I'm not gay :/

[Rubes123]

Ok so I'm pretty sure everyone at my school thinks I'm gay :( I get so pissed off at these people, just because I only have a few guy friends at my school because pretty much all of them are gay hating douche bags, and I hang out with mostly girls you see, so Im fat right witch make it even worse to be in my school, I was getting changed In a packed changing room in the corner then these two guys comes like behind me and on of them said you do know he's gay right so then he was like ohhhh god I'm moving then he moved away :/ then he was like yeah get changed you gay fat boy quietly ( I was pretending I couldn't hear but I was hurting so much inside ) like I can effing here you :( and he was like don't take your top of guys and then the rest of the day I was so angry :( any ideas on what to do? :'(

[Zombie]

My suggestion would be to just ignore them, don't give them what they wan't because that makes them win. If you want you could take it to a teacher or somebody who could help. I know it can hurt bad but in the end of the day you should focus on whats important, not some guys opinion of you because he doesn't know better.

[plebble]

Ok so I'm pretty sure everyone at my school thinks I'm gay :( I get so pissed off at these people, just because I only have a few guy friends at my school because pretty much all of them are gay hating douche bags, and I hang out with mostly girls you see, so Im fat right witch make it even worse to be in my school, I was getting changed In a packed changing room in the corner then these two guys comes like behind me and on of them said you do know he's gay right so then he was like ohhhh god I'm moving then he moved away :/ then he was like yeah get changed you gay fat boy quietly ( I was pretending I couldn't hear but I was hurting so much inside ) like I can effing here you :( and he was like don't take your top of guys and then the rest of the day I was so angry :( any ideas on what to do? :'(

I'm hopeless with girls so this may not be a good idea I'm not sure, but maybe you could ask a girl to go out with you? Or maybe to one of your friends which are girls you could ask her if she'd pretend to go out with you just to prove to everyone you're not gay.
But really to be honest, the people at your school sound like right nobheads and I think they all know you're not gay, they just say it because they know it bothers you. So really you should just realise how pathetic you are and try to ignore them. I hope that's good advice :(

[Green Arrow]

Ignore them, they are just homophobic people who go on the stereotype that gay people hang around girls. They are not worth your time to be honest and if they continue to do this then talk to someone maybe a teacher or your parents because sometimes these type of situations can lead to drastic actions on your and there parts. Don't let it get out of hand. :)

[Stronger]

Ignore them, they are just homophobic people who go on the stereotype that gay people hang around girls. They are not worth your time to be honest and if they continue to do this then talk to someone maybe a teacher or your parents because sometimes these type of situations can lead to drastic actions on your and there parts. Don't let it get out of hand. :)

This ^, perfectly said, they are just dumb asses, that have nothing better to do with their life, execpt to pick on others. Clearly they must be pretty insecure about something to do it to you. Just ignore them and if it gets to the point where its constant then tell somebody, and don't be afraid to either, better to tell someone then to let it eat at you each time its happens.

[confused65]

talk to an adult. people do this to me all the time

[Extreme586]

Talking to an adult could make it worse, sometimes people like that get even more pissed and things like the word snitch get thrown around. By all means do it if it comes to your safety but with those type of people I think it comes down to letting them take advantage of the fact that you might be quiet or shy. Sometimes you got to speak your mind and let them know your a strong minded driven person to make them back off. They are cowards who prey on the weak so I suggest the next time comments like that get thrown around try and make a stand for yourself and make it perfectly clear that you are not and they need to stop acting the way they are.

With these types of people if you are strongly out spoken and call them out on when they are being ass holes you can usually gain support from people who are around you as well. If you feel like they might hurt you then yes absolutely go to an adult with the issue because its not worth starting a fight over but maybe even a more subtle approach like asking them why they do things/say shit like that behind your back. Don't get overly angry and try to keep a calm clear mind if you do take this approach because if you over react your just feeding the sharks because thats what they want out of you.

Also if you do confront them try to do it in front of other people so they ge the message as well, most people won't talk shit to your face if you have something to say about it when comments get thrown around.