Girls only help

[Jacob13]

Ok, for starters im a freshmen in highschool, i was in a car wreck and was paralyzed when i was five. not too long ago i had a girl turn me down on a date because im in a wheelchair. Now ive known this girl for a long time and shes not a shallow person. Is being in a wheelchair that much of a turn off or do u think its one of theose things where she thinks could we ever have a normal relationship, Im fully capable of having sex, my legs just dont work. and its not like im a shivled up cripple. im 5ft 9in and weight 160 lbs. im a bodybuilder so im musclular, im not unatractive, so ive been told. Plz help girls.

[Sapphire]

Its a difficult one. She may just feel as if too much could be expected of her. Or it may just be a bit too much "reality" for her. I really don't know. Maybe talk with her and try to find out why she turned you down.
Not all girls are like that so try not to worry too much.

[Maverick]

Girls Puberty :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[Lifesreject]

Yer thats a hard one 2 answer. Mabe u should talk to her and find out why she dosent want to date u. people are to prejudice sometimes mabe she just need time to think about it. If you say you are good looking i wouldnt worry about it as long as you have got a good personality to match. One day someone special will come along and that person wont care that your in a weelchair because if its the right person it wont matter. i hope that makes sense sorri if i dont!!