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Dark Sparrow
April 1st, 2012, 05:41 PM
allowed to be Bi???

I ask this because when someone else at one point said they were bi straight people called them greedy, and gays said they were gay but still in denial, they did come out out later but still.


Is bi allowed??

Desuetude
April 1st, 2012, 05:48 PM
Of course Bi is allowed. There is absolutely nothing wrong with it. You can't help who you like so don't feel bad about it, whoever said that is pretty stupid to be honest.

Coolboi
April 1st, 2012, 05:50 PM
be bi and be happy !

Dimitri
April 1st, 2012, 07:00 PM
allowed to be Bi???

I ask this because when someone else at one point said they were bi straight people called them greedy, and gays said they were gay but still in denial, they did come out out later but still.


Is bi allowed??

I know exactly what you are talking about hun, I am Bisexual myself but what they might mean as being "greedy" is because you like both boys and girls.

My boyfriends grandmother doesn't like me because I am bi and like both genders and my boyfriend is gay so yada yada yada...

The reasons some gays say it is because that is how they were, they are basing it upon their own, biased beliefs...but it is not uncommon for some bisexual people to later come out as being gay.

Being bisexual is completely allowed, just like it is allowed to be curious, straight, gay and so forth.

colz
April 1st, 2012, 08:06 PM
I really don't get why this is such a big problem... most gays at my school can't stand bi guys (not so much the girls). I don't see the big deal with being bi I mean all it is, is a label saying that you don't care about the gender, just who the person is (regardless of gender) and what they stand for!
I'm bi (mostly in the 'closet') but yeah this is my take on the issue over bisexuality...

ImCoolBeans
April 1st, 2012, 10:24 PM
You're allowed to be whatever and whoever you wish to be.

KarkatLuv
April 2nd, 2012, 12:07 AM
no one but you has the right to tell you what you are and if it is allowed, but yes it is allowed

Stronger
April 2nd, 2012, 10:23 AM
You are allowed to be whatever, gay/straight/bi, no one can tell you other wise, or stop you from being something that you truely are.

Mortal Coil
April 2nd, 2012, 11:11 AM
Just like everyone else said, you are allowed to be any sexuality you want. Fuck the haters.

Sonic Boom
April 2nd, 2012, 11:49 AM
True bisexuality is rare. But yes, it is ok and in fact be very proud of it. End of story.

sage of craze
April 2nd, 2012, 11:56 AM
I'm bisexual. The people who say that are just ignorant. Just ignore them and identify yourself as whatever makes you the most comfortable.

Short Circuit
April 2nd, 2012, 12:31 PM
You are what you are, nothing more, nothing less. As long as your happy with your sexuality, no one can tell you what to be.

plebble
April 2nd, 2012, 01:52 PM
If you wanna be bi, be bi

SamB
April 2nd, 2012, 02:05 PM
Of course bi is allowed you cannot help who you are attracted too

scottnesss
April 2nd, 2012, 03:41 PM
that is like asking is being human allowed. it is who you are, and for that it is completely allowed.

Jdawg91
April 2nd, 2012, 09:40 PM
OP you should realize that you can be what ever you want there isn't any "allowed" stature in relation to sexuality. Be yourself because keeping your true identity locked away can cause problems.

Biscuithead13
April 2nd, 2012, 09:59 PM
It is totally allowed and ok. I'm bi and often times (and right this second) have problems putting up with the fact that I am because its so hard to me when you like a guy and just wonder about them aimlessly but anyway I'm just venting :/ But yes! Being bi is ok ad to be honest its awesome :)

Carlyle
April 2nd, 2012, 11:33 PM
Why wouldn't it be allowed? If you're bi, you're bi. Its not wrong or greedy, people just have a hard time accepting people that are different. Ignore what they say and be yourself.

Tyryham
April 3rd, 2012, 04:11 AM
Bi is who you are which is perfect in ur own way.. and if they can't handle it then f#*k them

Lights
April 3rd, 2012, 09:35 AM
How horribly ignorant to say being bisexual is greedy. Anyone who says that has no clue. They think they understand sexuality, but they don't. They have no idea.

You are what you are, nothing more, nothing less. As long as your happy with your sexuality, no one can tell you what to be.

This post sums up my thoughts. Listen to it, Patrick, because it is 100% true.

Gandalf
April 3rd, 2012, 03:28 PM
This is something I pondered about myself.

I can only suppose it's like choosing between a green or a red "m&m" and then choosing both. (A third but completely acceptable outcome).



and my boyfriend is gay so yada yada yada

This made me chuckle. :P

Sorry for going off topic.

djcard
April 3rd, 2012, 08:41 PM
allowed to be Bi???

I ask this because when someone else at one point said they were bi straight people called them greedy, and gays said they were gay but still in denial, they did come out out later but still.


Is bi allowed??

Greedy? for what? trying to be happy? I myself am bisexual and proud. Nothing greedy about wanting both, you get the best of both worlds :yes:

Dmtuba
April 3rd, 2012, 10:41 PM
It allowed, and more common than you think. The Indians worshiped the gays and bs

Losing Sanity79
July 20th, 2012, 08:12 PM
I for one, obviously, say that it is allowed. We are not greedy.