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muddygrand
April 1st, 2012, 05:21 AM
So for a few days now, I will jerk off but I can not reach any kind of orgasm, or get close to any kind of orgasm. Its really annoying and I have no idea what is going on. Anyone experience this or know if it is only temporary?

Cicero
April 1st, 2012, 05:52 AM
You should see a doctor. Your to young to not reach orgasm when doing the right things. Try lube if you don't use it.

Drag0nite
April 1st, 2012, 11:47 AM
I'm 13 not 17 but I can't either and I know that it just happens in different times of your life through teens and early 20s

StoppingTime
April 1st, 2012, 12:45 PM
You can reach orgasm, really, at any time in your life, assuming there is no medical problem. However, you cannot ejaculate until you've hit a certain stage of puberty.

So either A, try something new :P, or see a doctor if you're truly concerned, but I don't think there is anything serious going on here.

senior.2013
April 1st, 2012, 02:46 PM
As said, see a doctor before it gets too big or just try something different.

muddygrand
April 1st, 2012, 09:18 PM
I think I am gonna try not jerking for a few days and then just see if I can have an orgasm after taking a break

Enormous
April 2nd, 2012, 12:23 AM
How long does it normally take you to reach an orgasm?

Lego
April 2nd, 2012, 12:25 AM
Muddygrand good choice its prob just that you need a break

ashdyn
April 2nd, 2012, 12:51 AM
It could be a few different things. If you've been able to orgasm before then I think there might be other factors at play other than just pure physical.

First off...you could be over worked. Hold off for a few days. Sometimes if I try to jack off when I'm not horny it takes FOREVER for me to cum.
If you're more stressed out now for whatever reason it could be preventing you from having an orgasm.
Also you could be thinking too hard about it. Just watch some porn...let your hard on come naturally and just relax an jack off. Make sure you do it when you know you have time and privacy so you're not rushed an can just focus on the sensations and pleasure.

If all else fails see a doctor, you might have some peripheral sensory problems or nerve damage. I wouldn't run in like it's an emergency...after all i don't think anyone's ever died from not being able to orgasm. Plenty of women don't lol

Dark Sparrow
April 2nd, 2012, 04:07 AM
seriously don't worry about doctors and stuff

this happened to me at your age, it was a combination of stress and busy times, and the fact i had been wanking for a long time body was bored


seriously dont wank for a bit, watch some videos and dont wank though leave it a good week or two, this may not be possible but a restart for me was getting someone else involved.

but dont wank, and try new things it passes and returns but this is the joys of being older

muddygrand
April 3rd, 2012, 05:46 PM
so i took a break for a day, and just watched some porn, let myself get a natural boner, and I was able to have an orgasm. Thanks for the advice everyone!