i honestly think i figured out my sexuality.

[Jupiter]

but bare with me, because it is bound to change :3

So, I believe I am biromantic, heterosexual. If that makes sense? Does it? Because I can have feelings for guys, but I don't see myself getting intimate with them. Now, I can see myself marrying a woman, and honestly, I can see myself, and I believe I would have sex with a woman. I know I'm being a bit blunt here, but I need your help. I honestly don't know if biromantic heterosexual is what you call it. What do you think?

[Electra Heart]

And whom placed that term into your brain? ;) Congrats on finding out who you are, Eric.

[Jupiter]

thanks tim. for a lot :P

[sage of craze]

What kind of feelings do you have? They could just be strong friendship feelings, in which case there's no need to add 'biromantic' as a label. Sounds pretty straight to me. /nod

[Jupiter]

it's to the point where i believe i was in love with my friend nate and sarah (who were dating) at the same time.

[sage of craze]

Hmm, well the term is new to me, but it sounds dandy. You're only 14, though, so don't be surprised if later down the road the more physical aspects of bisexuality start appealing to you. You're still developing and all that. Grats on learning more about yourself.

[Jupiter]

thanks man.

[sage of craze]

No problem. Feel free to talk to me if you have any issues are anything. Always open to help someone out. 18 year old bisexual. :D

[Green Arrow]

This is going to sound harsh but true. Only you can decide what you are, when you know what you are you will know 100%. What we say is only our opinion of what you tell us and we can only go on things that you tell us. We don't know you the only person who knows you the best is yourself. For all we know you could not have told us something, maybe something that you don't think is important but is. You've just got to keep cool for a little bit and see how everything works out. Like Danny said above your bisexuality could appear later on so I wouldn't jump to conclusions just yet. Sexuality sometimes isn’t a straight road (no pun intended) so you are going to have to take it slowly until you do something that you are not 100% sure about.

But congrats on finding out, it does take a lot of guts to admit something that isn’t in the “norm” I know from personal experiences and still having them. If you want a chat just send me a PM or VM and I’ll happily help you if I can. :)

[Stronger]

No idea what that "term" means but congrats on finding out who you are, cheers. :)

[CrossingtheCourtyard]

Biromantic heterosexual means that you can have full emotional and romantic relationship with a guy or girl but only have sexual/physical attractions to women.

So do you think you could fall in love with another guy? Have a serious emotional bond, just without wanting to have sex with him? What you're saying does point towards biromantic heterosexuality.

[Biscuithead13]

First of all congrats! :) I happen to bi-romantic bisexual....I've had countless people try and tell me I'm gay when I know I'm not. Yes, I like guys more, especially physically than I do girls. But I do get for feelings for and have had those emotional feelings for girls. I get them for guys too. I would happily spend the rest of my life with a guy or girl, but with a guy I would be into them emotionally and very much physically :P I'd do or at least TRY anything with a guy. With girls, I could never imagine myself having sex with one, or eating them out stuff like that. But I've done make outs with a girl and enjoyed it. It just comes down to what you like.

[ImCoolBeans]

In all honesty, I think you're fishing for a label to slap yourself with, Eric. I know that there is the desire and want to figure everything out and know what to call yourself, but accepting yourself if the most important part of it all. I've seen you jump around from a few different ideas, and I just don't want to see you get lead into confusion with all of this. When you figure out your sexuality for sure you will know, and the feeling will be very distinct, you'll know what I'm talking about when you experience it. Just don't be so quick to apply yourself to any kind of label or stereotype because it might lead you to doubt and confusion down the line when you've been trying to believe something all along, and you begin to realize it may not be what it had once seemed. You'll figure this all out eventually, hell, I'm sure that most kids my age and older haven't figured it out. You're only 14, you've still got time. Nobody is rushing you :)

[JJSSHH]

Ive never heard that term before, but i dont necessrily like labels. Be who you want to be!