He was abusive but i didn't even realize it......

[Wintergirl_80.0]

so i met him and it was love at first sight. HE ABUSED ME IN EVERY WAY EXCEPT PHYSICAL AND ISOLATION!!! He pressured me into sending him pictures and he freaked out on me if i said something about another guy being even slightly attractive. (i wasnt even talking to him about it i was talking to my sister saying there were triplets at school who were kinda cute). He pulled guilt trips and when i confronted him about them he used a guilt trip to keep me from getting mad. every time we fought he threatened suicide. he lied about everything. i was too in love with him to realize any of it...... now its months later and i realize im still not over him..... :cry:

[Mirage]

I'm sorry this had to happen to you, but in all honesty this happens to everyone at one time or another. The only way to truly get over him is to talk with a professional.

Good luck, and once again, I'm sorry this had to happen to you.

[Wintergirl_80.0]

i guess i mean like ive been abused so much by diff. people im scared to trust the only two people i do trust

[JJSSHH]

i had a friend in a similar situation. I know how its feel. It gets better though. Every time you miss him, think of the shit he put you through. Think of the abuse, the guilt trips, and everything else. Sorry you had to go through this, best of luck :)

[Wintergirl_80.0]

thanks so much ...