Ignored.

[Princess Ariel]

I recently told my friend that I was pansexual, and she's been ignoring me to the best of her ability for the past week or so. It was almost as if she thought I was into her.. She thought that because I opened up to her it meant I liked her.. I don't honestly, I don't find her attractive at all.. In french today, instead of sitting next to me like she normally does, she sat on the other end of the room, I tried talking to her before I left the class, but she left long before me. She wasn't in science today so I couldn't talk to her.. I see her everyday 1st and last, but if she ignores me, I don't know what I'll do.. I have trust issues, and I told her about my depression, and she started to cry... I mean i've known the chick since grade 6, but I never told her until late December of last year. I felt that she truly cared for me.. last month, I wasn't talking with anyone, and she told our friend Fi that she was upset that I wasn't talking to her. But now that she's doing this, I don't know what i'm going to do. I love her, but she's not accepting me for who I am... What should I do? Let her slip through my fingers? Or what?

[UnknownBoi98]

Question ; What's Pansexual?

[JJSSHH]

Question ; What's Pansexual?

Pansexual is when you are attracted sexually to people, regardless of their gender. I think you should give her sometime to figure everything out. Give it a couple more days, and then try talking to her.

[djcard]

I think you shouldn't let her go through your fingers a friend is a friend, and she seems to really care about you.

The person I came out to WAS the girl I liked and for the most part shes always stood by me. She hasn't been answering my texts lately, but I would never even consider letting her slip through my fingers, its my worst fear.

You gotta really ask yourself if the person is worth it. You gotta think about the good and the bad you two have been through and if you think she's a good friend whos worth it, keep trying to talk to her.

[Mirage]

Honestly, she is NOT a friend if she judges you based on sexual orientation. I think it is sick and disgusting for someone to be discriminated like that. It is the EXACT same thing as having an employer fire you for being a certain nationality. It is just plain wrong.

[DejaVu]

Maybe outright say that you're not into her?

[Erasmus]

Maybe outright say that you're not into her?

Yeah, I think that's a good idea. Maybe once she finds out that you're not attracted to her, she'll stop ignoring you.