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Tyryham
April 3rd, 2012, 02:53 AM
How did you feel after coming out as gay,bi, or lesbian?
I came out bi yesterday and I felt nervous to see there respone when I told them and I felt good finally tellng someone
CrossingtheCourtyard
April 3rd, 2012, 04:56 AM
Excited, nervous, upset and then sick.
My emotional troubles tend to translate into physical sickness, so I was out of commission the day after I came out.
Tyryham
April 3rd, 2012, 05:01 AM
That don't sound to fun man
Tyryham
April 3rd, 2012, 05:03 AM
not at all
Tyryham
April 3rd, 2012, 05:10 AM
So happy that I told someone
KarkatLuv
April 3rd, 2012, 05:19 AM
Completly Pissed because the person told everyone and the guy i liked started to avoid me
Tyryham
April 3rd, 2012, 05:22 AM
I would be to if someone told the guy I liked
Abyssal Echo
April 6th, 2012, 01:56 AM
I first came out to my cousin(female) I was scared, nervious, just felt sick but she took it real good. she never told anyone. now its kinda kool when she comes over with a teen magazine because we end up drooling over the same guys most of the time :) alot of my friends already knew from experimenting with me so it wasn't to big of a deal when I came out to them. now I am out to everyone and I feel alot better about myself
because now I can be me and not worry about being found out.
Joe96
April 7th, 2012, 03:55 PM
I first had 'urges' to tell my mum about me being gay.
When I sat down with her, I felt sick and really nervous. It took me about 10 minutes before I could tell her.
For about 2 days after that I just felt sort of sick that I'd told her.
I'm proud of being gay and she didn't react badly, so there was no real reason for me to feel that way
Krazymitch
April 11th, 2012, 04:58 AM
when i came out, Bebo was all the rage. so i just put it on there, waited for word to spread, and in my school, it didnt take long.. when people asked me, i would say yes..i already had alot of friends, so i didnt get any trouble.. coming out felt amazing, its like a physical weight has been lifted off you, literally..and i am pretty lucky, my parents dont care, noone in my family cares. there was only three people at school who gave me hell for it, and it wasnt long before they had no friends left and were forced to leave my school, so all is good. :)
Sonic Boom
April 11th, 2012, 05:27 AM
Its like having your braces removed. A little painful and it feels weird at first, but such a relief!
SamB
April 11th, 2012, 01:49 PM
I was so nervous when I came out to my Parents I couldn't sleep that night I cannot bare to think what it will be like when i come out at school and church
spfreak
April 11th, 2012, 07:10 PM
Coming out to friends was okay. They all accepted me and love me, like 2 people didn't and I just stopped talking to them. Family is okay, some are supportive, others ignore it, and others make fun of me a bit. Coming out is stupid, but I'm glad I am pretty much done. There is like 2 people in my family I need to tell.
Mirage
April 11th, 2012, 07:12 PM
I actually think I took it really well. I first came out to my cousin, who had Bi friends so he was cool with it. The next person I told is...well...mentally unstable, but he also took it well. The third person I told was gay so honestly it didn't affect either of us.
(I didn't mention this anywhere, but I'm Bi)
thomfoun
April 18th, 2012, 02:17 PM
I would like to but it is illegal in my country
OregonStateDude
April 18th, 2012, 10:31 PM
I've only told one person (best friend), but yeah, it made me feel a whole lot better about myself. And it has brought us closer together (not in that way, let's keep this G-rated).
Dimitri
April 18th, 2012, 10:47 PM
I was scared and shaking, i felt like I was going to puke all over myself but I ripped the bandage off and went for it, I just recently come out to my family a few months ago about me and my boyfriend. Then on Monday I came out on Facebook, all in all it is a liberating experience and I loved it once I was done.
kenoloor
April 18th, 2012, 10:50 PM
I've come out four times to my mother. None of which I was nervouse for; my mother is super chill when it comes to people in the GSM community, so I knew I had nothing to worry about. However, after coming out, it definitely felt like a weight were lifted from my shoulders. Even though I knew it wouldn't present a problem, it still felt good to tell her.
PerpetualMotionSquad
April 19th, 2012, 02:21 PM
Wow! Everyone here is braver than me :O, I only told one person :L
Smeagol
April 19th, 2012, 03:52 PM
I was happy that people knew at first but then my day spiralled downhill when I was overheard.
VictoriaGotaSecret
April 21st, 2012, 11:22 AM
when i came out I felt like shit before it was even over
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