Immaturity!!

[DarkHorses]

So I have this friend who I sometimes consider to be my best friend, but lately she's just been getting on my nerves. She's seventeen and she has a three month old baby. She's liked this one guy for awhile and has made it no secret. A few days ago they were fighting to the point where he called her son a bastard and a bunch of mean names, and threatened to call CPS when she's done absolutely nothing wrong to her baby, and is definitely a great mom. So as far as I know she hates his guts.

Well then I get on facebook this morning and see that they are in a relationship. SERIOUSLY? It shouldn't bother me so much, but the thing is that she got me so involved in this stupid fight they were having that he doesn't want to be friends with me anymore. She badmouthed him like crazy, and now she's dating him. Honestly? It pisses me off.

I just want to tell her; you have a baby, you're seventeen years old, so grow the fuck up. But obviously I can't do that without losing her as a friend, and she is a good friend when she wants to be. But I am so annoyed with this! It's really stupid. And now she'll be spending more time with him than anyone else, which happened already before. Bringing him around her baby after he called him a bastard and a troll. I mean, what the hell? Is she really that immature and thoughtless?

It just makes me REALLY mad. Ugh ugh ugh ugh.

[Desuetude]

I'm sorry you have to go through that with her. It's annoying when people change their minds for no apparent reason about something they feel so strongly about.
You just have to let her be though, you can't change her but you could try talking to her about how she's acting and what you think about her "new man", you don't need to be harsh about it, just remind her what he was like before.
The best thing to do though would be to ignore it because although you might think one thing obviously she thinks differently and I guess you have to respect that?