Need Help w/ Friends

[Longfellow]

So I can never do or say anything without one of my friends telling someone. I never say anything adverse about my friends because I don't want them to do the same thing. Unfortunately, they Golden Rule doesn't work like we would all hope. They spread things about me frequently, and don't expect that I'll say anything about it; if anyone has any advice for me to bond enough with my friends so that they stop being selfish assholes, I'd greatly appreciate it.

[sage of craze]

It's not the advice you're looking for, but I really urge you to find better friends. Sounds like these people aren't giving you the respect you deserve, and you shouldn't put up with it.

[Weber_Swagg]

If they are going to tell your secrets then they are bad friends. You should find a way to set them straight or find new friends.

[Stryker125]

Get better friends.

[Desuetude]

unfortunately you can't change them even if it is for the better. If things are getting bad and it's only you they have been picking on then maybe you need to start looking for some better friends that are going to treat you right.

[Upgrade_U]

i would try and re-evaluate your friendship with the person