Mom acting out

[Redrocket]

Good grife it's been while since I been on here! Well my Mom has been acting up lately! She gets mad at me because I forget to call her and she is making me feeling guilty about growing up! She hangs up on me if something doesn't go her way or if I Don't call her right away when I get up or home from school!

She also said "I think I will get drunk because you dont feel like coming out!

she also said "Your growing up and becoming a man I better stop begging you to come to my house every weekend!" It's not my fault I am busy all the time I have friends.School,clubs and maybe a job this summer!

She also hates the fact that I am a teen and doing
stuff for my self and the whorse part I hate is when she says I don't need her anymore! Thats not true I need my mom for the rest of my life and I love her lots! But I have other stuff in my life!

:(

[Wonton]

Just say exactly what you said on the forums, and you should be fine. I think she'll see some sense.....

[Mortal Coil]

A lot of mothers are like that. Believe it or not, tjere osn't exactly a manual on how to let your kid grow up when they're a teenager.
She's caught between needimg yu and knowing she has to let go.
I really don't know why this is in the chat forum though...

[Kaius]

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[Stronger]

Good grife it's been while since I been on here! Well my Mom has been acting up lately! She gets mad at me because I forget to call her and she is making me feeling guilty about growing up! She hangs up on me if something doesn't go her way or if I Don't call her right away when I get up or home from school!

She also said "I think I will get drunk because you dont feel like coming out!

she also said "Your growing up and becoming a man I better stop begging you to come to my house every weekend!" It's not my fault I am busy all the time I have friends.School,clubs and maybe a job this summer!

She also hates the fact that I am a teen and doing
stuff for my self and the whorse part I hate is when she says I don't need her anymore! Thats not true I need my mom for the rest of my life and I love her lots! But I have other stuff in my life!

:(

Well a simple phone car can't be that hard, she just wants to make sure no one took you, but as for the rest you just need to tell her your growing up, like Alex said shes a bit confused, but just tell her no matter what "I'm still your little boy", etc.

[Ben4ever]

I hope things get better for you. I had similar problems. I hate to say it but it's just how some people deal with their children growing up!

[Desuetude]

I understand about the phone calls, my mum likes me to text her 24/7 knowing if im back or if im okay. Unfortunatly I think it's how a lot of parents are. She probably still thinks of you as her little baby, not old enough to do things for yourself, maybe try to humour her a little lol.
There isn't really much you can do about it. Show her that you need her and love her is all I can say. Tell her you still need her even if you are becoming independant. She shouldn't expect you to stay vulnerable and unknowing for the rest of your life, she needs to learn that you are growing up and will be doing your own thing but that doesn't mean you have to lose touch with her. You will always be her son.

[EstrusWanton]

Menopause? XD that's what my friends mom acts like...

[botwa]

tell her that! tell her that you love her, maybe make a little surprise like buy her flowers or something. so she knows that you're still her son but you're growing up and you have you interests.