She didn't tell me

[Twistember]

Two of my best friends received a text message from one of our old best friends. It said that I was a fucking bitch with a pug nose and that she wanted to kick my scrawny ass. It said a lot of other things too, but I'd rather not say what they were. These two friends didn't tell me she said those things. And I found out when I answered a text from this ex-friend on one of my best friends phone. (she told me to, I didn't steal it.) Then that's when they told me about the other stuff she said and then they said that they were not planning on telling me. This made me really mad. I understand that they didn't want to hurt me, but don't I need to know? Isn't this some form of harassment? Saying that the next time she sees me she's going to punch me in the face, isn't that a threat?

I have no idea what the fuck I did. This ex-friend just stopped talking to me. Now all of a sudden she wants to punch me in the face.

This happened last wednesday, but it hasn't stopped bothering me. How do I approach this?

[Jmihas]

She's calling all what she calls you herself. She's a bitch and everything she calls you, because she likes attention. Call me for more help. :P

[plebble]

My girlfriend dumped me last week, I haven't a clue what I did wrong but now she hates me more than anyone in the world. I was so nice to her and I did everything for her and she randomly decides to hate me :(

I wish she'd tell me what I did that was so bad, I'm so upset :(

[Desuetude]

The thing is, deciding to tell a friend about something that will hurt them is a big and thought over decision. I had to tell someone yesterday that their boyfriend had been cheating on them and i was antagonising over it the whole day, I felt horrible. Yes you deserve to know but sometimes people are lazy and just try to find an easy way out, that or they just wanted to act as if everything was normal so it wouldn't blow up in their faces?

I know it will be hard but you need to try talking to her, or your other friends. If you want to get to the bottom of why she is acting like that then you need to know what's wrong. You could try sending her a letter, talking to her on facebook or something?