jhv222
April 4th, 2012, 02:04 PM
Ill try to keep this brief, but can add more info if needed.
-We are both freshman in college.
-She broke up with her boyfriend of about one and a half years.
-Ive had feelings for her since the first semester.
-I hung out with her and texted her a bit, but not too much since I didn't want to get to close since she did have a boyfriend at the time.
Now she's broken up with her boyfriend and it makes me sad to see her sad. Since I don't really see her in person, I don't know the best way to comfort her.
I was thinking of calling her and inviting her to watch a movie or something with my roommate and I in our dorm room (don't have a car). But I am worried that she will be too depressed to want to hang out or do anything.
Also I want to let her know that if she needs someone to talk to that I am there for her, that she can call, text, or come over whenever.
I really want to date this girl at some point, but at the same time I want her to get back to her old happy self. How can I influence her to hang out with me to get her mind off of things? Also when and how should I make a move? I feel bad making it too early when she is vulnerable, but at the same time I don't want to turn into just a friend, or be a rebound.
Any advice would be much appreciated, thanks.
-We are both freshman in college.
-She broke up with her boyfriend of about one and a half years.
-Ive had feelings for her since the first semester.
-I hung out with her and texted her a bit, but not too much since I didn't want to get to close since she did have a boyfriend at the time.
Now she's broken up with her boyfriend and it makes me sad to see her sad. Since I don't really see her in person, I don't know the best way to comfort her.
I was thinking of calling her and inviting her to watch a movie or something with my roommate and I in our dorm room (don't have a car). But I am worried that she will be too depressed to want to hang out or do anything.
Also I want to let her know that if she needs someone to talk to that I am there for her, that she can call, text, or come over whenever.
I really want to date this girl at some point, but at the same time I want her to get back to her old happy self. How can I influence her to hang out with me to get her mind off of things? Also when and how should I make a move? I feel bad making it too early when she is vulnerable, but at the same time I don't want to turn into just a friend, or be a rebound.
Any advice would be much appreciated, thanks.