a side note, you're english is great :)

muddygrand
April 5th, 2012, 06:57 PM
tell her! if you can trust her that is awesome and I bet that your friendship may increase. I know it has to the very few people I have told

music366
April 5th, 2012, 11:24 PM
If you trust her enough go ahead and let her know!

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Abyssal Echo
April 6th, 2012, 12:39 AM
The first person I came out to was my cousin (female) she was totally cool with it so I say if you feel you can trust her go for it

ImCoolBeans
April 6th, 2012, 12:42 AM
Puberty for Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality

I wrote this post (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=134627), I think giving it a read might help you out a little bit here.

PerpetualMotionSquad
April 15th, 2012, 01:11 PM
If u can definitely trust her then tell her. But watch out! News travels fast if that person is a gossip. Hope I helped :)

VictoriaGotaSecret
April 15th, 2012, 01:32 PM
Like everybody has said if you can trust her give it a try and hope for the best but choose your words carefully(I had to learn that one the hard way)

xxJBTD
April 23rd, 2012, 10:35 AM
Thanks guys. I think I'll tell her, but I will wait for some time

PerpetualMotionSquad
April 23rd, 2012, 02:04 PM
Good luck buddy :)

Smeagol
April 23rd, 2012, 04:57 PM
Good luck!

Noxail
April 23rd, 2012, 06:47 PM
Good luck bud. :yeah: