Cousin

[oscarlichen]

I don't know if this belongs here or whatever, but sorry if it doesn't. Anyway last year I had to sleep in the same bed as my cousin and so I started cuddling with him because I thought he was asleep; and it turned out he was awake, so let's just say it ended in us jacking off. Anyway he told me he thought he was bi after that, but then a couple minutes after no response he said nevermind. I'm staying with him again tonight and idk if I should pull another move?

[ImCoolBeans]

Considering it's your cousin, no you should not. He's family, they're forever. Lets say things get awkward or go bad, won't that leave a dark cloud over your relationship? You'll never be able to think about each other the same again.

[senior.2013]

As Mike said, hes your cousin and it can ruin any relationship you have. I recommend not doing anything.

[StoppingTime]

Like Mike said, I personally wouldn't. It could ruin your relationship if he really begins to question his sexuality, and eventually blame you for it.

I think it is better that you don't.
Other people below me will most likely say "If ur both k with it, than do it...."
But I still wouldn't. That isn't thinking ahead, and how it would impact you.

[oscarlichen]

Well personally it's not really awkward or anything and we were never much friends to begin with.

[StoppingTime]

This may be true, but even when you do see each other in the future, you may find it awkward. Also, if he really does begin to question his sexuality because of it, and doesn't want to, he may blame you for "turning him gay/bi", which, though it isn't true, he would probably hold against you.

[ImCoolBeans]

Regardless if you have a good relationship or not, why potentially ruin it just so you can get off? It's really not worth it to do that with family, seeing him at family get togethers in the future (especially when you're older) will be horribly awkward. In the end of things it's your call, but I strongly urge you to just keep things friendly, not everything has to be about sex, bud.

[Evancosta]

Okay since I'm the only one that has not noticed this, I will say it. That is INCEST. It is illegal and unethical. It doesn't matter about your relationship. That's doing the nasty with your BLOOD-RELATED cousin. Catch the drift??????
P.S. Ewwww

[Mirage]

Mike is totally correct. It could ruin your relationship with your cousin. Not trying to run your life or anything, but that's just my opinion.

[oscarlichen]

Okay! Thanks guys.

[Dmtuba]

Go for it!

[twotall]

Considering it's your cousin, no you should not. He's family, they're forever. Lets say things get awkward or go bad, won't that leave a dark cloud over your relationship? You'll never be able to think about each other the same again.

coolbeans says the same thing i would say and its true all the way around.

[Eric57]

Not trying to be rude or anything, but I am kind of surprised that only 1 person has said anything about this. That IS weird. He is your cousin. Why would you cuddle with him and jerk off together? In my opinion, that is just plain weird. You should NOT try anything and you never should. I don't know, I just find it weird.

[ImCoolBeans]

Go for it!

No, do not listen to this. Do not just "go for it". Read the replies, and form an idea based on what you feel is the right thing to do, both situationally and long-term.

[KarkatLuv]

no you shouldn't, you should talk to him and say that you are ok with him being bi and all that jazz, and have a brotherly heart to heart with him, but not do anything else, cuddleing is fine but not anything further

[Joey2198]

yea it may make things weird in the future try to stop

[GabAngel06]

Considering it's your cousin, no you should not. He's family, they're forever. Lets say things get awkward or go bad, won't that leave a dark cloud over your relationship? You'll never be able to think about each other the same again.

This guy speaks for the many.

[MattiYeah]

Meh, on other threads people always say go for it.. so why is this one any different? If you don't think it will be awkward then there's no problem. Do what you think is right. And just so you know, doing stuff with your cousin isn't illegal.

[StoppingTime]

Meh, on other threads people always say go for it.. so why is this one any different? If you don't think it will be awkward then there's no problem. Do what you think is right. And just so you know, doing stuff with your cousin isn't illegal.

Does that make them right? No.

Regardless of legality, it could make for a bumpy road in the future some time, so its better to not bother with something like this.

[Atrociousness]

I really don't think it matters. If you're comfortable with it, and he is too. Go for it. If one of you guys aren't, then stop. Simple.

[coreyorama]

i lean to no side, dont do anyitnhg that will ruin your relationship... meaning, observe the scinario....and do what will guarentee no tension beetween u 2

[VirtualGuy012]

i Would probably let him know that if something goes wrong then you will probably never see each other the same way

[junkymcjunkpants]

I would i mean if wants to experiment i would go for it... I mean he is family so it is kinda weird but if you are both okay with it then go for it