Asking a girl out

[Drag0nite]

There is a girl I like and I'm not sure if she has a boyfreind and was wondering how I could find out incospiculay and if she doesn't how could I ask her out? I'm 13 by the way.

[Desuetude]

Just ask around, look on facebook if she has it because usually there are some indicators on there. Asking her out just ask her "would you go out with me?" Simple with nothing to get confused over.

[obsessivedisorder]

For me, I would like it if a guy would spend time getting to know me, if he already hasn't/is already a friend of mine. If she is a friend, just tell her "I kind of like you/have feelings for you and it would be awesome if we could go out on a date one time. If that doesn't spark anything, at least we tried and we can stay friends." Something like that. I would like that. But if it's a girl you don't know too well, but still like her from afar, get to know her first. I hope this helps.

[hpq666]

Just ask her out anyway, if she has a boyfriend she will just tell you and then you go about your day.

[Louise]

Ask her out, remember she could be shy as well so u have to make the first move. Just do it.

Lou

[Drag0nite]

Well at lunch today I was going to ask her but then my friends where being strange and saying things like wanting to do sexual stuff with her should I still ask her if my friends are wanting to @[email protected]&@ her?

[Louise]

Oh god, yes go and ask her out, your friends are full of bravardo and hot air. Ignore them and make them gel when she says yes :yes:

Louise

[Toto]

If you`re scared to ask her out or anything, just get one of your friends to ask for you. It sounds kinda wimpy, but if you feel uncomfortable with the whole asking out thing, this is one alternative. Everyone at my school does it because they`re too scared:P

[Burn007]

bring up some funny conversation,make jokes on yourself till you relax and then simply ask her to go somwhere with u

[Destructive Impulse]

If you ask her out you'll find out if he's already taken or not. I asked this girl out after a week or two of hesitation and guess what she said "um I have a boyfriend." the worst that can happen is she says no. Just gotta have some confidence.

Also with the girl I asked we both kinda act like that never happened so nothing changed between us.

[RCT109]

Im going through the same thing right now with this one girl

Ive been wanting to ask her for the last few weeks and Im trying to find the right time,

What you should do is just go for it and ask her
as everyone else has said the worst the can happen is that she says NO. also, when you talk to her bring up the topic of her being with someone and see where that goes. an other thing tell your friends to fuck off if they aren't going to support you

[ashdyn]

Ask her friends if she's seeing anyone. If she's not then go talk to her lol I'm not a fan of asking a girl out just out of the blue so if you're not already friends ask her to hang out and make plans or something. If you like her a lot after spending some time with her then go for it and ask her if she wants to be your girlfriend :)

[TheAlchemistAngel]

Be a ninja! Follow her around and check the boys she hangs out with... You wont have trouble talking to the boys...