Jacobim123
March 25th, 2012, 10:14 PM
okay, this is kinda an odd situation. So, recently, I have lost a lot of weight (60lbs since august) and I am still a bit flabby I think I am ok. Now, there is a really good friend of mine that I have had feelings for since 7th grade, he is the reason i was motivated to get fit. I really like him, he is bi, and I really want him to know how I feel. but I am still nervous because it could affect our friendship, and maybe I am still too fat and he'll say no. I know we like a lot of the same things (sexually and otherwise) so it might work, but I just don't know if he will feel uncomfortable. I told him once that I had a crush on him, but that was 60lbs ago, and things might work out. I am really in love with him and I would be the happiest I've ever been if he was my boyfriend. He certainly doesn't know how I feel, and has told me he is a bit hesitant to get into a serious relationship, but I love him so much and sometimes I feel like I cant contain my feelings. Should I tell him? thanks in advance.