What do you guys think?

[Extreme586]

Let me tell you a little about myself, I'm a very quiet person who is layed back and for the most part keeps to myself until you get to know me. I smile and laugh a lot around people I know well and just like to have a good time. Basically I'm really shy until you get to know me and then I have a very funny and easy going peronsality, as I said I like to smile :) .

Recently I have noticed a straight guy who I have had a crush on since I met him in middle school (i'm in the 10th grade) might be interested in me. He is very discrete when he does the things I notice and doesn't do them often for example, one day he had just finished schoolwork in our class together. He was laying his head down as he usually does because he seems really tired most of the time in class. I was looking at him (i have a seat in the very back) and for some reason he lifted his head and turned to look directly at me before turning his head away.

And like today for example, we were in health playing a game and as I was running by him he threw the ball at me (right next to me) but instead of hitting me it barely missed me and went behind me. I didn't think he did it on purpose and I was as shocked as everyone else because he is really athletic and I was two feet away from him...

I didn't think he might have done it on purpose until just now really and I was wondering what you guys think on the subject. I mean I'm talking about a straight popular athletic guy who is very out going and has had girlfriends in the past, and I notice little things like this every now and again. It just seems impossible that someone you like just so happens to secretly like you back and I was wondering if there is anything I should do short of asking him? I really want to know if these are just coincidences or if he likes me, any way of telling or testing to see if he in interested in me? Any comments/advice appreciated!

[JJSSHH]

I wouldnt ask him anything as of now. By what you said, he sounds like a very influential figure in your school, and you wouldnt want to get hurt. I would let him make the first move. Best of luck!

[Sudds3]

Dont ask him yet, just keep an eye on him for a little while to get more evidence! The more evidence you have, then better assumption you can make and that will make all the differenc! So lay back a little and just keep your cool, if these things start getting more serious and more frequent then he may want to become friends with you or more....maybe

[Loverocksyah]

i say keep cool and try to get closer to him...im under goingnthe exact situation but its 10 times harder for me becuz i dont go to the same school as my crush but hes.....epic :wub:

[Extreme586]

Thanks for the replies, and yes he is a very influental person. He is very out going in the sense of making people laugh in our class and is very funny. Also something I didn't mention was he liked to shower as close to me as possible which I actually tested a couple of times and it came back pretty clear! Imagine how nerve wracking that is though, the one class I got him in and it had to be gym lol. The nice thing too is I honestly believe he is a sweet enough person to not tell anyone if it didn't turn out the way I planned if I asked him not too. Maybe I just need to give him more signals to get more out of him? I was always afraid of creeping him out but hey maybe its worth letting him know I'm interested?