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princesssreni
June 23rd, 2007, 12:33 PM
My friend and I went to the same swim club and one time while we were in the showers she came into my stall and we both showered togehter (no touching) and like for a few weeks later we started getting naked with each other and like touching each other and one time she stroked my butt and grasped my vagina and kissed my boob. Then i kind of got horny but i know that i do not like her more then a friend and after we "experimented" she keeps on grabbing my boob andd i dont tell her to stop does that make me gay?
question101
June 23rd, 2007, 01:37 PM
i do that to your fine
Enkoi
June 23rd, 2007, 09:30 PM
heh, i dont honestly know, only you would. But it is in fact normal for teenagers to be curious and experimental. As long as things aren't really getting heavy, I think you're fine.
You may just really like the physical part of this because maybe you are both girls and feel comfortable because your bodies are similar. But if you know for a fact you dont like her more than a friend, than you probably don't have to worry about being gay. This may develop, I don't know? But don't keep thinking about it when it's not happening.
I don't know what to add, I guess I need other outside opinions. =)
thevalleychick
June 23rd, 2007, 10:22 PM
It's totally cool. Me and my friends at school are totally like that but some are guys we do it as a joke.
BikiniGal
June 23rd, 2007, 10:36 PM
as long as you know you like her as just a friend then your fine quite many people do this including me
MoveAlong
June 23rd, 2007, 11:35 PM
No, it's all cool. Some guys masturbate together just for the fun of it, and women do the same thing, whether they're gay, straight, or bi :D
ThatCanadianGuy
June 23rd, 2007, 11:37 PM
Well the true definition of being gay is wanting someone of the same sex ROMANTICALLY (like dating and getting married, not just getting in it for sexual experimentation). So basically, you could be aroused by all this, but have "crushes" and EMOTIONAL attachment to boys instead of girls; which would make you straight. Anyway, don't worry; even straight guys get turned on by other guys at times; I mean, show us something sexually arousing OF ANY KIND and us horn-dogs are bound to react eventually! :D
Glasgow
June 24th, 2007, 12:06 AM
No, that makes her gay (Or BI!)
You were just caught in the middle and didn't know what to do. If you know your not turned on by it and you like guys then theres your answer right there.
Pioneer92
June 24th, 2007, 12:17 AM
No, that makes her gay (Or BI!)
You were just caught in the middle and didn't know what to do. If you know your not turned on by it and you like guys then theres your answer right there.
she said she doesnt like her more than a friend so going from just what she said alone shes just experimenting. i dont think shes bi or gay unless she says that she likes her friend more than just a friend
MoveAlong
June 24th, 2007, 12:20 AM
No, that makes her gay (Or BI!)
Was that sarcasm? If it is, you should make it more clear with a smiley! :P
Sapphire
June 24th, 2007, 06:57 AM
At this stage you just seem to be bi-curious. A little experimentation is perfectly normal and does not make you a lesbian. Being straight/bi/gay is about attraction to and desire to build romantic relationships with people of the opposite/same sex as you. Only time will tell whether your experimentation is part of a different sexual orientation or not.
Enkoi
June 24th, 2007, 08:32 AM
Yeah the romantic part was what I was missing, I very much agree with everyone here :)
hoglet
December 31st, 2009, 11:31 AM
Well the true definition of being gay is wanting someone of the same sex ROMANTICALLY (like dating and getting married, not just getting in it for sexual experimentation). So basically, you could be aroused by all this, but have "crushes" and EMOTIONAL attachment to boys instead of girls; which would make you straight. Anyway, don't worry; even straight guys get turned on by other guys at times; I mean, show us something sexually arousing OF ANY KIND and us horn-dogs are bound to react eventually!
vic203140
January 1st, 2010, 05:20 AM
Half ya luck hun go 4 it and no it doent
Alx123
February 27th, 2010, 11:13 AM
most experiment at your age(both sexs) so its normal
Antares
February 27th, 2010, 01:47 PM
Please don't post in old threads.
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