getting a girl to like u

[Soccer4life99]

how can you get a girl to like? i go to school with this girl that i like and we are friends but not best friends. i really like her and she doesnt like any one. how can i get her to like me without telling her i like her because i am shy and i dont want to tell her maybe she will laugh at me or her friends will

[Short Circuit]

You cannot get a girl to like you. Just be yourself, then maybe, just maybe, she will take notice

[Clissera]

Well it depends on what she's like, if she's shy too and she says she doesn't like anyone there's a chance she likes you. Just be yourself, if that doesn't work it's not worth it. Maybe try flirting a little, but not in an obvious way unless she seems to be dropping signs, as it could make your friendship awkward. A lot of teen girls always feel the need to crush on someone, so if she doesn't like anyone make sure you swoop in before someone else does :P Try making lots of eye contact and smiling at her, telling jokes and sitting close to her when you hang out. I don't know what she's like, but that would work on me so it's worth a try. Good luck :)

[FullyAlive]

you can't trick a girl into liking you well you probably could but it wouldn't last.
Let her know the real you, make her feel special and wanted, make yourself an essential part of her life, remember little details of what she tells you be it a pets name, her favourite book just something you can drop in conversation that'll let her know you listen. Simple stuff like that should suffice.

This is what I said in a thread similar to this one and what I still stand by.
Just try and make her feel wanted and if she wants you back then it's okay. But be prepared just because she doesnt like anyone doesn't mean you can get her to automatically like you, you might have to settle for friendship.

[joevalle90]

Men, do not focus on getting her attention or should I say thinking of how she will like you. Just don't mind it, act like as if it's a normal day with friends, talking and sometimes fooling, some sort of that. If I have a crush on a girl, I will not think of anything impossible that she will like me too but treat her different, if she asks some favor, etc then grant it. But remember treat her special, and don't think of how you can get her liking you.

*Sorry for my english*

[Soccer4life99]

thank u guys for replying. wen school stars (easter holidays here) i will like make eye contact more and smile at her and try flirting a little but i am not good with flirting lol thank u all

[Sonic Boom]

I'm going to have to repeat myself. Again:

You got to approach her in a cocky way. When you say "hi" she'll probably be like "hey" and look in the other direction. So then you say "do my good looks always scare you that much?" keep a straight face the whole time.

Here, you are effectively saying "I'm not intimidated by you, and, in fact, I'm so comfortable around beautiful women, that I can make funny comments
like this one..."

Now I'm not saying you should become more of an asshole, but try teasing the girl humorously in terms of what she's wearing or something as well.

Like say "i didn't know the shower curtain emporium had a clothing outlet? Hahaha!" Lame, but just an example. An asshole of course would say something unfunny like "your clothes look ridiculous, go home and change!"...... Get it?

But most importantly, don't smother them with compliments/tell them you love them constantly/be overly romantic. It annoys them subconsciously and puts you into the dreaded friend zone. They don't want a pussy for a boyfriend. Thats what I've observed anyway with my straight friends. They're really good! So goodluck.

[Soccer4life99]

teejay i didnt understand half of wat u said lmoa what is an emporium.. im only 13 i dont know big words like that lol but the last part u said about compliments i will take in to consideraton

[Silicate Wielder]

You can't just get a girl to like you, it takes time. just go for it and ask her out, if she says no, theres always a girl out there for everyone. It just takes time. rushing won't get you anywhere.

I'm going to have to repeat myself. Again:

You got to approach her in a cocky way. When you say "hi" she'll probably be like "hey" and look in the other direction. So then you say "do my good looks always scare you that much?" keep a straight face the whole time.

Here, you are effectively saying "I'm not intimidated by you, and, in fact, I'm so comfortable around beautiful women, that I can make funny comments
like this one..."

Now I'm not saying you should become more of an asshole, but try teasing the girl humorously in terms of what she's wearing or something as well.

Like say "i didn't know the shower curtain emporium had a clothing outlet? Hahaha!" Lame, but just an example. An asshole of course would say something unfunny like "your clothes look ridiculous, go home and change!"...... Get it?

But most importantly, don't smother them with compliments/tell them you love them constantly/be overly romantic. It annoys them subconsciously and puts you into the dreaded friend zone. They don't want a pussy for a boyfriend. Thats what I've observed anyway with my straight friends. They're really good! So goodluck.

Well... Every girl is different, some girls like guys who are honest, sensitive, and are good listeners. Other girls might like a guy who is strong,brave, and a jerk. My GF doesn't like the guy who insults her because everyone else does, she likes guys who are quiet, sensitive, honest, aren't afraid to laugh at a decent joke, have a good temper, and can make her happy. As I said, each girl is different and you have to figure her out first, otherwise you may just scare or insult her.

[iallen]

all girls are different cant wave a wand and have them like you

[botwa]

well be nice to her and try to communicate with her. that's all I can tell you. and be yourself.