Help Me Please

[itunes89]

Okay I am home schooled. I don't get out much. I live in a neighborhood, with a few girls, they are not very nice(Attitude not looks. They look pretty good). I am not allowed to have a girl friend. Should I try to have a secret relationship with one of the girls, or should I submit to my mothers wishes? :what:

[JasonFlagmaster]

Having a secret relationship, especially if you don't get out much, will be a BIG pain.
For one, when you want to go out with the girl, your mom will probably ask, "where you going? Who you going with? I'd like to meet them."
I'm 17 and my mom still likes meeting people that I be-friend.
You could talk to your mother (I'm sure you already have though) about dating someone.
Also, how old are you?

[itunes89]

I am 14 years of age.

[JasonFlagmaster]

Hm, have you talked to your mom about why you cant date girls yet?

[itunes89]

Well, it is our religion.. I think, as long as we are not going having "sex" then why not. She will not change her mind though..

[JasonFlagmaster]

What religion is this?
Also, yes, until you're 18 and legally able to decide for yourself, your mom can tell you if you can or cannot date.
Maybe, as you get older, she'll get a little more lenient and allow you to start dating?

[itunes89]

Just Christian

[JasonFlagmaster]

It's not against your religion to date, it's against your religion to have sex before marriage.
It's against your mothers rules though, to date.
So all you really can do, is talk to her, and wait.

[itunes89]

Well thanks..

[plebble]

If they aren't very nice girls anyway (attitude-wise), then why do you want to date them? You should be careful with girls like that, they could hurt your feelings (which i know about :()

[Desuetude]

Don't go out with someone just because, well... I wouldn't even know why you are wanting to? Because it's the norm or that you're bored? You didn't exactly make that clear.
I don't think you should, not because of your mums beliefs but because you just don't like them. I see no point in going out with someone because they look okay but their personality is horrible. Wait until you find someone you really like then think about it. Like the user above said, they could potentially hurt you even more, usually they are bad news and if you don't even like them and you're just going out with someone for the sake of it I really don't see any point in putting yourself thought that.

[itunes89]

Thanks everyone! :)