Bullies get high

[Fractured Silhouette]

Bullies get high off the painful memories. I'm freaking positive. There like parasites that even when they're sucking and they get off they constantly remind you of the time they made you look like an idiot.

They smile as they watch you squirm at the memories you just want to forget.

"Hey remember that time I insulted you, beat he crap out of you and then alienated you from everyone else? You cried like a bitch!"

Yes, of course I do, I didn't fucking forget. You try to show no reaction, give them no pleasure. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide just to make them feel like shit. Ha!! Lets see them get high off that. I'd love to watch as the guilt ate at them.

Then again you have to wonder if they feel any guilt at all...

[Carlyle]

The thing is, bullies usually do what they do because of there own problems. What you said is true, they do it because they like watching you in pain, but they can have problems at home too that people just don't know about. There's always the option to talk to them, but the chances of them listening is so slim that its just not worth it. Don't commit suicide, you would harm a lot of people, whether you know it or not. Talk to someone if you're being bullied, I'm sure you have family/friends or even a councilor at school to talk to if you are having issues. Best of luck, hope things can get better for you soon.

[Fractured Silhouette]

Yea, this was just me letting off a load of steam. It's OK now I don't get bullied as badly anymore. I just got pissed off because a load of idiots were reminding me of some of the stupid things. But thanks anyway.

[Carlyle]

No need to thank, its what we're here for :P Glad to hear you're not bullied as much. Its alright to get mad, venting always helps.

[deadpie]

Bullies get high off the painful memories. I'm freaking positive.

It's true for some and not true for others. I was pretty big fucking bully and somewhat still am to people. In fact, I'm very sadistic and get off to hurting people. Some people are sadistic in that way because they want to feel stronger and feel better, but the first punch towards them and they are fucking down weaker than ever. Then there's the type like me who are like that because they literally just hate everything they see.

The behavior they use isn't right though. It's in fact, humanly illogical and plain stupid. They should be given help to direct their anger in safe ways. Anger isn't a bad emotion; there's no bad emotions - it's just how you take care of it/use it.

How do you escape a bully? I'd talk to a councilor and consult them. Police and principals are nice, but they're not going to take care of it in the best way possible. They're going to make sure the bully is in trouble while at the same time not giving a shit about you. Telling the councilor might I'm guessing get him in trouble, but the councilor is more understanding and might talk to him too.

Direct anger and depression towards hobbies. Express it through that. Never blame yourself or hurt yourself. I'm not saying you're a bad person if you do that, because it's completely understandable and natural, but there's safer ways to be cope. Painting, drawing, reading, writing, building things, you name it.

[Fractured Silhouette]

It's true for some and not true for others. I was pretty big fucking bully and somewhat still am to people. In fact, I'm very sadistic and get off to hurting people. Some people are sadistic in that way because they want to feel stronger and feel better, but the first punch towards them and they are fucking down weaker than ever. Then there's the type like me who are like that because they literally just hate everything they see.

The behavior they use isn't right though. It's in fact, humanly illogical and plain stupid. They should be given help to direct their anger in safe ways. Anger isn't a bad emotion; there's no bad emotions - it's just how you take care of it/use it.

How do you escape a bully? I'd talk to a councilor and consult them. Police and principals are nice, but they're not going to take care of it in the best way possible. They're going to make sure the bully is in trouble while at the same time not giving a shit about you. Telling the councilor might I'm guessing get him in trouble, but the councilor is more understanding and might talk to him too.

Direct anger and depression towards hobbies. Express it through that. Never blame yourself or hurt yourself. I'm not saying you're a bad person if you do that, because it's completely understandable and natural, but there's safer ways to be cope. Painting, drawing, reading, writing, building things, you name it.

Look, i'd rather not dredge up old memories. So suffice to say that all the while I was being bullied I never gave up. I came out the other side of it a scarred but better person. I would go into more detail, but I don't want to delve into the past. Suffice it to say, that I talked to a councilor a number of times during, and it didn't help me in the slightest. I fixed the problem myself.

[Gothicdeer]

A guy beat the crap out of me one time...I found the strength to laugh...he hasn't bothered me since...a quite strange experience

[Destructive Impulse]

I think they just get high in general. Fucking crackheads you know.

[Carly011]

I hate bullies >:(

[XxAssasiNxX]

Was builed from prep till year6..badly.And srill a bit now but he knows not to mess with me... my bully didint seem to have personal issues his mum and my mum were good freinds until the bullying and they 2 familes started hating eachother. i... still hate him. if i have a chance hed be in hospital possibly dead... hes a crackhead though. hangs around the crackhead audience. im sure he had promblems. now i haveproblems and i am depressed now. i expresed my anger at him once and nearly ripped his head off.. he realised what damage had been done to me over the years...just show them ur anger and make them feel like shit. thats what happend to me Worked

[Truth]

Am I the only person here who's knocked his bully out of his desk, thrown boiling hot coffee on his lap, punched him, and told him to get out of the classroom?

Haha, if you don't stand up for yourself... NO ONE will.

[Gothicdeer]

Violence is not the way...my bully quite bothering me and all I did was laugh

[Truth]

Violence is not the way...my bully quite bothering me and all I did was laugh If you've got people physically bullying you, it's much different than that silly comment about how you look.

I was pushed off a swing, my back will never be the same. I think what I did to that kid was very forgiving, he's lucky I didn't hit him with the chair too. :yes: